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The Irony.. PM's donation was for ‘son to study for GCSEs’

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JustSpeechless · 25/09/2024 08:42

PM suggests £20,000 donation was for ‘son to study for GCSEs’ | The Independent

Sorry if there are other threads, but I did search and nothing came up.

“My boy, 16, was in the middle of his GCSEs. I made him a promise, a promise that he would be able to get to his school, do his exams, without being disturbed,” he told BBC Radio 4’s Today programme.

“But if you’re a 16-year-old trying to do your GCSEs and it’s your one chance in life – I promised him we would move somewhere, get out of the house and go somewhere where he could be peacefully studying.

So its OK for the PM to be worried about his child's "one chance" GCSE year being disturbed ...but he's not so worried about other people's children feeling stressed during their GCSEs by introducing the private school VAT during an academic school year.

I don't have a child in private school doing their GCSEs. And I know that there are lots of people who support the VAT and those who don't.

But I think there is a midline where lots of people on both sides of the fence agree making this change during an academic year is not fair on the kids in key exam years...and I am one of them because not all parents have a Lord Alli to step in to ensure their child's "one chance" GCSE year is not being disturbed.

For Voting:

Unreasonable - I am with Keir and I am not really bothered with other people's children's "one chance" school year being interrupted.

Not Unreasonable - I agree Labour should not interrupt the academic school year and introduce the VAT in September 2025.

PM suggests £20,000 donation was for ‘son to study for GCSEs’

The Prime Minister signalled he could continue to accept hospitality gifts from donors.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/keir-starmer-prime-minister-gcses-mps-government-b2618505.html

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BIossomtoes · 25/09/2024 12:11

cheezncrackers · 25/09/2024 11:56

Nobody seems to question how Reform operate. Funny that.

That's because Reform aren't in government!! Dear God, the whataboutery brigade are truly out in force today.

They’re still politicians. Most of the donations you’re so critical of were made when Labour weren’t in government either. Consistency isn’t whataboutery.

BIossomtoes · 25/09/2024 12:08

user593 · 25/09/2024 11:04

@HistoryMmam No one needs to send their children to nursery or attend university either. In England, it’s a choice that in the main only reasonably well off people have.

People need to send their children to nursery in order to be able to work. Equally any young person who’s bright enough to secure a place can attend university, regardless of parental income.

RafaistheKingofClay · 25/09/2024 12:07

LittleBitAlexisLaLaLaLaLa · 25/09/2024 11:48

I don’t see how you can equate this to VAT on private schools policy? I’m trying to but nope, don’t see it.

In Starmers position if I thought my child’s exams would be disturbed by the election campaign (which I would think is fairly likely) I too would want to send them somewhere else so they could focus on them in peace. If Sunak or another Tory I can not stand did the exact same thing I would think it’s totally sensible of them too.

It does seem like the sensible option might be for it to be taxpayer funded if we are saying that donors shouldn’t provide accommodation.

It is a perfectly reasonable reason to move out regardless of your party.

Another76543 · 25/09/2024 12:04

RufustheFactualReindeer · 25/09/2024 11:57

whilst saving the taxpayer £8k a year

its this sort of comment that makes me eyeroll…absolutely get your children the best you can if thats what you want to do but lets not act like you are doing everyone else a massive favour

This comment is in response to posters claiming that taxpayers “subsidise” private education. They don’t. Each privately educated would cost the taxpayer around £8k a year if they were state educated.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 25/09/2024 12:03

Why do some posters assume that criticising anything about Labour means that you liked the Tories or have forgotten about their behaviour?

Many of those criticising Starmer are simply disappointed because they hoped for better. Not in a naïve 'Labour are saints, Starmer is the messiah' way. Just in a 'Well they seem like they'll be at least a bit less venal and corrupt than the last lot' way. And yes, they probably are a bit. People were hoping for more than a bit.

I voted Labour a bit reluctantly, due to their history on gender issues, but I didn't really expect this level of hypocrisy over freebees etc from them. Certainly not this soon, anyway!

