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Nick Robinson on the Today programme said that people affected by withdrawing the Winter Fuel Allowance were "the wartime generation". AIBU to think he's wrong?

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HauntedBungalow · 25/09/2024 21:53

Also, I am genuinely bored of this British obsession with referencing World War II when talking about unrelated random subjects.

World War II ended 80 years ago. The "wartime generation" don't need a Winter Fuel Allowance because they're all already dead, barring the odd 97 year old who is still living at home and paying all bills themselves.

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SeatonCarew · 26/09/2024 01:55

JenniferBooth · 25/09/2024 23:04

Some of the servicemen on Christmas Island when the atomic bomb was being tested were on National Service. Are you one of those MNers who had a uni education. Wasted if you did.

Thanks for remembering that @JenniferBooth . I know someone who sadly died horribly from cancer as a result of that decades later. It did horrible damage to his body. His very elderly wife was nursing him 24/7 for the last three years of his life.

RIP. 🌷

SeatonCarew · 26/09/2024 01:42

HauntedBungalow · 25/09/2024 22:25

I don't think many of those would consider themselves as having experienced war though, certainly not in the UK where there was no invasion/firestorm/atom bomb etc. My dear old Pa is age 91 and he certainly wasn't piloting war planes or landing on the beaches of Normandy during the war. I have asked him about what life was like in the war and he says he barely noticed it. Because he was a child!

He had a tough childhood but that was down to horrendous living/working conditions for the precariat labouring class.

He did national service when he was a bit older but from what I can gather that mostly consisted of getting hammered in country pubs and was a bit of a fun break from his job on the railway.

Anyway none of his lot were shoving it to bally Fritz or whatever.

Your last sentence is utterly appalling.

I never swear on here, but have some fucking respect for people who sacrificed a great deal - often everything - so you could live your life in freedom.

HauntedBungalow · 26/09/2024 00:40

@TheHateIsNotGood the problem you have is late stage capitalism. You personally didn't do anything "wrong"' I can almost guarantee that.

@Allthegoodnamesarechosen honestly, please just stop talking about the war. It's embarrassing. And no, the UK experience was nothing like the scale of the continent/russian/Japanese experience.

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Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 26/09/2024 00:25

Ignorance is not always bliss, OP.

’ It's not like the continent where entire areas got razed ‘

Nick Robinson on the Today programme said that people affected by withdrawing the Winter Fuel Allowance were "the wartime generation". AIBU to think he's wrong?
TheHateIsNotGood · 26/09/2024 00:25

I'm 1962 born and just scraping by as I look forward to my state pension as my only income.

It's a very good thing I suppose that I'm considered a 'lower' human being for my efforts towards effecting the considerable cultural changes needed to effect many of the changes that have now made it th'e norm' for the mothers of young children to go back out and earn a living to ensure that a 2 parent household earns enough to pay the bills.

Not quite what I was 'fighting' for for all those years,

Something has gone drastically wrong methinks.

HauntedBungalow · 26/09/2024 00:09

Yeah absolutely, the ones that couldn't access assets for whatever reason are really fucking poor.

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Windchimesandsong · 26/09/2024 00:08

Yet again I am horrified by this the sweeping assumptions about baby boomers. There not an homogeneous group. For every boomer that grew up in the land of milk of honey there are plenty others that have lived in poverty all their lives.

Yes this. Haven't got the link to hand but the stereotype of the "wealthy boomer" is just that. A stereotype.

As it happens, studies have found that inequality within older age groups is the most extreme of any age group in the UK.

HauntedBungalow · 26/09/2024 00:04

@Windchimesandsong Early death via shit housing and shit workplace conditions was the lot of the labouring class proletariat at that time. WWII hastened it for some. My own dear pa lost his own father at age 4 before the war even began, in a factory, but there are no national days of mourning for those men. He went on to have the kind of childhood you might expect a fatherless child in the 1930s to have ie an absolutely diabolical one.

