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The Irony.. PM's donation was for ‘son to study for GCSEs’

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JustSpeechless · 25/09/2024 08:42

PM suggests £20,000 donation was for ‘son to study for GCSEs’ | The Independent

Sorry if there are other threads, but I did search and nothing came up.

“My boy, 16, was in the middle of his GCSEs. I made him a promise, a promise that he would be able to get to his school, do his exams, without being disturbed,” he told BBC Radio 4’s Today programme.

“But if you’re a 16-year-old trying to do your GCSEs and it’s your one chance in life – I promised him we would move somewhere, get out of the house and go somewhere where he could be peacefully studying.

So its OK for the PM to be worried about his child's "one chance" GCSE year being disturbed ...but he's not so worried about other people's children feeling stressed during their GCSEs by introducing the private school VAT during an academic school year.

I don't have a child in private school doing their GCSEs. And I know that there are lots of people who support the VAT and those who don't.

But I think there is a midline where lots of people on both sides of the fence agree making this change during an academic year is not fair on the kids in key exam years...and I am one of them because not all parents have a Lord Alli to step in to ensure their child's "one chance" GCSE year is not being disturbed.

For Voting:

Unreasonable - I am with Keir and I am not really bothered with other people's children's "one chance" school year being interrupted.

Not Unreasonable - I agree Labour should not interrupt the academic school year and introduce the VAT in September 2025.

PM suggests £20,000 donation was for ‘son to study for GCSEs’

The Prime Minister signalled he could continue to accept hospitality gifts from donors.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/keir-starmer-prime-minister-gcses-mps-government-b2618505.html

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JustSpeechless · 25/09/2024 13:49

89redballoons · 25/09/2024 09:47

This thread is about disrupting exam years, and @coruscations is absolutely right that bringing in VAT on private school fees won't force the vast majority of private school parents to disrupt their children's exam years.

That’s not actually true - each and every private school family will be having family conversations about whether they can afford the vat / or are prepared to pay the vat and what their options are if they can’t or don’t want to. And thousands of private school children will be wondering if their place in school, where they have settled and made friends, will be disrupted and they will feel anxious about whether they might be expected to move. And there have been private school closures due to the Vat coming in.

Some kids would have moved during key exam years - some kids will have to move during key exam years.

Some will be doing their GCSEs knowing whatever outcome they have they might need to move schools for 6th form.

And the government school kids will have new children in their class mid-year - children who might need extra teacher support because that child as working under a different time table and/or exam board. And if the teacher if helping this new pupil than the other existing kids will get less attention.

Any decent parent knows it’s best to avoid disruption during any school year - but as Keir himself knows disruption during key exam years is to be avoided.

I like what one other poster said above - Keir’s son could have studied in the library like other children with busy homes do.

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ruffler45 · 25/09/2024 13:46

user1486984759 · 25/09/2024 13:34

It's hypocritical but no different from parents whose kids go to state schools for free and want parents who already pay private school tuition to also pay VAT on top.

How about state school parents paying to improve state schools because, after all, it's their kids who go to these schools.

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Everybody (incl non parents ) pay for state schools through their taxes already so they are definitely not free.

user1486984759 · 25/09/2024 13:34

It's hypocritical but no different from parents whose kids go to state schools for free and want parents who already pay private school tuition to also pay VAT on top.

How about state school parents paying to improve state schools because, after all, it's their kids who go to these schools.

WhatsitWiggle · 25/09/2024 13:17

I'd rather the focus is on providing more SEN support for those children who cannot manage in a mainstream secondary but for whom there is no available alternative. My daughter is getting a second chance at GCSEs, she's technically year 12 but not at college, because the LA could not provide a suitable education for her to do her GCSEs at 16.

If VAT on private schools means more funding for state education, then good. Private schools are not charitable institutions. I agree introducing it with short notice is harsh, but the schools don't have to pass all that cost on to the parents.

elastamum · 25/09/2024 13:09

As a labour activist who campaigned for our new local MP I am incredibly disappointed by the donations our PM and ministers have taken. To take 100k in donations whilst refusing to lift the 2 child benefit cap and removing the winter fuel allowance from pensioners is hypocrisy in the extreme. The private school fees policy is just dog whistle politics and won't solve the problems in the state system. I had hoped for better from this government and won't be campaigning again.