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 12:02

RufustheFactualReindeer · 25/09/2024 11:57

whilst saving the taxpayer £8k a year

its this sort of comment that makes me eyeroll…absolutely get your children the best you can if thats what you want to do but lets not act like you are doing everyone else a massive favour

It's still a fact that it saves the state money which is why some other countries actually do do a rebate.

Daltonbear1 · 25/09/2024 11:57

cheezncrackers · 25/09/2024 11:56

Nobody seems to question how Reform operate. Funny that.

That's because Reform aren't in government!! Dear God, the whataboutery brigade are truly out in force today.

But it's a point though those shouting about democracy don't give a shit that Nigel had made it so he can't be removed from his party but hey

RufustheFactualReindeer · 25/09/2024 11:57

whilst saving the taxpayer £8k a year

its this sort of comment that makes me eyeroll…absolutely get your children the best you can if thats what you want to do but lets not act like you are doing everyone else a massive favour

cheezncrackers · 25/09/2024 11:56

Nobody seems to question how Reform operate. Funny that.

That's because Reform aren't in government!! Dear God, the whataboutery brigade are truly out in force today.

EmpressoftheMundane · 25/09/2024 11:52

Quite so @TeenagersAngst !

I think Ali’s interests are the important thing to understand here. Starmer has embarrassed himself and Labour can drop the Tory sleaze schtick now, but that is by the by.

Understanding who might be influencing our politics and why is what matters.

Daltonbear1 · 25/09/2024 11:51

user593 · 25/09/2024 11:49

@Daltonbear1 I was referring to Boris, not Keir. Boris’ personal life and political track record meant his behaviour in office shouldn’t have come as a surprise to anyone. However more is expected of Keir and he has dramatically let his supporters down with his poor judgement.

Not let me down and yes Boris was a twat. I sit on the left but own Jones and those at novara media type lefties are pissing me off stop this he isn't a fucking God he is much better than what we had and listen to james o Brian as its been stirred up massively

user593 · 25/09/2024 11:49

@Daltonbear1 I was referring to Boris, not Keir. Boris’ personal life and political track record meant his behaviour in office shouldn’t have come as a surprise to anyone. However more is expected of Keir and he has dramatically let his supporters down with his poor judgement.

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 11:49

user593 · 25/09/2024 11:40

He is earning £8.5k a month after tax, has two kids in state school and recently settled his mortgage. His outgoings will be low, he can afford a couple of nice dresses, suits, and his own glasses.

Sorry I don’t know how that quote got in here but obviously my post is unrelated!

Edited

Of course he can. It's ridiculous people are pleading supermarket suits over this

Daltonbear1 · 25/09/2024 11:49

TeenagersAngst · 25/09/2024 11:47

Tony Blair is on record saying that he regretted holding John Major's government to such high standards when he was in opposition as it's almost impossible to be squeaky clean when in government and you are exposed for your hypocrisy.

I think Keir Starmer must be reflecting the same thing.

Fair enough however to compare him to the tories you can't at all. This is being stirred up by the media james o Brian says this and he is so accurate on this

Fangirl79 · 25/09/2024 11:48

Nc789123 · 25/09/2024 11:43

There are always going to be kids entering their GCSE year. Why would introducing it in 2025 help? Kids are still potentially going to be leaving their school they dont just settle in straight away. They shouldnt be adding VAT full stop.

I agree, but adding it part way through the year when people will struggle to secure state places if they need to, when children in exam years might find their GCSE options are no longer available, or are working to a different syllabus, seems particularly egregious. And it's the disruption of GCSEs being used to justify accepting the donation that's hypocritical

Newbutoldfather · 25/09/2024 11:48

@Nc789123 ,

I am not against VAT on fees but they could have done it with a 2 year lag, so all children could complete their current schooling phase.

OTOH, a lot of schools (I think the majority) are inviting parents to apply for hardship funds if they genuinely can’t afford to complete the year with the VAT rise.

LittleBitAlexisLaLaLaLaLa · 25/09/2024 11:48

I don’t see how you can equate this to VAT on private schools policy? I’m trying to but nope, don’t see it.

In Starmers position if I thought my child’s exams would be disturbed by the election campaign (which I would think is fairly likely) I too would want to send them somewhere else so they could focus on them in peace. If Sunak or another Tory I can not stand did the exact same thing I would think it’s totally sensible of them too.

