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The Irony.. PM's donation was for ‘son to study for GCSEs’

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JustSpeechless · 25/09/2024 08:42

PM suggests £20,000 donation was for ‘son to study for GCSEs’ | The Independent

Sorry if there are other threads, but I did search and nothing came up.

“My boy, 16, was in the middle of his GCSEs. I made him a promise, a promise that he would be able to get to his school, do his exams, without being disturbed,” he told BBC Radio 4’s Today programme.

“But if you’re a 16-year-old trying to do your GCSEs and it’s your one chance in life – I promised him we would move somewhere, get out of the house and go somewhere where he could be peacefully studying.

So its OK for the PM to be worried about his child's "one chance" GCSE year being disturbed ...but he's not so worried about other people's children feeling stressed during their GCSEs by introducing the private school VAT during an academic school year.

I don't have a child in private school doing their GCSEs. And I know that there are lots of people who support the VAT and those who don't.

But I think there is a midline where lots of people on both sides of the fence agree making this change during an academic year is not fair on the kids in key exam years...and I am one of them because not all parents have a Lord Alli to step in to ensure their child's "one chance" GCSE year is not being disturbed.

For Voting:

Unreasonable - I am with Keir and I am not really bothered with other people's children's "one chance" school year being interrupted.

Not Unreasonable - I agree Labour should not interrupt the academic school year and introduce the VAT in September 2025.

PM suggests £20,000 donation was for ‘son to study for GCSEs’

The Prime Minister signalled he could continue to accept hospitality gifts from donors.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/keir-starmer-prime-minister-gcses-mps-government-b2618505.html

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EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 18:34

Domino20 · 25/09/2024 18:31

Comms people, desperate to justify their roles in the post election landscape I think.

Nice try but you might like to look again at the numbers - loads are irritated, you can see it in commentary, media and polls

As for comms people - assuming you are a Labour supporter your party might want some better ones

Domino20 · 25/09/2024 18:31

Butterflyfern · 25/09/2024 09:11

Why are there constant threads on here ATM trying to paint the Keir as Boris Johnson?

Is it disgruntled Tory voters sulking or something more organised by a Comms team linked somehow to Tory Party support?

Comms people, desperate to justify their roles in the post election landscape I think.

godmum56 · 25/09/2024 18:11

Putting · 25/09/2024 18:09

I was thinking of politicians and their plus ones generally, not just KS and his wife.

I actually don’t know how many formal outfits the average MP / minister would need. But if it’s a lot, and they’re photographed a lot, it could mean that even hiring outfits (assuming they’re a standard shape and size) gets expensive quickly. I think it anyone needs non-standard clothing for work it shouldn’t come out of their personal income.

what is this thing about needing different clothes every time?

Putting · 25/09/2024 18:09

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 18:00

But not all politicians have the same background.

Your post said politicians. Starmer is the politician, his wife is not.

If you did mean dresses not suits for the spouse then they can be hired. It's wasteful to need a new formal dress to wear only once.

I was thinking of politicians and their plus ones generally, not just KS and his wife.

I actually don’t know how many formal outfits the average MP / minister would need. But if it’s a lot, and they’re photographed a lot, it could mean that even hiring outfits (assuming they’re a standard shape and size) gets expensive quickly. I think it anyone needs non-standard clothing for work it shouldn’t come out of their personal income.

godmum56 · 25/09/2024 18:07

Boomer55 · 25/09/2024 17:04

He did what most of us do. The best we can for our kids. 🤷‍♀️

no. He took stuff from someone else to do it when he is a rich man and could afford to do it himself

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 18:00

Putting · 25/09/2024 17:54

You may have a very different job to me, but I certainly don’t have a wardrobe with appropriate formal evening outfits.

Day to day workwear, yes.

But not all politicians have the same background.

Your post said politicians. Starmer is the politician, his wife is not.

If you did mean dresses not suits for the spouse then they can be hired. It's wasteful to need a new formal dress to wear only once.

Putting · 25/09/2024 17:54

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 17:29

Why would you need different clothes to be PM?

A few suits and no one will care or notice, like any other well paid job

You may have a very different job to me, but I certainly don’t have a wardrobe with appropriate formal evening outfits.

