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To feel annoyed when people bring their children to adult-only events?

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ThatTwinklyFinch · 22/09/2024 09:24

I’ve attended several adult-only events where some guests have brought their children along, despite clear instructions that the event was for adults only. I find it disruptive and inconsiderate to those who expected a child-free environment. AIBU to feel frustrated and expect people to adhere to event guidelines?

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TickingAlongNicely · 22/09/2024 09:31

Bringing any uninvited guest, before checking with the host, is rude.

Sethera · 22/09/2024 09:28

YANBU - it changes the dynamic of an event if children are present, and inevitably the children will want attention which at the very least will limit their parent's participation and possibly disrupt others.

Also, depending on the event and attendees, the need to keep conversation 'child-friendly' - no swearing etc. might be a constraint.

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