AIBU? Is this disgusting or am I just old-fashioned?!

Yes she is but men don't need to go along with it.

Yes she is.

If an 18 year old doesn't know what respectful behavior towards women is then we really are in trouble. I think the behavior of this woman is sickening too but just because it's offered it doesn't have to be accepted.

As I said up thread. Wouldn't it be great if no man turned up and instead made a collective stand to say no this type of behavior is disrespectful.

No. We're talking about the women AND the men, thank you, as it takes both for this to have occurred. You might prefer to gloss over the disgusting male behaviour in the scenario, but given its by far the greater problem here, in a ratio of one to five thousand in fact, its very much worth a mention.

It is the society we live in. One which tells men women are objects in so many subtle and overt ways. Objects are things that are used. That's why they can queue without questioning themselves. They've forgotten she's a human being.

She is perpetuating this message too though.

On one hand we have a serious problem with peer on peer abuse, sexual harassment/assaults etc. in our secondary schools, but at the same time all these (at least ) 18 yos are vulnerable, inexperienced, poor little boys being taken for a ride.

Absolutely awful 😖

Exactly as there has been on this thread when the person doing it is a woman. This woman has been called all sorts on here. Very strong condemnation, personal insults etc. In fact i dont think ive ever seen such a negative response to behaviour. So where are the double standards? Or are you saying a man would have had it easier?

And whilst I understand the argument of "decent men wouldn't fall for it" I can still picture some quite young and naive 19 year olds who aren't inherently bad people, just haven't emotionally developed yet, perhaps with some peer pressure thrown in, maybe some even desperate to lose their virginity, who don't fully consider the issue with it if the woman is literally inviting them and only later understand the ramifications.

If it was fully grown men I would roll my eyes, but the decision making element of the brain is not fully developed until around 25, she is preying on immaturity to make money on her channel.

Im sorry but on whst planet is she " old looking?" Missing the point entirely I know but she does not look old.
Has feminism served us at all?

Fucking grim. They’ll be calling her Bonnie Blue Waffle in no time.

Imagine if a man was touring the UK to sleep with students, film them and post on his subscription service...I think she's taking advantage of young people who may not be fully considering the long term consequences of being filmed, it's quite predatory don't you think? But oh no she's a woman so it's fine?

I think it should be a crime personally. Why would a woman that beautiful want to behave like this when she could make her money in other ways...yuck.

DD is at NTU so she’ll have some competition..

I'd never heard of her before this, but her Instagram account is interesting, she seems absolutely desperate to strike up some kind of deal with Pepsi/Pepsi Max. She mentions and shows a can or bottle in every video.

Does she really think a Global drinks brand would proudly sponsor a porn actress??

Bizarre life.

Exactly. And I certainly wouldn't be losing sleep over the outcome of this for them, whether 18 or 58.

The type of men who will queue up for this are not good and decent.

The targeting of young people is grim, but things like this Aldi add to the misogyny in society, the view that consent is sellable, that women are commodities to be used. I'd be disgusted if my son went near a situation like this

@Alucard55 she'll probably have some sort of security/entourage. But presumably that won't account for the unwashed and unattractive?

That's a good point. Is there any vetting and is she aware that there's a good chance that sexual predators/rapists will turn up to have a go?

Agree.

It is the society we live in. One which tells men women are objects in so many subtle and overt ways. Objects are things that are used. That's why they can queue without questioning themselves. They've forgotten she's a human being.

The fathers and uncles that really believe she's 25 are predatory as fuck. They ought to be concerned not aroused.

Does no one have self respect anymore?

Thing is, most decent boys/men would not find this an attractive prospect. I know they are wired a little differently to us but what is enticing about queuing up to have a 2 minute go on some old looking woman who your mate has been at a minute earlier? It's grim.

The only men I can see going for this are your archetypal drunk 'jock' style rugby boys. Your stiflers from American pie who find the whole thing hilarious not sexy. Either that or weirdos, scruffs and perverts.

So it makes me wonder who exactly she is allowing to 'bonk' her. Does she have a vetting system? If the local tramp turned up would she let him?

I have no idea what to say to that. Literally. Words fail me. Just why?

Putting everything else aside, there is no way she's 25! She looks at the very least late 30s-40