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AIBU to think dog owners have low hygiene standards.

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ThisQuirkyPeachHare · 19/09/2024 20:46

I'm not a pet owner, although have had pets in my childhood.

Many of my friends and family members have dogs... And I'm just always so surprised to see how their hygiene standards change when they get a pet....
No dogs on the sofa/bed... But how is it suddenly acceptable?
Dogs around the table and sniffing around food that's low eg coffee table.
And then the owners stroking the pets and letting it sniff/lick hands and then eating without washing first??
My sister in law is awful for it... Her and her children are all petting the dog while eating and then taking more food from the plates which are for everyone. In-between this, the dogs led licking it's nethers before coming back for another sniff around the food 🤢
I can't be the only person to think this is disgusting? 😂🤦🏾‍♀️

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Startingagainandagain · 20/09/2024 09:31

We get it: you don't like dogs and you think they are disgusting.

Other people loves them and enjoy having them in their lives.

No idea why you think it is OK for you to suggest that makes them dirty and look down on them...judgemental and daft.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 20/09/2024 09:29

MissUltraViolet · 20/09/2024 09:18

Bet my pup has cleaner bollocks than some of your husbands. 😉

😂😂

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 20/09/2024 09:25

Prescottdanni123 · 20/09/2024 07:57

@iamawarriorwhojustcrieseasily
The thing is, the dog haters on here seem to care a lot about what dog owners do. Far less than I care about their opinion. They claim to be unable to stand them yet they seem to go out of their way to come into contact with them. The amount of people who go to dog friendly cafe or dog park and then complain that there is dogs. Go to a dog free cafe or park then. And then they try to say that there are not any dog free spaces. Sorry but that's bullshit. I live in the lake district, which is the dog capital of the UK and we still have cafes and spaces that don't allow dogs. It's so bizarre it's funny. These threads are always great for when I need a good laugh.

Yes, and every time they go out some horrible germy dog is jumping up at them. I walk nearly every day in a huge park that’s a favourite with dog walkers, and in many decades IIRC I’ve only ever once had a dog jumping up at me.

Maybe they can sense that the human doesn’t like them and do it on purpose! If I were a dog maybe I would, too. 😈😂

vivainsomnia · 20/09/2024 09:22

I don't get the obsession with hygiene some people display. It feels very OCD to me.

My experience is that people obsessed with hygiene tend to be more often ill with viruses than those who are not. Maybe it's a vicious circle. They fall I'll, they increase their hygiene duties, they lower their immune system, they fall ill.

They then feel entitled to judge those who don't uphold their standards and think it's perfectly acceptable. It isn't.

Hygiene very much comes down to how you've been raised. It's about how it impacts on others around you. If you stink of sweat so that everyone stays away from you, then yes, you have a problem. If you don't, then who cares how often you wash!

MissUltraViolet · 20/09/2024 09:18

Bet my pup has cleaner bollocks than some of your husbands. 😉

aperolspritzbasicbitch · 20/09/2024 09:11

@K0OLA1D yes! Always such anger and venom....imagine being this het up about someone else choosing to have a pet in their home.
It's the 'your filthy, smelly mutt' comments for me, like all dog owners are going to shrivel up in to a ball of tears because someone has called our dog a mutt.
Also, always popping 'Fido' in there. It's 2024, Abraham Lincoln is long gone - go with Bella or Luna instead 🤷🏻‍♀️

SecondFavouriteDinosaur · 20/09/2024 09:03

Babadookinthewardrobe · 20/09/2024 08:59

Thing is, I don’t thing most dog owners care about people’s judgements in this respect. They’re getting a lot of love and happiness from their pooch. They and the dog are happy, having a few sniffy visitors making judgements is a very small price to pay.

Exactly. I genuinely don’t care if other people don’t love my ‘smelly pooch’, why would I? I care that we have a happy house, and we do. Our dog contributes to that. If people don’t want to visit my apparently filthy, stinking house, they don’t have to. Funnily enough though we have a lot of regular visitors to our house and are often told we are excellent hosts.

Pickingmyselfup · 20/09/2024 09:02

My cat doesn't make the house smell unless she does a poo in the litter tray (or somewhere she shouldn't!) but we definitely don't wash our hands after touching her and she sleeps wherever she likes and gets hair everywhere.

The rats make the house stink despite my best efforts and I do make more of an effort to wash my hands after touching them because they are a bit stinky.

I would like to say we are a hardy family but me and my eldest child are always coming down with something!