Day to day workwear, yes.

JustSpeechless · 25/09/2024 17:52

89redballoons · 25/09/2024 16:40

That isn't what I said, though, as you know.

Nope don’t know - please could you be explicit in how I was normalising.

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HRTQueen · 25/09/2024 17:37

oh we have not had a private school VAT thread for all of what two days

this isn't new, Labour made it clear a while ago and schools have had a long time to prepare

not all the VAT has to be passed on to parents, like state school private schools have to manage on a tighter budget

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 17:29

Putting · 25/09/2024 17:27

But not all politicians have the same background.

If it is a genuine work requirement to have different clothes, there should either be a clothing allowance or acceptance of donations. The latter is less costly to the taxpayer and there could be conditions placed around what is allowed e.g. donations from British firms only, only 1 outfit accepted per firm per year etc

Why would you need different clothes to be PM?

A few suits and no one will care or notice, like any other well paid job

Putting · 25/09/2024 17:27

godmum56 · 25/09/2024 16:43

I do not. KS is a rich man and his wife comes from a wealthy family.

But not all politicians have the same background.

If it is a genuine work requirement to have different clothes, there should either be a clothing allowance or acceptance of donations. The latter is less costly to the taxpayer and there could be conditions placed around what is allowed e.g. donations from British firms only, only 1 outfit accepted per firm per year etc

nietzscheanvibe · 25/09/2024 17:15

TealTraybake · 25/09/2024 09:27

Would all those parents carping about being happy with the VAT on education, be happy to increase their taxes to improve all state schools. No. Thought not.

No. Thought not.

Erm... yes!

And to improve the NHS. And social care. Etc, etc, etc...

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 17:05

Boomer55 · 25/09/2024 17:04

He did what most of us do. The best we can for our kids. 🤷‍♀️

A shame when politicians put in poor policy to make it hard for some doing GSCEs

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 17:04

llamali · 25/09/2024 17:02

If the people donating know it might go on party frocks then that's fine

I don't think it has done Starmer any favours actually. He's seen as a hypocrite and public opinion has dropped

Boomer55 · 25/09/2024 17:04

JustSpeechless · 25/09/2024 08:42

PM suggests £20,000 donation was for ‘son to study for GCSEs’ | The Independent

Sorry if there are other threads, but I did search and nothing came up.

“My boy, 16, was in the middle of his GCSEs. I made him a promise, a promise that he would be able to get to his school, do his exams, without being disturbed,” he told BBC Radio 4’s Today programme.

“But if you’re a 16-year-old trying to do your GCSEs and it’s your one chance in life – I promised him we would move somewhere, get out of the house and go somewhere where he could be peacefully studying.

So its OK for the PM to be worried about his child's "one chance" GCSE year being disturbed ...but he's not so worried about other people's children feeling stressed during their GCSEs by introducing the private school VAT during an academic school year.

I don't have a child in private school doing their GCSEs. And I know that there are lots of people who support the VAT and those who don't.

But I think there is a midline where lots of people on both sides of the fence agree making this change during an academic year is not fair on the kids in key exam years...and I am one of them because not all parents have a Lord Alli to step in to ensure their child's "one chance" GCSE year is not being disturbed.

For Voting:

Unreasonable - I am with Keir and I am not really bothered with other people's children's "one chance" school year being interrupted.

Not Unreasonable - I agree Labour should not interrupt the academic school year and introduce the VAT in September 2025.

He did what most of us do. The best we can for our kids. 🤷‍♀️

SmileyHappyPeopleInTheSun · 25/09/2024 17:03

noblegiraffe · 25/09/2024 09:23

Yes, however Ofqual said that loads of state school kids were learning in schools with inadequate facilities and didn’t even have teachers so if they gave special consideration to the RAAC kids then they’d need to justify not giving special consideration to all the kids disadvantaged by the various deficits in state schools.

And I guess I can see their point.

If only there were the same number of threads about those issues as the VAT one….

I'm surprised the RAAC isn't more in the news - it's still badly affecting DN old school and outside of them managing the problem there seems to be no solutions for them.

