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Hairdressing fauxpas?

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SnackSnack · 20/09/2024 22:35

I was at the hairdresser today and a lady I knew came in, we said hello and carried on with our appointments. At the end of my appointment, after I'd paid I went over and said hello and hoped she was having a lovely haircut. I don't see her very often and I like her.

The hairdresser cutting used to be my hairdresser but she had a mat leave and I ended up staying with the hairdresser I was passed to. It was simply because I like them both and I didn't know the 1st hairdresser's new schedule. 1st hairdresser has been short with me couple of times I've been in. She won't even look at me and when I crossed the salon to get my phone she was walking the other way and put her hands up to block herself from me.

Anyway, I said to the lady I know, "Aww 1st hairdresser always does such a lovely job." Hairdresser shouted, "What?!" at me with such a look of venom. I repeated myself. She said nothing and the other woman said, "Have a nice weekend", so firmly it meant I was dismissed.

I've been thinking about it all day. Should I not have approached them? Why did she shout at me? Now I'm crying and worrying that they think I'm weird and awful. I was just trying to be nice. I don't see many people, being on my own and having no family so I love to say hello. Maybe I was interrupting. Should I go in on Tuesday and apologise?

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LettyToretto · 20/09/2024 22:58

I mean, original hairdresser has shown herself up - WHY would you go back to her now?

FWIW, I would have paranoia and upset over this, but you've done nothing wrong.

SnackSnack · 20/09/2024 22:58

I feel so humiliated by the whole thing. I wonder if 1st hairdresser maybe thought, well if I'm so wonderful why does she not come to me anymore? Its simply because I need an early appointment and I'd only had her a few times before she went on leave.
At least it's a couple of months until I have to go again and I have a lovely hairdo.

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Dandeliontea123 · 20/09/2024 22:53

You were just trying to be friendly. It's not you, it's them.

FaiIureToLunch · 20/09/2024 22:52

Yeah and the lady isn’t your friend either, she sounds just as bad.

mullyluo · 20/09/2024 22:50

Neither of them sound like nice people, 1st hairdresser really rude and aggressive. Try not to worry about it, you did nothing wrong.

EmeraldRoses · 20/09/2024 22:46

1st hair dresser is a silly cow, stop worrying about it, she's got issues, leave her to it, not your problem x

BirthdayRainbow · 20/09/2024 22:46

No. You've no need to apologise. Maybe hairdresser 1 thought you were being sarcastic but she should be showing better manners than that. Ignore her.

DeliciousApples · 20/09/2024 22:44

1st hairdresser sounds like she has an attitude problem.

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