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The Irony.. PM's donation was for ‘son to study for GCSEs’

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JustSpeechless · 25/09/2024 08:42

PM suggests £20,000 donation was for ‘son to study for GCSEs’ | The Independent

Sorry if there are other threads, but I did search and nothing came up.

“My boy, 16, was in the middle of his GCSEs. I made him a promise, a promise that he would be able to get to his school, do his exams, without being disturbed,” he told BBC Radio 4’s Today programme.

“But if you’re a 16-year-old trying to do your GCSEs and it’s your one chance in life – I promised him we would move somewhere, get out of the house and go somewhere where he could be peacefully studying.

So its OK for the PM to be worried about his child's "one chance" GCSE year being disturbed ...but he's not so worried about other people's children feeling stressed during their GCSEs by introducing the private school VAT during an academic school year.

I don't have a child in private school doing their GCSEs. And I know that there are lots of people who support the VAT and those who don't.

But I think there is a midline where lots of people on both sides of the fence agree making this change during an academic year is not fair on the kids in key exam years...and I am one of them because not all parents have a Lord Alli to step in to ensure their child's "one chance" GCSE year is not being disturbed.

For Voting:

Unreasonable - I am with Keir and I am not really bothered with other people's children's "one chance" school year being interrupted.

Not Unreasonable - I agree Labour should not interrupt the academic school year and introduce the VAT in September 2025.

PM suggests £20,000 donation was for ‘son to study for GCSEs’

The Prime Minister signalled he could continue to accept hospitality gifts from donors.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/keir-starmer-prime-minister-gcses-mps-government-b2618505.html

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Clavinova · 25/09/2024 16:32

^Sir Keir spoke to Sir Laurie on his first day in Downing Street “to have a discussion with him about standards and the enforcement of standards”.
The prime minister said the importance of this had been impressed upon his ministers too.^

“I was really clear with the cabinet that standards apply. I made it clear the ministerial code, they will be receiving a copy of it, and it will have the Nolan Principles inside and alongside it.”

The so-called Nolan Principles were first set out almost 30 years ago and aim to set a moral template against which those in high office should judge their actions.

The Seven Principles of Public Life as they are also known, are selflessness, integrity, objectivity, accountability, openness, honesty and leadership.

“That is the standards I expect of them. As I’ve said throughout, people falling short of the required standards will face consequences, as you would expect,” the prime minister said.

Missing out on a few Arsenal football games wouldn't come under the definition of 'selflessness' then?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4ng8l9klrvo

BIossomtoes · 25/09/2024 16:16

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 16:14

Or they could pay for it themselves or hire dresses, others have and it was fine

Plus more sustainable

Absolutely. And that’s exactly what should be happening. And I expect will from here on in.

JustSpeechless · 25/09/2024 16:15

Leniriefenstahl · 25/09/2024 15:23

Must mix in different circles to me then. I know nobody who can ever afford private education. Could never accumulate £23k in one year. Hell, it’s not much less than my entire annual wage. You’re normalising something beyond the means of most.

I was replying to the other poster who thinks that most private school parents were so wealthy they could not only accumulate £23k in a year but they could also accumulate future years in fees in advance.

I’m not normalising anything at all. But yes private school fees are beyond the means of most. I don’t think anyone would dispute that.

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EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 16:14

Putting · 25/09/2024 16:13

Yeah, that’s one area that I think it’s perfectly fine to accept donations.

Or they could pay for it themselves or hire dresses, others have and it was fine

Plus more sustainable

Putting · 25/09/2024 16:13

BIossomtoes · 25/09/2024 15:49

No, no, no, no! I absolutely don’t want taxpayers footing the bill for frocks.

Yeah, that’s one area that I think it’s perfectly fine to accept donations.

luckylavender · 25/09/2024 16:08

@Blossomtoes - exactly. And he's saving tax payer money.

Clavinova · 25/09/2024 16:06

Ultimately the Johnson's paid for the flat decorations and furnishings themselves and refunded the donors (and your link shows an estimated bill, not what they decided to purchase). Johnson's decision to refund the donors was precipitated by Angela Rayner complaining to the Commissioner for Parliamentary Standards asking for an investigation. Rayner also complained to the Commissioner regarding Johnson's holidays in Marbella and Mustique - therefore she should expect scrutiny of her own freebie holidays.

BIossomtoes · 25/09/2024 16:03

TeenagersAngst · 25/09/2024 15:55

Which is irrelevant. If it's not safe for a PM to be in the stands, why was Sunak there?