PixieMcGraw · 25/09/2024 12:59

The fact is that during the late 90s and early 2000s there was a baby boom. We are at the end of that now and actually there is a lot of capacity in the state system. You just have to google it and it's all there. The extra capacity needed for private school students is available.
The row about Starmer is different. It's whether you agree or not that a party that pledged to end corruption and cronyism should behave in a different way to their predecessors. It looks bad. The £4m donation from a shady hedge fund is also quite shocking.
Children have to cope with exams while their families are homeless and study in bedsits. My DS1 had to revise while the house next door had building work going on from 8am until 8pm. But I don't have a rich friend with a penthouse so like everyone else, just had to suck it up.

user593 · 25/09/2024 12:47

@BIossomtoes You need to be on a reasonably high income to be able to afford a private nursery. I earn a decent wage but I live in London and if I go back to work after mat leave (with two children in nursery) I would only break even.

Re university, university attendance is much more common among the middle and upper classes, there is a reason for that. It is not just about a person’s ability to get in to university but their ability to afford it and the associated costs, and their appetite for taking on that amount in of debt if they’re from a lower socioeconomic background and the lack of financial security that affords (ie no bank of mum and dad).

ruffler45 · 25/09/2024 12:43

Small socialist brain but large capitalist pockets..

godmum56 · 25/09/2024 12:42

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 25/09/2024 12:03

Why do some posters assume that criticising anything about Labour means that you liked the Tories or have forgotten about their behaviour?

Many of those criticising Starmer are simply disappointed because they hoped for better. Not in a naïve 'Labour are saints, Starmer is the messiah' way. Just in a 'Well they seem like they'll be at least a bit less venal and corrupt than the last lot' way. And yes, they probably are a bit. People were hoping for more than a bit.

I voted Labour a bit reluctantly, due to their history on gender issues, but I didn't really expect this level of hypocrisy over freebees etc from them. Certainly not this soon, anyway!

oh I did!

godmum56 · 25/09/2024 12:40

LittleBitAlexisLaLaLaLaLa · 25/09/2024 11:48

I don’t see how you can equate this to VAT on private schools policy? I’m trying to but nope, don’t see it.

In Starmers position if I thought my child’s exams would be disturbed by the election campaign (which I would think is fairly likely) I too would want to send them somewhere else so they could focus on them in peace. If Sunak or another Tory I can not stand did the exact same thing I would think it’s totally sensible of them too.

yes but you'd pay for it yourself.

Didimum · 25/09/2024 12:39

cheezncrackers · 25/09/2024 12:24

Another little bit of maths for you.

615,000 children in private education in the UK.

615,000 x £7460 = £4,535,680,000

That's how much money parents who send their DC to private school are saving the government every year. Four and a half billion pounds.

This is a moot point when the needle won't significantly move on kids keeping their private school places.

RufustheFactualReindeer · 25/09/2024 12:30

bloopy

absolutely, which is one of the reasons i don’t agree with that particular policy

Bloopy2 · 25/09/2024 12:29

RufustheFactualReindeer · 25/09/2024 12:25

So many comments

saying it saves the taxpayer is a fact

saying its doing the taxpayer a favour is the bit i don’t like, when people say why they picked private education i doubt the the ‘i would like to save the taxpayer £8k’ is in the top 10 reasons

Maths doesn't care about motivation though.

The fact remains that if there were suddenly no private schools the government would have to find an extra £4.5billion to educate private school children in state schools. So those who are arguing against the very existence of private schools have to square this fact with their ideology.

RufustheFactualReindeer · 25/09/2024 12:26

Fair point eastern 🙂

movingonok · 25/09/2024 12:25

TealTraybake · 25/09/2024 09:27

Would all those parents carping about being happy with the VAT on education, be happy to increase their taxes to improve all state schools. No. Thought not.

Well. Quite.

RufustheFactualReindeer · 25/09/2024 12:25

So many comments

saying it saves the taxpayer is a fact

saying its doing the taxpayer a favour is the bit i don’t like, when people say why they picked private education i doubt the the ‘i would like to save the taxpayer £8k’ is in the top 10 reasons

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 12:25

RufustheFactualReindeer · 25/09/2024 12:20

I know its a fact, doesn’t change my mind about the whole ‘doing you a favour’ comments

You quoted

whilst saving the taxpayer £8k a year

That doesn't use the phrase doing a favour

cheezncrackers · 25/09/2024 12:24

cheezncrackers · 25/09/2024 12:15

And yet, that's exactly what parents are doing when they remove their DC from a state school and send them private. The government spends £7,460 per child, per year for education so for every DC that goes private, that's the amount the government is saving every year by not having to educate them.

Another little bit of maths for you.

615,000 children in private education in the UK.

615,000 x £7460 = £4,535,680,000

That's how much money parents who send their DC to private school are saving the government every year. Four and a half billion pounds.

1apenny2apenny · 25/09/2024 12:22

The wanting to shield his son I get however someone in his position would have surely had a few options, line perhaps paying for it yourself, moving in with family? Thousands of children have their exams interrupted or are carers so their life is never 'normal'.

