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People on this group!

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professionaloverthinker · 26/09/2024 08:57

Is it me or are more and more people on here just being fucking nasty for the sake of it?! Honestly if you have nothing nice to say to people that are genuinely looking for some advice because they haven't got anywhere else to turn just keep your opinion to yourself! It really isn't hard to be nice!

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TheRavenSaid · 26/09/2024 09:10

Bayern · 26/09/2024 09:05

Not sure if you are intending to be amusing or proving the OP's point.

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No, not intending to be amusing.

Just fed up of this weekly moan, seriously - if somewhere makes you so unhappy, really, why are you here?

thursdaymurderclub · 26/09/2024 09:08

maybe some days the person posting or replying has just had a really bad day and needs somewhere to let off steam before going back to the real world.

most people who post are well meaning, and it only appears rude when it doesnt agree with the general theme of the post.

MonsteraMama · 26/09/2024 09:07

Just ignore it 🤷‍♀️ I've had a few nasty comments on here in my time and I just assume they must be quite a miserable person to immediately jump to being nasty by default.

Putonyourredshoesanddancetheblues · 26/09/2024 09:07

And I think the unnecessary snarky comments make the individual look really dim.

As demonstrated in the post above.

I’m so tired, edited because I quoted the wrong bit!

Bayern · 26/09/2024 09:05

TheRavenSaid · 26/09/2024 08:59

Wow - thanks for your imput....

Maybe you could have added to one of the weekly threads this comes up on repeatedly?

If you dont like it - why are you here?

Not sure if you are intending to be amusing or proving the OP's point.

rainbowstardrops · 26/09/2024 09:05

I don't like it either. I mean, it's one thing to question an OP and their actions etc but I don't see the need to be plain nasty. I'd be surprised if those types of people would do so in real life.

spiderdave · 26/09/2024 09:03

I agree, I always think it's probably the people that won't say boo to a goose in real life, so they have to get it all off their chest anonymously. And I think the unnecessary snarky comments make the individual look really dim.

TheRavenSaid · 26/09/2024 08:59

Wow - thanks for your imput....

Maybe you could have added to one of the weekly threads this comes up on repeatedly?

If you dont like it - why are you here?