The world is a different place now, for better or worse, and constantly harping on about one chapter in it is pointless and irrelevant.

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Redmat · 26/09/2024 00:01

HauntedBungalow · 25/09/2024 23:36

43000 is a lot but it's fuck all compared to Dresden, Leningrad, Hiroshima.

And it was all a long time ago and has nothing to do with winter fuel payments.

I'm not saying it has anything to do with winter fuel payments ,I'm just replying to your declaration that UK residents didn't experience war. A ridiculous statement.

HotSource · 25/09/2024 23:56

I am affected by loss of WFA. In that I am struggling on a small amount above full state pension, as a single householder, so have to heat my small home on one pension, and a new roof to save for. I got state pension in October last year, but didn’t get WFA then because you had to qualify by 28th Sept. My birthday is 5th Oct. And won’t get it this year. The difference it made is £50 pcm towards the Nov - Feb bills. I froze last year to make my bills affordable. But I am fit and active so can get out to the library etc rather than heat the house. Or used my Freedom Pass to sit in museums and galleries. It was culturally enlightening!

My parents were born in 1931 and died last year. I was born in a prefab house - it was like a hut, with a corrugated iron curved roof. Loads of people still lived in them. Rationing ended in 1954, 3 years before I was born.

I am not the war generation, my generation invented Punk, and bunked off school to watch A Clockwork Orange when underage.

I never collected pennies for a Spitfire, I’m not an old dear, and certainly not a Wealthy Boomer so contemptuously derided on MN. If I had ever had a WFA it would have been spent on heating. With gratitude.

Windchimesandsong · 25/09/2024 23:47

@HauntedBungalow DH's parents were young children during WW2. They're, I believe, known as "the silent generation". Not in their 90s. They're in their 80s. Some people in their 90s are still around though.

They didn't fight no (being children) but they did go through having fathers and uncles away fighting. Many of DH's parents generation lost a father or uncle to the war. Dead or terribly injured.

They also went through rationing (as did the older "boomers" because it didn't completely end until the 50s).

And they went through the bombings. And some of their generation, especially those from London (which today has the highest pensioner poverty levels in the UK) were evacuated - sent away from their parents during a war not knowing if they'd see them alive again.

They were born before the NHS and welfare state.

Also, the vast majority (and "boomers" too) left school at 14, 15, or 16 to start work. Only a very small minority went to university.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 25/09/2024 23:46

Inslopia · 25/09/2024 23:32

@PickAChew Thanks, I didn’t know about the cold weather payments.

CWP is only paid to people on certain income-related benefits, and even then, it only becomes payable when certain weather stations record a temperature below freezing for three consecutive days within a week. Usually it's no more than 2 or 3 payments in any calendar year, even in colder parts of the UK.

It's no longer paid in Scotland, where it has been replaced with a one-off annual Winter Heating Payment of £58.odd which usually materialises sometime around Christmas. So even if what is perpetually the coldest part of the UK suffers a historic freeze, tough, 58 quid is your lot.

LaurieFairyCake · 25/09/2024 23:45

National service ended in 63! Just a few years before I was born

My father did it, build sheds. Not an actual thing

LaurieFairyCake · 25/09/2024 23:43

Not the wartime generation, he clearly meant it as some mawkish phrase to evoke sympathy

A wartime generation means people old enough to be adults during the war, people who served during the war

A bit of rationing in the late 40's and 50's does not mean anything compared to the adults (vast majority dead) who actually served

My grandparents served in the war - my grandfather would have been 105 now, my father born almost at the end - obviously remembered nothing (if alive he would have been 81)

The wartime generation are dead

Coruscations · 25/09/2024 23:43

I do think there is a lazy assumption that all elderly people must have lived through the war and remember it well. An ex-neighbour of ours who is in his early 70s was quite unimpressed at being invited out to some sort of entertainment specifically targeted at the elderly where the music was all Vera Lynn and Gracie Fields - as he pointed out, in his teens and twenties he was listening to Elvis, the Beatles and the Rolling Stones.