Remember he is a multi millionaire. As others have said 'do as I say, but as I do' and btw you've worked hard and have a bit left over so we'll tax the arse off you at the same time.

RufustheFactualReindeer · 25/09/2024 12:20

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 12:02

It's still a fact that it saves the state money which is why some other countries actually do do a rebate.

I know its a fact, doesn’t change my mind about the whole ‘doing you a favour’ comments

Frowningprovidence · 25/09/2024 12:20

Bloopy2 · 25/09/2024 11:13

What about students that have just started Y10? Or those in Y9 where the school starts GCSE courses in that year (which my children's (state) school does)?

Well to be honest the same applies. The school should offset VAT, apply bursaries to those who are really struggling, and offer a payment plan to help with continuity. If a parent was affording 22k, then presumably when they move to a state sixth form, paying the delta over 2 years would be much more achievable. Annoying for them but they'd go from paying 1.8k a month to about 183, without any bursary or offset.

Year 9 I think they would stand a good chance of finding a state school that does the more standard 2 Year GCSE. Which is crap for them I'm sure. But the kier thing was about the gcse year specifically.

Saschka · 25/09/2024 12:19

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 25/09/2024 12:03

Why do some posters assume that criticising anything about Labour means that you liked the Tories or have forgotten about their behaviour?

Many of those criticising Starmer are simply disappointed because they hoped for better. Not in a naïve 'Labour are saints, Starmer is the messiah' way. Just in a 'Well they seem like they'll be at least a bit less venal and corrupt than the last lot' way. And yes, they probably are a bit. People were hoping for more than a bit.

I voted Labour a bit reluctantly, due to their history on gender issues, but I didn't really expect this level of hypocrisy over freebees etc from them. Certainly not this soon, anyway!

Exactly - I am to the left of KS and have never liked him much, but held my nose and voted for him despite the weasly pandering to the right wing tabloids because I hoped he’d at least fund public services better than the Tories did.

I wasn’t expecting miracles, but I was not expecting his snout to be in the trough within the first month. No, he isn’t as bad as Boris, but neither are any other Tory MPs - Boris was a grabby outlier even in his own party.

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 12:15

Daltonbear1 · 25/09/2024 12:12

As james o Brian says the media mainly right wing press which is near everything is influencing this and stuff that really isn't a problem like a photographer is par for the role for rayner etc. It's designed to get uou pissed off. Plus you say you wanted better and it's not about starmer being a messiah yet they have barely got started and it's unrealistic how these posts seem on a daily basis. We haven't had election for many years in July which means it's a slow start and what is happening is he doesn't have control on his communications which be needs he's not playing smart politics which is what he needs he's ironically being to truthful he declared stuff which is jow uou have found out bh the way not hidden It like the tories do

All the press is covering it including The Guardian which is not 'right wing press'. That's what happens when you're in power. No point using the same sort of attacks to get into power and then complaining when you're in the firing line.

cheezncrackers · 25/09/2024 12:15

RufustheFactualReindeer · 25/09/2024 11:57

whilst saving the taxpayer £8k a year

its this sort of comment that makes me eyeroll…absolutely get your children the best you can if thats what you want to do but lets not act like you are doing everyone else a massive favour

And yet, that's exactly what parents are doing when they remove their DC from a state school and send them private. The government spends £7,460 per child, per year for education so for every DC that goes private, that's the amount the government is saving every year by not having to educate them.

Daltonbear1 · 25/09/2024 12:12

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 25/09/2024 12:03

Why do some posters assume that criticising anything about Labour means that you liked the Tories or have forgotten about their behaviour?

Many of those criticising Starmer are simply disappointed because they hoped for better. Not in a naïve 'Labour are saints, Starmer is the messiah' way. Just in a 'Well they seem like they'll be at least a bit less venal and corrupt than the last lot' way. And yes, they probably are a bit. People were hoping for more than a bit.

I voted Labour a bit reluctantly, due to their history on gender issues, but I didn't really expect this level of hypocrisy over freebees etc from them. Certainly not this soon, anyway!

As james o Brian says the media mainly right wing press which is near everything is influencing this and stuff that really isn't a problem like a photographer is par for the role for rayner etc. It's designed to get uou pissed off. Plus you say you wanted better and it's not about starmer being a messiah yet they have barely got started and it's unrealistic how these posts seem on a daily basis. We haven't had election for many years in July which means it's a slow start and what is happening is he doesn't have control on his communications which be needs he's not playing smart politics which is what he needs he's ironically being to truthful he declared stuff which is jow uou have found out bh the way not hidden It like the tories do