TeenagersAngst · 25/09/2024 11:47

Tony Blair is on record saying that he regretted holding John Major's government to such high standards when he was in opposition as it's almost impossible to be squeaky clean when in government and you are exposed for your hypocrisy.

I think Keir Starmer must be reflecting the same thing.

Daltonbear1 · 25/09/2024 11:47

user593 · 25/09/2024 11:45

There was a massive ‘shit fuss’ and one action doesn’t justify another. I’m not saying what Boris did was any better, in fact I think it was far worse, but if anyone thought he had morals or was principled when he came into office given his track record they were naive.

I think he does have morals actually i am not niave as you say he's far better than the tories so stop bringing this gov down the far left abd the fucking right are pissing me off its like he's had to be so fucking white its unreal. We can have ideology or student politics or be so clean or we can have bloody pragmatism I hate how so many on the left do this

user593 · 25/09/2024 11:45

Daltonbear1 · 25/09/2024 11:41

Sure he can but I am also sure that Boris could have afforded food for a fucking year 24000 it was yet none of this shit fuss then it's an agenda to take labour down

There was a massive ‘shit fuss’ and one action doesn’t justify another. I’m not saying what Boris did was any better, in fact I think it was far worse, but if anyone thought he had morals or was principled when he came into office given his track record they were naive.

Nc789123 · 25/09/2024 11:43

There are always going to be kids entering their GCSE year. Why would introducing it in 2025 help? Kids are still potentially going to be leaving their school they dont just settle in straight away. They shouldnt be adding VAT full stop.

user593 · 25/09/2024 11:43

Coruscations · 25/09/2024 11:38

On the other hand, loads of people who have worked with him have said he is neither, and indeed that he was very kind, going out of his way to help juniors and others. I suspect your contact had their own agenda.

It was a long time ago, he may have changed, but his recent actions indicate otherwise. He can be those things and still be kind to juniors, they’re not mutually exclusive.

Daltonbear1 · 25/09/2024 11:41

user593 · 25/09/2024 11:40

He is earning £8.5k a month after tax, has two kids in state school and recently settled his mortgage. His outgoings will be low, he can afford a couple of nice dresses, suits, and his own glasses.

Sorry I don’t know how that quote got in here but obviously my post is unrelated!

Edited

Sure he can but I am also sure that Boris could have afforded food for a fucking year 24000 it was yet none of this shit fuss then it's an agenda to take labour down

Fangirl79 · 25/09/2024 11:41

Worried about disrupted GCSEs?
No, I don't believe that will happen. No, your son won't be affected by the journalists outside the house. You knew for years that you would be fighting a General Election so should have made provision. No, your family has absorbed increases in pressure and scrutiny in recent years so can continue to do so.

Not my views, just applying Reeves and Philipson logic to the question.

I think it must have been tough on junior Starmer in his GCSE summer, and it's not outrageous to take action to shield your child from that. What is outrageous is the hypocrisy; that it's okay to disrupt other people's children mid-year, but not your own, so justifying personal gifts from a wealthy donor.

user593 · 25/09/2024 11:40

Daltonbear1 · 25/09/2024 11:36

What about what about what about schools with raac i hear you cry? Well why didn't the fucking shit tories do fuck all and he wasn't a pm then. But the vat on posh schools may help towards shit schools hey thought about that and all you right wing reform tory twats that want lower taxes think on when schools are literally crumbling.
Now if a labour mate of starmer wanted to donate money so kid could revise without having the media on him fair enough we can all understand that. It's not being g hypocritical at all tbh this was before he became pm and we have a cabinet of secondary school pupils. Which means many of them don't have the capital that alot of the richer ones did which means it's tough because it takes money etc to fund stuff which is why the labour donor did this. So I don't want the pm role or mps to think right maybe we can't afford such and such personally if you look at how much other countries raise for their campaigns we don't raise that much.

Edited

He is earning £8.5k a month after tax, has two kids in state school and recently settled his mortgage. His outgoings will be low, he can afford a couple of nice dresses, suits, and his own glasses.

Sorry I don’t know how that quote got in here but obviously my post is unrelated!