I like sharing my house with animals and I'm not bothered about being a clean freak. For me they make my house a home and I put up with the hair/smell/muddy paw prints although the rat smell does annoy me a lot but I can't seem to stop it.

Babadookinthewardrobe · 20/09/2024 08:59

cuckooooooo · 20/09/2024 04:07

Any house with a dog living in it smells. Many dog owners are also completely blind to the fact that not everyone loves their smelly pooch.

Thing is, I don’t thing most dog owners care about people’s judgements in this respect. They’re getting a lot of love and happiness from their pooch. They and the dog are happy, having a few sniffy visitors making judgements is a very small price to pay.

MsKatia · 20/09/2024 08:49

ellebelli · 20/09/2024 08:48

Here's my two! One knows its place...the other is a spaniel...be prepared to be disgusted!

I feel the Lab is judging the Spaniel 😂

TheKoalaWhoCould · 20/09/2024 08:49

Studies have shown that children who grow up in a dog owning household have stronger immune systems, a lower risk of asthma etc so they must be doing something right……

kenidorm · 20/09/2024 08:48

rainfallpurevividcat · 20/09/2024 08:34

I certainly don't have as high standards as some Mumsnet posters about cleaning and laundry.

I feel sorry for people who are so germ phobic. Life must be exhausting and restricting for you and all those around you.

Edited

It really is, but I suspect you didn't mean that genuinely.

ellebelli · 20/09/2024 08:48

Here's my two! One knows its place...the other is a spaniel...be prepared to be disgusted!

AIBU to think dog owners have low hygiene standards.
Cantbearsedbaking · 20/09/2024 08:47

I find people who are not keen on dogs or treat them as if they’re way below them…pretty suspect

Dogs are amazing.

TerfTalking · 20/09/2024 08:45

Beth216 · 19/09/2024 21:13

I read that people were being encouraged to not wash their hands after stroking their dog because our immune systems are in desperate need. We live in a far too sanitised world and it causes all sorts of problems for our immune and digestive systems.

💯

Demonhunter · 20/09/2024 08:42

Hmmm

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dabbadoo · 20/09/2024 08:39

dogs are better than people. I don't mind putting up with their funky smell

LilBowWow · 20/09/2024 08:38

“It’s been 8 hours, I can’t contain it any longer … must talk about dog’s arseholes again”.

And dog owners are the weird ones? 🤯

Hope you’re ok @MsKatia

ellebelli · 20/09/2024 08:38

Crysti · 19/09/2024 20:59

😂😂😂 I’ve dogs but can’t actually argue with this 😂😂

Totally agree.
But my dogs are the best and I wouldn't have it any other way!
Sometimes I lie in my dogs bed with him 😄

MsKatia · 20/09/2024 08:35

I'm always surprised when some of these people post. I get that not everyone likes dogs, but some of the comments 😂. It's like the underbelly of society are just lying in wait to think up the worst possible descriptions of how repulsive dogs/cats/MILs can be.

I'm having a bit of an emotional day today, personal stuff, and my dog just makes it better. So does my MIL btw.

rainfallpurevividcat · 20/09/2024 08:34

I certainly don't have as high standards as some Mumsnet posters about cleaning and laundry.

I feel sorry for people who are so germ phobic. Life must be exhausting and restricting for you and all those around you.

Catza · 20/09/2024 08:33

We don’t let our dog to sit on a sofa or sniff the food but yeah, we probably do occasionally touch her and then proceed to touch something from a shared plate. “Disgusting” is a subjective thing, isn’t it? What’s important to consider is that we are all still alive and I honestly can’t remember last time I had a tummy bug. So correlation between touching dogs and getting harmed by whatever dirt you think is on them seems pretty low to none. In fact, I would hazard a guess that we could all use a bit more bacteria in our lives.

Ghilliegums · 20/09/2024 08:28

LilBowWow · 20/09/2024 08:24

They always sound so uptight and miserable. Trying their hardest to be scathing with “you smell” comments. Just get a dog and be happy!

Yes, as if we care what people with that level of angry vitriol think! We are all here chilling with our dogs!

Jifmicroliquid · 20/09/2024 08:26

Honestly, I find small children more grim. The things I watch my friends kids do- picking their nose, sucking their fingers then touching the TV remote. Give me a dog any day!

LilBowWow · 20/09/2024 08:24

K0OLA1D · 20/09/2024 08:03

It's the proper venom that you can almost feel in some of the posts as well.

Like they're really trying hard to offend 🤣

I find it very sad!

They always sound so uptight and miserable. Trying their hardest to be scathing with “you smell” comments. Just get a dog and be happy!