To think all men are like Diddy?

As says every women who swear not her Henry. He wouldn’t cheat on her. Doesn’t have the time. Despises cheaters. Was cheated on by an ex.

Oh wait here come the thread where she’s shocked flabbergasted Henry’s been having it off with some young thing from work.

You never truly truly know anyone. The persona they use for you, is different to their work persona away from you, different to their mates from school/college persona. You know the person they show you.

If everyone was an open book nobody would be shocked if cheated on, abused, stolen from, about sexual predators because we would all already know they are all like that.

OP think you are confusing a fairly normal trait of prioritising oneself over other people with being sexual predator. You are also not clear with you are saying all men, most men or many men.

I think that most men prioritise themselves. As do most people generally (with the exception of maybe over one's own children and even then many people will still prioritise themselves).

I do not think all or even most men are sexual predators. But I do think sadly that many are.

You need the know better men. Mine are about as far from this sleazebag as you could get.

Same.

Is there a vastly higher proportion of men in that particular area of the world who are animals, hiding in plain sight? And were they ‘lucky’ enough to encounter someone who could indulge them? Or are we surrounded?

So well put!
I've just watched Dodi the predator and feel so bad for his young victims.
What's so sad is that powerful people are protected and its young girls who are powerless and suffer.
So sad he's dead now so won't be publicly shamed. Am glad he had the pain of losing a son to bear but it didn't stop him being an utter prick.
What has made me think though is the conspiracy theorists who said the institutions are full of abusers, rapists and child abusers were right.
At the time I thought it was very far fetched and unbelievable. That's how naive I was and probably in my 40s.
We women need to wake up and use our voices and written word to speak to the government and newspapers to turn this round.
We also need to put pressure on the legal system to penalize the perpetrators and set up a system that favours the victims and believes them, rather than the other way around instead of the victims being scared and them not getting justice.
Basically we need to step society up to value women as humans. 🤔

Statements like all men are like P Diddy just make women look stupid. These women can't be taken seriously.

I think a very large number of men would like to be more promiscuous than they actually are.

I think quite large number to men would be unfaithful if they had the opportunity.

I think a tiny number to men are like P Diddy.

I don’t think most are sexual predators but actually yes I think a man is more likely to prioritise his wants and needs than a woman is, yes

Well that's a terrifying/depressing/hopeless/helpless thought!!!. I would hope my male dp and adult male sons are as far removed from the Diddys of the world as I am. For fs 😱

No, all men aren’t like P Diddy.

They’re not all sexual abusers, or even abusers of any kind.

They’re not all avoiding cleaning the toilet by watching OF (?!?), and they don’t all see us as objects they should just have access to.

Some of them are just men, who are going about their lives not constantly threatening people.

I'm so sad and sorry you feel like all men are like this. I did at one point too, certainly many are monsters. But others are truly good.

Have you seen the ITV X doc on sexual predator Dodi. Absolutely sickening and enabled by Harrods and rank security team, the u all conspired and enabled abuse to going girls 😮😒

Remember that study about how many men would rape women if they could get away with it? And someone also mentioned the percentage of men who look at child SA, it was shocking.

I think far too many men, even your husbands, your fathers, your brothers, your sons if they had the money and power would abuse it.

The Met Police say (in a civilised, democratic country with laws) 1 in 7 men are dangerous to women.

If you do some maths around 4% of the adult men in the area surrounding Gisele were happy to rape an unconscious drugged woman, so you know many more are raping their wives, girlfriends, friends and family members.

Up to a third of male college students would rape a woman if they could get away with it (depending on how you phrase the question).

14 year old girls are now the most likely demographic to report rape.

NAMALT but TMMALT too many men are like that. Frightening numbers. If there was a war, or civilisation broke down, a good third to a half I wouldn't trust.

You can 'not my Nigel' and 'NAMALT' all you like but a huge number of men are like P Diddy, just without the means and opportunity.

Oh dear....

Sorry but nobody can honestly truest know not my husband not my son.

That’s why people are always shocked. Oh no not John he was a lovely chap.

My husband?
He is not....
He's the only man in my life, also three decades older.

YABVU

Diddy may well of been a victim at one point in his career however his chosen to become a very very big perpetrator leaving many victims in his path.

being a victim is no excuse either. Many victims or rather most victims do not go on to become perpetrators.

He has ALOT more issues than you have put

He is a wife beating sex addict, rapist pig

And this case will bring up atleast Two big names like him and MANY many more than have been in his house

Its Epstein & Giselle all over agin

This is going to be HUGE

( But its not all men…. Ofcourse it isnt !!! )

There are too many men like P Diddy. But it is absolutely not all men.

So Diddy is actually a victim?

Hand maidens have found the thread .... namalt, he's a puppet, women are meanies too etc etc like men need anyone supporting them, it's almost like they aren't the more powerful sex.

This. Give over OP. Your life would be a lot more pleasant if you didn't paint half the population as narcissistic sex predators. 🙄

No.

So Diddy is actually a victim?