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Katie298 · 22/09/2024 15:10

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shuggles · 22/09/2024 15:10

@5128gap If you'd quoted me in full you'd see that I clearly stated that if 5000 women were queuing for sex with a male porn star they would be using him for sex and would be criticised, exactly the same.

Actually, what you said was...

And if 5000 18 year old women their mums and aunties queued up for sex with a male porn star

The equivalent to an 18 year old male student is an 18 year old female student. I'm not sure why you brought mums and aunties into this.

So if an extremely handsome man offered sex to 18 year old female students so he could upload the videos to his onlyfans, would you say the 18 year old female students were using the man? Just answer the question, it's yes or no.

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Namerchangee · 22/09/2024 15:09

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 22/09/2024 14:25

She's a provocateur, drumming up interest - and it's worked.

More like controversy? I think the interested parties are her target market - students and husbands. Not sure if either are on here.

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SocksAndTheCity · 22/09/2024 14:56

Mammyloveswine · 22/09/2024 13:35

Isn't soliciting illegal? Or is she not charging only filming and uploading to her only fans?

I can't lie it's so grim. If my 18 year old was heading off to uni and a predatory sex worker was targeting their uni id not be happy!

Soliciting is illegal, yes. This is not soliciting (which falls within fairly narrow parameters under the Street Offences Act 1959), it is advertising.

And porn, like other forms of legal adult entertainment is already 'normal', @Katie298 ; it's been around in one form or another for as long as people have. You don't have to consume it if you don't want to (and nor do I, any more than I want to drink alcohol or gamble) but that doesn't mean there's anything special about it or that others who do should be prevented from doing so.

And to those slagging off another women's appearance because she behaves in a way you disapprove of, well aren't you clever Hmm

5128gap · 22/09/2024 14:51

shuggles · 22/09/2024 14:40

@5128gap Well, yes. They would be wouldn't they? Using her for sex.

So again, if an extremely handsome man put out on advert for female students to have sex with him for him to upload to his onlyfans where he could profit immensely (while the students don't earn a penny, of course), not a single person would say that the female students were "using" the handsome man.

So why do you have this double standard?

If you'd quoted me in full you'd see that I clearly stated that if 5000 women were queuing for sex with a male porn star they would be using him for sex and would be criticised, exactly the same. Do you remember reading that part? So, again, what double standard?

Katie298 · 22/09/2024 14:48

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 22/09/2024 14:38

Your post, and all the others of the same ilk, just show fear, Viviennemary. This woman - by your standards - not attractive with a narrow face... yet so much male interest.

How about these grimy men just not go there? Is that an option, do you think?

I don’t have fear. I’m just sick of the normalisation of porn as if it’s all just a jolly larf. It’s not, it’s degrading our society.

shuggles · 22/09/2024 14:40

@5128gap Well, yes. They would be wouldn't they? Using her for sex.

So again, if an extremely handsome man put out on advert for female students to have sex with him for him to upload to his onlyfans where he could profit immensely (while the students don't earn a penny, of course), not a single person would say that the female students were "using" the handsome man.

So why do you have this double standard?

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 22/09/2024 14:38

Your post, and all the others of the same ilk, just show fear, Viviennemary. This woman - by your standards - not attractive with a narrow face... yet so much male interest.

How about these grimy men just not go there? Is that an option, do you think?

5128gap · 22/09/2024 14:38

shuggles · 22/09/2024 12:29

@5128gap Exactly as there has been on this thread when the person doing it is a woman. This woman has been called all sorts on here. Very strong condemnation, personal insults etc. In fact i dont think ive ever seen such a negative response to behaviour. So where are the double standards?

Did you read a thread? Numerous people said that the 18 year old male students are using this woman.

Well, yes. They would be wouldn't they? Using her for sex. And if 5000 18 year old women their mums and aunties queued up for sex with a male porn star they would also be using him for sex and i dare say would be strongly criticised for it also. But that hasnt happened and I'd be very surprised if it ever did. So Where is the double standard?

Viviennemary · 22/09/2024 14:36

Agree,,She isn't even very attractive. Such a narrow face. Silly woman

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LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 22/09/2024 14:25

She's a provocateur, drumming up interest - and it's worked.

Lavenderfields21 · 22/09/2024 14:22

She says "so that uni students and husbands can queue" !!

Carriemac · 22/09/2024 14:18

That's grim and sordid

poppyzbrite4 · 22/09/2024 14:15

Katie298 · 22/09/2024 13:57

Might be the targeting of a specific group? Do any of you have just turned 18 year olds?

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Is your 18 year old the type to queue up to have sex with women on film?

xyz111 · 22/09/2024 14:09

Funny how when a topic is about porn, women involved are always the victim. This shows some women are happy to do stuff like this (not obviously all women in the porn industry, but MN talk like all women have no choice!)

NowImNotDoingIt · 22/09/2024 14:04

Does she have to though?

I think it depends on what they agree to .

But I'll throw that back at you. Do these men/young men have to have sex with her?

BlackShuck3 · 22/09/2024 14:00

Katie298 · 22/09/2024 13:58

Does she have to though?

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If you mean does she have to conceal their identities then I'm guessing there is a contract which both parties have to sign and the terms of which they will therefore be bound by.

Katie298 · 22/09/2024 13:58

BlackShuck3 · 22/09/2024 13:55

I understand she has said the identities of the men will be concealed in the films.
I'm not saying I don't find it distasteful but I can't see that she is exploiting these men. She isn't tricking them, they are not being forced or coerced or bribed, they know exactly what is involved.

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Does she have to though?

Katie298 · 22/09/2024 13:57

BlackShuck3 · 22/09/2024 13:37

Can you describe what it is about her and her behavior that is predatory?

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Might be the targeting of a specific group? Do any of you have just turned 18 year olds?

BlackShuck3 · 22/09/2024 13:55

Mammyloveswine · 22/09/2024 13:40

By posing outside of a university saying she wants to have sex with 18 year old boys? Film it and put on her sex channel? Christ. The implications for these boys in the future having featured on her sex channel when they are at vulnerable age...

I understand she has said the identities of the men will be concealed in the films.
I'm not saying I don't find it distasteful but I can't see that she is exploiting these men. She isn't tricking them, they are not being forced or coerced or bribed, they know exactly what is involved.

Mammyloveswine · 22/09/2024 13:40

By posing outside of a university saying she wants to have sex with 18 year old boys? Film it and put on her sex channel? Christ. The implications for these boys in the future having featured on her sex channel when they are at vulnerable age...

BlackShuck3 · 22/09/2024 13:37

Mammyloveswine · 22/09/2024 13:35

Isn't soliciting illegal? Or is she not charging only filming and uploading to her only fans?

I can't lie it's so grim. If my 18 year old was heading off to uni and a predatory sex worker was targeting their uni id not be happy!

Can you describe what it is about her and her behavior that is predatory?

Mammyloveswine · 22/09/2024 13:35

Isn't soliciting illegal? Or is she not charging only filming and uploading to her only fans?

I can't lie it's so grim. If my 18 year old was heading off to uni and a predatory sex worker was targeting their uni id not be happy!

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