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AS28 · 21/09/2024 14:22

You knew your childcare bill was only going to be £200 a month?

When we began TTC we factored in that childcare would be about a grand a month.

However… the 30 government funded hours are being applied for 9 month olds from September 2025. Our baby is due in November.

We have enquired with two providers, both childminders, in time for my return to work next year. Their day rate is £45 for a 10 hour day, and we will require 3 days a week due to compressed hours. In term time the funding the childminders receive covers their day rates. Both have confirmed this to me. There is an optional £5 a day consumables, but you can avoid this if you send your own food. Obviously the funding is term time only: our preferred childminder then spreads the cost of the holidays across the whole year, meaning that our bill will be only around £200 a month if we opt to pay the consumable charge. On top of that we will get tax free childcare so another 20% off.

I was under the impression we’d be paying £1000 plus a month for the next 5 years, but £200 feels like nothing.

Mainly because of childcare costs, I initially factored in that I could only have 9/10 months off. I am now wondering why don’t I take the full year, as borrowing 3k on a 0% credit card would be paid off in several months after returning to work. Given we thought that money and some would be going to childcare, what’s the harm in using it to buy more time off? Everyone says you never get that time back.

(We haven’t saved to cover the extra time off as we didn’t think we would need to).

Tell me if it’s silly!

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ThirstyThursday · 21/09/2024 15:53

I'd take a loan to have more maternity leave, but only if I thought we could repay it if the childcare didn't turn out to be £200. As it is, it is all too uncertain to trust it will be £200.

think through your options, you don't have to decide now.

Scentsless · 21/09/2024 15:45

You don't really know how you will feel when baby is here. You might long to be working again if only to have some adult conversation.

Josephinesnapoleon · 21/09/2024 15:44

No, because it tells me you have zero savings and are living hand to mouth, with a child on th way you need back up money , you need a buffer, things happen, so there is no way I’d do this.

llamali · 21/09/2024 15:42

AS28 · 21/09/2024 15:41

Another option would be go back when planned but drop hours.

I'd do that

AS28 · 21/09/2024 15:41

Another option would be go back when planned but drop hours.

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AS28 · 21/09/2024 15:26

Singleandproud · 21/09/2024 14:38

I'm always surprised people don't take a long term low interest loan to see them over the early years. I got one for a kitchen and spread it over 7 years and it only costs me £200 a month for borrowing £15k, obviously there's interest too but the monthly payments are affordable.

The downside is if something unexpected happens which means you cant go back to work like accident or illness and that puts you in a financial pickle

That’s true. It does spread the cost

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Singleandproud · 21/09/2024 14:38

I'm always surprised people don't take a long term low interest loan to see them over the early years. I got one for a kitchen and spread it over 7 years and it only costs me £200 a month for borrowing £15k, obviously there's interest too but the monthly payments are affordable.

The downside is if something unexpected happens which means you cant go back to work like accident or illness and that puts you in a financial pickle

BobbyDazzler11 · 21/09/2024 14:37

I would take as long as I could with baby - it really is such a nice time that you can't get back.

I have just pushed my return back by a month and wish it was longer!

sleepyscientist · 21/09/2024 14:37

stackhead · 21/09/2024 14:34

I would as long as I had the wiggle room to make the payments. But I'm fairly easy on debt and not at all debt adverse!

(Coming from someone who took 6 months off with my first!)

This and I had 4 months off with DS. TBH I don't regret it and now he's off to secondary school I wish I had used some unpaid leave between age 5ish-10ish

Errors · 21/09/2024 14:36

I would and did. Do it OP, sounds like you’ve done your sums

toomuchfaff · 21/09/2024 14:35

Time you'll never replace with a new born, although It wouldn't be my first choice to go into debt to take time off, I'd look at every other option first, save up, cut back etc. but if you have job security, and you can pay it back then do it.

stackhead · 21/09/2024 14:34

I would as long as I had the wiggle room to make the payments. But I'm fairly easy on debt and not at all debt adverse!

(Coming from someone who took 6 months off with my first!)

AS28 · 21/09/2024 14:33

I’m very credit card averse usually but if it’s 0% I’m not sure there’s much harm in it?

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