It isn’t irrelevant. It’s wellknown that Starmer is at the Emirates for every home game. Sunak very rarely and sporadically attended a Southampton match and it wouldn’t be public knowledge that he was going to be there.

TeenagersAngst · 25/09/2024 15:55

luckylavender · 25/09/2024 15:30

@TeenagersAngst - how many times did Sunak go to football? Answer, not many. Starmer goes very often.

Which is irrelevant. If it's not safe for a PM to be in the stands, why was Sunak there?

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 15:55

Leniriefenstahl · 25/09/2024 15:01

Never known such a disgruntled shower of opposition party activists posters ? Their ‘team’ had 14 years to sort stuff out. They didn’t. Actually wondering whether they are mainly Faragists rather than Tories. What with all the nicknames for Starmer dragged over from SM.
Funnily enough this is all reminiscent of Trump’s stubborn denial that Bidden won the election, there’s a repeated theme on certain websites that Starmer didn’t win, the Tories lost, he’s not our rightful PM. Really makes you wonder who really wants to drag the UK into chaos. Surely if you’re a loyal Brit you want the best for your country.

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Ah yes I'm sure you did not post a word against the last gov as a 'loyal Brit'

What a load of tosh. Just because your party is now in power you can't expect everyone to stop talking about them.

And if you rejoiced in the media / posters / SM taking down the last lot so they were out you can't complain now you're in the firing line.

89redballoons · 25/09/2024 15:54

JustSpeechless · 25/09/2024 15:17

But I didn't use the word 'most' I used the word 'some' and I also didn't say parents were living hand to mouth - what I did say is some private school parents don't have these high levels of income where they have stashed money away for future years fees. They just don't. I know plenty like this and so the word 'some' fits my understanding. The fees for standard not-too-flash but the small class sizes will suit your SEN child private schools in our area are £23k a year - people are not setting aside in advance this level of money for future years. They are just not - they are working and paying the fees in the same year they are due.

The parents you are talking about do have a decent level of disposable income, then, because they can afford to pay almost £2k a month in school fees. I'm sure they do make sacrifices elsewhere, as in they don't have fancy holidays or really flash cars or houses, but they have this £2k for school fees on top of mortgage/rent, food, electricity, clothing, commuting costs and so on.

As PP have said that is a lot more disposable income than most people in this country.

I would be pretty surprised if a majority of those parents, with that financial profile, couldn't get a loan for £4,600 (the VAT on one year's school fees) and manage to pay it off over a year or two. For the year our theoretical child is in Y12, those parents would have expected to pay £23,000 out of their income for school fees until Labour were elected and announced the details of VAT on school fees; so it would be unusual if they couldn't pay £5,000 instead.

llamali · 25/09/2024 15:52

I think its fair enough. It's got to be shit being the son of a potential prime minister with cameras following the family's move. Any celebrity or public figure would do the same if they could.
The VAT thing is a separate issue

BIossomtoes · 25/09/2024 15:49

Fangirl79 · 25/09/2024 15:45

There are costs attached to certain roles that should be treated as official expenses, with an allowance attached. Cabinet ministers and their partners need to be smartly turned out for certain occasions such as state visits, summits, memorials, receptions etc.. It is perfectly reasonable for female PM or wife of PM to receive an official dress allowance to equip them for occasions when they are representing the Govt or country- same goes for senior Military and Diplomatic figures and their spouses. Military commanders receive allowances for entertainment as they are expected to provide hospitality- I'm sure the same principle applies to senior politicians.

What we shouldn't be seeing is private gifts and donations to cover the costs of national office.

No, no, no, no! I absolutely don’t want taxpayers footing the bill for frocks.

JudgeJ · 25/09/2024 15:49

kirbykirby · 25/09/2024 09:10

They're all a bunch of hypocrite champagne socialists, "do as we say, not as we do".

'Twas ever thus.

Bollihobs · 25/09/2024 15:46

Leniriefenstahl · 25/09/2024 15:01

Never known such a disgruntled shower of opposition party activists posters ? Their ‘team’ had 14 years to sort stuff out. They didn’t. Actually wondering whether they are mainly Faragists rather than Tories. What with all the nicknames for Starmer dragged over from SM.
Funnily enough this is all reminiscent of Trump’s stubborn denial that Bidden won the election, there’s a repeated theme on certain websites that Starmer didn’t win, the Tories lost, he’s not our rightful PM. Really makes you wonder who really wants to drag the UK into chaos. Surely if you’re a loyal Brit you want the best for your country.

