Friend picking on me on holiday and I snapped

She's no friend. Dump her.

This is appalling. Yes, I think she is trying to shame you.

As soon as you see her taping or taking a photo, stop her immediately, if you can.

Ask the group chat to delete what she's already sent.

Tell this woman today that you no longer consider her a friend. Do your own thing, on your own. Turn down requests for company. Ignore her when she speaks to you.

Dump her as a friend. Tell the group she's a biatch.

Ask her directly what the issue is and point out calmly everything she has said that's hurt your feelings. It sounds like she's got some issues and taking them out on you. If you feel as though you can't speak to her, text her all how you feel. Sounds like your friendship is finished if she being like that.

Its not friends holidays, your friend is a twat

Projecting her low self esteem onto you, bringing you down. Fuck THAT

It doesn’t sound like you’re very interested in this friend, her nature, the things she likes to talk about or the way she communicates. Why are you on holiday with her? Maybe, this is a lesson for you.

She's just trying to put you down to make herself feel better about her insecurities

Very true about people falling out on holiday! That's why me personally would not share my room with them, so I would have my own space! Your so called friend is taking the piss, is she like this back at home and you haven't noticed?

She's projecting her insecurities on you. Don't doubt yourself. Stay calm and polite, distance yourself from her when you get home. Sounds like too much drama! Real friends wouldn't speak to you like that.

Urgh, she's jel. She feels shit about herself and she wants to squash and positive thoughts you have about yourself
Shame it hasnt worked.
Tell her to do one
Enjoy your holiday your way

Your friend is incredibly insecure so is trying to put you down and make you feel small to make herself feel better. She knows she’s a shitty person. I’d tell her to shut her fucking mouth if she has nothing positive to say but you may prefer just removing yourself from her company to enjoy the rest of your holiday in peace. Can’t abide bullies at all. She needs to grow up sharpish.

She sounds like a right bitch!

So what happened when you got home???

She sounds like me mum lol

That's in no way an apology for rotten behaviour towards the OP, though. Too little too late.

Maybe the being extra nice to you is her way of saying sorry without actually saying sorry?

This.

I HNRTFT @Poolsiders but have read your updates... what a nasty 'friend' you are unfortunate to be on holiday with and what a shame for you. I guarantee NO ONE would have been looking at or judging you. Just keep doing what you're doing being civil and doing your own thing, and then when you get home, you can re-evaluate your friendship. AKA ditch the bitch as she certainly isn't your friend. Hope you can salvage / enjoy what's left of your holiday.

I agree with not spending holidays with people if you find more than 24 hours in their company is hard work (although I feel for OP, she likely wasn’t expecting her holiday to turn out like this!). I had a best friend in the past, would happily spend a whole day with her, but went away with her one time to London for a couple of days - it was kind of horrible at a few moments because we both got stressed (mostly because of other people being unhelpful, though).
In my case though, it was my friend who ended up snapping, after a hairy taxi ride where we ended up in the wrong location.

sorry to hear you hare having such a horrible time.
I finally decided last summer that I would no longer go on holiday with my oldest friend as it was sheer hard work and I found her company 24/7 beyond the pale.
Have started going away to hobby courses, cycling holidays and short city breaks -where there is nobody sniping or talking from dawn to dusk. I’ve met some interesting people and think it’s the way forward for me.
Leave her to her own devices and enjoy the rest of your hol.

YA definitely NBU. Her behavior towards you makes her 500% ditchable. People like her project their own insecurities onto others, and feel entitled to control them, since they're unable to manage their own lives.
Only you can be in charge of your own narrative, regardless of what she or anyone else thinks.

With friends like her, who needs enemies?

She sounds like she’s projecting. She’s clearly unhappy with herself and is incredibly lacking in self awareness. Think of her as a 6 yr old child and reply to her as an adult. Don’t enter into the drama triangle (you’re the victim she’s the persecutor) she can’t play that “game” with no one to engage with.

@Poolsiders holidays with ‘friends’ is not a bad idea at all…. I’ve been away with friends a few times and had a fabulous time…
however I think spending a week with someone does allow you to see who they REALLY are….. and this person is NOT your friend!
I would be telling her very clearly that she’s upset you by filming you against your wishes…. And not only that but then sharing it to the group chat…. Makes her a bit of a C&£T in all honestly!…. Ask her to delete those messages and images and in future to respect people’s wishes!
Evennif someone was looking at my friend I’d probably throw them an evil back, I certainly wouldn’t tell my friend someone was giving her evils… she just sounds horrible and I think the holiday has done you a huge favour!

Sounds more like a frienemy than a friend, I'd drop her if I was you!

YANBU in the slightest!
She doesn't sound like your friend, I'm sorry to say and I'd lose all contact once home, if I were you.
Try to ignore her negativity and enjoy the rest of your holiday as much as you can xx