Teacher shortage I've mentioned how bad it's been for my DC and have been accused of scaremongering or outright lying. Thankfully it looks like they have finally managed some stability at least for last child's Y11. Other schools are now being badly affected and one hitting regional news with 60 + classes - this school there wasn't a peep when it was like that for my DC in couple of their subjects.

The shear number of VAT on private education threads is staggering - I'm not keen on it personally but much more worried and impacted by loss of winter fuel payments for recently bereaved parent.

llamali · 25/09/2024 17:02

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 16:14

Or they could pay for it themselves or hire dresses, others have and it was fine

Plus more sustainable

If the people donating know it might go on party frocks then that's fine

Alltheprettyseahorses · 25/09/2024 16:59

Leniriefenstahl · 25/09/2024 14:54

@Alltheprettyseahorses Really ? You’ve got a pretty low bar of tolerance for labour and a mountainous one for the tories. Did you give a toss about Johnson back in the day ? And reading previous posts you’re not exactly neutral are you ?
How will you cope with ‘honest’ Jenrick when he’s elected opposition leader ?

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1, I have zero tolerance for any politician, Labour happen to be in government.
2, No one is neutral.
3, If you're so bored you need to AS me you'll find out things like I was a Labour member, my last vote was for the Greens in 2015 but I've spoilt all my ballots since then and I've always had plenty to say about the Tories. Not that any of that matters in relation to my comments on this corrupt shower.
and 4) I find Jenrick repulsive, he turns my stomach in the same way as the likes of Ashworth did. Whichever clown the Tories pick as leader, however, is of absolutely no interest to me until the first scandal hits and/or they win a election.

Is that acceptable to you or would you like me to explain myself further? 🤨

BIossomtoes · 25/09/2024 16:44

godmum56 · 25/09/2024 16:42

but its should have happened from the get go, NOT "oh we won't do it any more now we have been caught out"

I completely agree. I’ll never defend it, it was naive and stupid.

Clavinova · 25/09/2024 16:43

From your links -
Deputy Labour Leader Angela Rayner added: “Despite raking in hundreds of thousands since being forced out of Downing Street, Boris Johnson is sponging off billionaire Tory donors...

Keir Starmer's income was over £400,000 last year.

godmum56 · 25/09/2024 16:43

Putting · 25/09/2024 16:13

Yeah, that’s one area that I think it’s perfectly fine to accept donations.

I do not. KS is a rich man and his wife comes from a wealthy family.

godmum56 · 25/09/2024 16:42

BIossomtoes · 25/09/2024 16:16

Absolutely. And that’s exactly what should be happening. And I expect will from here on in.

but its should have happened from the get go, NOT "oh we won't do it any more now we have been caught out"

godmum56 · 25/09/2024 16:41

Clavinova · 25/09/2024 16:32

^Sir Keir spoke to Sir Laurie on his first day in Downing Street “to have a discussion with him about standards and the enforcement of standards”.
The prime minister said the importance of this had been impressed upon his ministers too.^

“I was really clear with the cabinet that standards apply. I made it clear the ministerial code, they will be receiving a copy of it, and it will have the Nolan Principles inside and alongside it.”

The so-called Nolan Principles were first set out almost 30 years ago and aim to set a moral template against which those in high office should judge their actions.

The Seven Principles of Public Life as they are also known, are selflessness, integrity, objectivity, accountability, openness, honesty and leadership.

“That is the standards I expect of them. As I’ve said throughout, people falling short of the required standards will face consequences, as you would expect,” the prime minister said.

Missing out on a few Arsenal football games wouldn't come under the definition of 'selflessness' then?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4ng8l9klrvo

oh but do as I say not as I do

89redballoons · 25/09/2024 16:40

JustSpeechless · 25/09/2024 16:15

I was replying to the other poster who thinks that most private school parents were so wealthy they could not only accumulate £23k in a year but they could also accumulate future years in fees in advance.

I’m not normalising anything at all. But yes private school fees are beyond the means of most. I don’t think anyone would dispute that.

That isn't what I said, though, as you know.

godmum56 · 25/09/2024 16:40

llamali · 25/09/2024 15:52

I think its fair enough. It's got to be shit being the son of a potential prime minister with cameras following the family's move. Any celebrity or public figure would do the same if they could.
The VAT thing is a separate issue

its fair enough but parents should have paid.