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I think the "Starmer didn’t win, the Tories lost" comes from the polling figures that show that in many constituencies Labour won the seat this time polling less votes than they lost to the Tories with in the previous election. People didn't rush out in their droves to vote Labour and drive their polling numbers up from last time, rather folk who would have voted Tory simply didn't vote at all.

Fangirl79 · 25/09/2024 15:45

There are costs attached to certain roles that should be treated as official expenses, with an allowance attached. Cabinet ministers and their partners need to be smartly turned out for certain occasions such as state visits, summits, memorials, receptions etc.. It is perfectly reasonable for female PM or wife of PM to receive an official dress allowance to equip them for occasions when they are representing the Govt or country- same goes for senior Military and Diplomatic figures and their spouses. Military commanders receive allowances for entertainment as they are expected to provide hospitality- I'm sure the same principle applies to senior politicians.

What we shouldn't be seeing is private gifts and donations to cover the costs of national office.

luckylavender · 25/09/2024 15:30

@TeenagersAngst - how many times did Sunak go to football? Answer, not many. Starmer goes very often.

luckylavender · 25/09/2024 15:28

dottiehens · 25/09/2024 10:01

I would said he is worse than Boris. Purely because he is a double standards politician who got in by selling us on his integrity. Now we see how he looks so much better groomed than Boris with so much stuff given for free even his glasses. He makes me sick!

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You think Johnson bought his own clothes? Johnson didn't even buy his own food.

luckylavender · 25/09/2024 15:25

cheezncrackers · 25/09/2024 09:14

I just heard this on the radio while I was doing the school run. Ugh! He makes me sick. It's one rule him and his kids and one rule for everyone else. He can accept donations, as long as it's to ensure his kids are happy, apparently. He used taking his son to watch the football as justification for accepting free tickets to that too. He's a fucking hypocrite! All those years he stood on the other side of the dispatch box carping at the Tories and making fun of BJ and his fancy wallpaper and here he is, doing exactly the same things. Piggies with their snouts in the trough, all of them. And they always have some bullshit reason why it's okay for them, but not for everyone else.

That's what you get when you half listen to a story. Starmer is a massive Arsenal fan & has had a season ticket for a very long time as has his son. He still buys these season tickets but Arsenal suggested they give him a box so the security costs to the tax payer are less. So he still pays & he costs the tax payer less.

Leniriefenstahl · 25/09/2024 15:23

JustSpeechless · 25/09/2024 15:17

But I didn't use the word 'most' I used the word 'some' and I also didn't say parents were living hand to mouth - what I did say is some private school parents don't have these high levels of income where they have stashed money away for future years fees. They just don't. I know plenty like this and so the word 'some' fits my understanding. The fees for standard not-too-flash but the small class sizes will suit your SEN child private schools in our area are £23k a year - people are not setting aside in advance this level of money for future years. They are just not - they are working and paying the fees in the same year they are due.

Must mix in different circles to me then. I know nobody who can ever afford private education. Could never accumulate £23k in one year. Hell, it’s not much less than my entire annual wage. You’re normalising something beyond the means of most.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 25/09/2024 15:21

This is a false equivalence to the point of absurdity

JustSpeechless · 25/09/2024 15:17

89redballoons · 25/09/2024 14:46

It is completely ogical to assume that a majority of private school parents have a decent amount of disposable income - because they can afford to send their children to private school. By definition that is something that is normally only an option for people with a really decent amount of disposable income, or else help from family, or savings.

Do you have any statistics on hand to show that most private school parents are living month to month with no plan in place for funding the next year's fees?

But I didn't use the word 'most' I used the word 'some' and I also didn't say parents were living hand to mouth - what I did say is some private school parents don't have these high levels of income where they have stashed money away for future years fees. They just don't. I know plenty like this and so the word 'some' fits my understanding. The fees for standard not-too-flash but the small class sizes will suit your SEN child private schools in our area are £23k a year - people are not setting aside in advance this level of money for future years. They are just not - they are working and paying the fees in the same year they are due.

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derxa · 25/09/2024 15:15

You might as well be hanged for a sheep as for a lamb

Lucked · 25/09/2024 15:15

They shouldn’t be allowed gifts.

GMC tells doctors to decline gifts over £10 but politicians can accept a value of £20000. It is unethical, no one believes you can’t buy influence.