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jucyjules · 23/09/2024 11:52

A man I work with has the hits for me ,
But I really like him as a friend
He is married and so am I
Am I wrong to chat and banter with him

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toomuchfaff · 23/09/2024 11:58

"am I wrong to encourage him"

Chat and banter easily mistaken for flirting. it's not your job to police his actions but it's within you're ability to shut it down.

poppyzbrite4 · 23/09/2024 11:58

Go for it OP! Has he got children? You could even split up a family if you're lucky. He won't be using you for sex, he'll have genuine feelings for you but he won't be able to leave for many reasons.

TheShellBeach · 23/09/2024 11:57

The hits?

And what does "Make Friendship" mean?

Rerrin · 23/09/2024 11:57

Tell him that while he may have the hits for you, you do not have the hits for him.

skippy67 · 23/09/2024 11:56

Yeah crack on. I mean, what's the worst that could happen...🙄

Ablondiebutagoody · 23/09/2024 11:54

Obviously

Lazzylegs · 23/09/2024 11:53

You know you are