Inslopia · 25/09/2024 23:36

@HauntedBungalow that figures.

Fifthtimelucky · 25/09/2024 23:36

I have no idea how many 90+ year olds there still are living independently, but I have 6 in my extended family (my parents' generation).
They range from 98 to 90.

They were all affected by rationing during their childhood, teen years and/or young adulthood.

Some were evacuated.

They were all affected by national service, either personally or because their boyfriends/future husbands served (some during the war and some just after).

They don't all need the winter fuel allowance, but in my view they all deserve to be described as the wartime generation, even though the youngest was still a child when war ended.

HauntedBungalow · 25/09/2024 23:36

Redmat · 25/09/2024 23:32

Your ignorance is astounding. 43,000 civilians were killed in the London blitz. Over 100,000 were injured. How can you say that not many people in the UK experienced the war because" there was no invasion /firestorm / atom bomb". Talk to my mother who watched the London docks burning ,who sat terrified in air shelters as bombs fell from the sky above, who stepped out into London streets that were demolished wondering if her home was still there ,and tell her she didn't experience war.

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43000 is a lot but it's fuck all compared to Dresden, Leningrad, Hiroshima.

And it was all a long time ago and has nothing to do with winter fuel payments.

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Inslopia · 25/09/2024 23:36

I mean I think child benefit/family allowance should still be universal like it used to be. Im also pretty sure they will raise the age of free prescriptions. It doesn’t make sense to have WF as universal simply because of age. I see the argument re cut offs but isn’t this true for all benefits?

HauntedBungalow · 25/09/2024 23:33

Inslopia · 25/09/2024 23:18

Why don’t younger people in poverty get WFP?

Interesting question.

They used to, or something like it, but it's been quietly shelved. Happened a few years ago, just when the "cap" (if you can even call it that any more) got raised to stratospheric levels.

Now you have to approach your fuel company, cap in hand, let them access your Bank statements etc, and maybe you'll get a discretionary payment. So ofc most people don't.

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Inslopia · 25/09/2024 23:32

@PickAChew Thanks, I didn’t know about the cold weather payments.

Redmat · 25/09/2024 23:32

HauntedBungalow · 25/09/2024 23:13

It's all a bit bloody tenuous though isn't it. Most working class people in the 30s/40s had awful living conditions, dangerous working conditions. Sure you were more likely to be killed in a steelworks making armaments, as a working 14 yo school leaver, than you were to be killed by a bomb, in the UK. It's not like the continent where entire areas got razed and cities starved and invaded, and actually as a regular citizen then as now your biggest enemy was the industry owners and land owners and there wasn't anything heroic about any of it.

But ofc it's probably better for the folks who have all the money now, to keep on churning out this bullshit about how the greatest threat was from Abroad.

Your ignorance is astounding. 43,000 civilians were killed in the London blitz. Over 100,000 were injured. How can you say that not many people in the UK experienced the war because" there was no invasion /firestorm / atom bomb". Talk to my mother who watched the London docks burning ,who sat terrified in air shelters as bombs fell from the sky above, who stepped out into London streets that were demolished wondering if her home was still there ,and tell her she didn't experience war.

PickAChew · 25/09/2024 23:31

Inslopia · 25/09/2024 23:18

Why don’t younger people in poverty get WFP?

Because they're not as physically vulnerable. Those on very low incomes and certain benefits get cold weather payments, though.

Inslopia · 25/09/2024 23:31

And not everyone who received the universal WFP was frail or poor.

Inslopia · 25/09/2024 23:29

Younger people can take on more employment, work extra hours. Younger people are generally more physically fit.When a skint 20yo student, I worked in a pub in the evenings which kept me warm and gave me a cash boost.

But young families may not have the capacity to take on more work. Not every person under 60 in poverty is a 20 yr old student.

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