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To think all men are like Diddy?

79 replies

Justcurioushere · 21/09/2024 18:03

With the recent (and not so recent) news surrounding Diddy, I can’t help but reflect on how his behaviour epitomises a troubling pattern I see in some men: selfishness, drama, and a complete lack of accountability (to put it lightly). It makes me wonder if this is a common attitude among men.

AIBU to think that many men, like Diddy, prioritise their own desires over the wellbeing of others? Is this something we should be more critical of, or is it just an unfortunate stereotype?

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OhmygodDont · 21/09/2024 18:09

In fact I’d say it’s normal to prioritise your needs and tbh wants over a random you have no feelings or care towards.

Would I save someone else’s child over mine. No. Would I push someone else child to save mine. Yes.

Your talking two issues at the same time and making them one. Diddys and many men’s sexual outrage is very different to people just prioritising themselves.

llamali · 21/09/2024 18:05

"all" or "some"/"many" which one is it OP?

OhmygodDont · 21/09/2024 18:05

I think most people not just men will prioritise their wants and needs overs others.

Diddy however is a sexual predator. Which yes lots of men also are.

NagaTwatchetty · 21/09/2024 18:04

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