DP and I have a toddler together but don't live together. I also have a primary aged child from a previous relationship. I work full time but he doesn't work due to health conditions .He has to do school pick up and drop offs 3x a week for my older child and pick up our toddler from nursery 3 days a week and look after the toddler 1 day a week.
I get woken up in the night every night by toddler and get up with her and put her to bed 7 days a week.
I have to organise absolutely everything at home shopping cooking bills as it's my home but he helps when he feels like it. I have given up the gym, seeing friends because as soon as I get back he'll go out as he 'needs a break' so I'm left again to do everything else myself.
He complains that I'm miserable when I'm just exhausted and says I have it easy as I get to go out to work and get a break from the kids. He then complains the house is a mess as expects me to clean after I have been working full time put baby to bed do dinner and then have another sleepless night.
AIBU? should I just be a better mother or have I got it easy?