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AIBU to think dog owners have low hygiene standards.

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ThisQuirkyPeachHare · 19/09/2024 20:46

I'm not a pet owner, although have had pets in my childhood.

Many of my friends and family members have dogs... And I'm just always so surprised to see how their hygiene standards change when they get a pet....
No dogs on the sofa/bed... But how is it suddenly acceptable?
Dogs around the table and sniffing around food that's low eg coffee table.
And then the owners stroking the pets and letting it sniff/lick hands and then eating without washing first??
My sister in law is awful for it... Her and her children are all petting the dog while eating and then taking more food from the plates which are for everyone. In-between this, the dogs led licking it's nethers before coming back for another sniff around the food 🤢
I can't be the only person to think this is disgusting? 😂🤦🏾‍♀️

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icouldholditwithacobweb · 19/09/2024 21:16

I often think something similar, but about people with small children. I find my dogs way less gross than other people's sticky, snotty, grubby kids (especially kids that pick their noses and either eat it or wipe it in random places, or kids that run all over furniture with their outdoor shoes on). I especially hate having a child's beloved but utterly filthy soft toy anywhere near me - the ones that look like they haven't been washed ever and have clearly been in a child's mouth and god knows where else. And I am not sure I have the words for parents who pick food off their child's face and eat it themselves (seen more than one of my friends do this with their babies and it's gross gross gross).

I don't feel the need to post about it though as it's up to parents what they tolerate. Same for dog owners. Other people's filth is always more disgusting than your own.

BIossomtoes · 19/09/2024 21:14

Stompythedinosaur · 19/09/2024 21:08

I think toddlers are far more disgusting hygiene-wise than dogs.

I've had (and loved) both, I think you just accept they are part of your family and live with the consequences.

I agree. My dogs have never come up to me with green snot all over their faces and attempted to rub it all over my clothes.

Beth216 · 19/09/2024 21:13

I read that people were being encouraged to not wash their hands after stroking their dog because our immune systems are in desperate need. We live in a far too sanitised world and it causes all sorts of problems for our immune and digestive systems.

DarkForces · 19/09/2024 21:13

Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn

Sprampyourface · 19/09/2024 21:13

I know lots of hygienic and unhygienic dog owners, the same as non dog owners. But my friend lets her child nap in the dog bed with the dog and that’s one of the grossest things I’ve ever seen. When the child woke up and got out of the dog bed he had a bit of dog biscuit/treat stuck to his face and crumbs on his clothes and he smelt like the dog.

Mind you a Facebook post that went viral a while ago of the teabag mountain on someone’s oven was also very gross and nothing to do with a dog so I guess we could just say lots of people are gross and it’s nothing to do with if they have a dog.

bigageap · 19/09/2024 21:13

You need to spend half an hour at a farm or with a horsey lady like myself 🤣🤣 you’d be horrified!!

ForeverPombear · 19/09/2024 21:12

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Depends on the toddler😂

Theeternalrocksbeneath · 19/09/2024 21:12

OP you’re probably perfectly correct 😄

My house and gardens contain too many animals to count - we have more dogs than is probably sensible and the amount of small furries probably cost us the equivalent of a mortgage payment each month!

So much hair and hay everywhere - no matter how much I keep on top of things there’s bound to be something unmentionable floating around at any given time.

But I wouldn’t change it for the world! This is our world, and our happiness. Given the choice between all my wonderful animals or a pristine clean home, I would choose the former every time 😊

LoyalJoker · 19/09/2024 21:10

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Foxblue · 19/09/2024 21:09

I have a dog and honestly yes it's a little gross, but I do believe a little exposure is good for the immune system! Now, would I let a really moulting dirty dog sleep in my bed, no - but my dog isn't that. (Not saying she isn't still a bit gross but you know, so am i) I do wash my hands before touching food that someone else might touch or eat and I would absolutely shoo my dog away from food though, that's just impolite not to surely?
However - as a dog owner, I'm so curious about cat owners and hygiene because they are all over tables and counter surfaces?? Cat owners, what's the deal, do you do anything specific to counteract this?

Stompythedinosaur · 19/09/2024 21:08

I think toddlers are far more disgusting hygiene-wise than dogs.

I've had (and loved) both, I think you just accept they are part of your family and live with the consequences.

soupfiend · 19/09/2024 21:07

From where Im sitting I can see the cat strolling all over the worktops

So you can add cats owners into the mix as well.

EmeraldRoses · 19/09/2024 21:07

I agree with u OP. Everywhere you go now is crawling with dogs Everywhere. People letting their dogs lick their face 🤢 The smell when you walk into a house that has dogs. I'm not kidding I know one woman who lives in a small semi with kids and 7 dogs! SEVEN! 😷

Tapestree · 19/09/2024 21:07

Ablondiebutagoody · 19/09/2024 20:59

An ex of mine had dogs. I would just want a chilled night, cook together, some chicken maybe some sex.......you know, see what happens. But there's dogs crashing around and hair and slobber and he's touching them. Revolting.

some chicken maybe some sex

😂😂😂

bergamotorange · 19/09/2024 21:06

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This about sums it up. True enough Grin

Frowningprovidence · 19/09/2024 21:05

Yes, my dog is grubby and I stroke him, forget to wash my hands, and let him on the sofa.

I think there is some research that says dog owners are healthier. Lots of germs to boost the immune system. Walks for heart health and relaxing cuddles.

Icanttakethisanymore · 19/09/2024 21:05

I don’t have pets but being too clean isn’t good for you. Pets are good for preventing allergies ok believe.

ThisQuirkyPeachHare · 19/09/2024 21:05

Jc2001 · 19/09/2024 21:00

Your sister and her family do sound rather revolting.

Sister in law... And yes, you're right😂

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Doingtheboxerbeat · 19/09/2024 21:05

Messes obviously 🙄

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 19/09/2024 21:04

Sorry, OP, but we 'unhygienic' dog owners are actually healthier than all you germophobes and squeaky clean showhome owners Grin. https://www.nytimes.com/2017/06/06/well/family/are-pets-the-new-probiotic.html Pet germs amd dirt are good for you!

Chocolatecookiesandtea · 19/09/2024 21:04

On one thread I read how there are apparently sometimes dirtier people in cafes than dogs but then I feel like it’s unlikely smelly old Joe or whoever has been rolling in fox poo recently and even less likely he will be sitting with no pants on in the cafe and sniffing and licking food !

Moltenpink · 19/09/2024 21:04

What harm did any of that do. Were you sick? Agree with the PP above, it’s good to be a bit dirty Grin

Doingtheboxerbeat · 19/09/2024 21:04

I adore animals but I hate smells, hairs and messages that are not my own. Weirdly enough I don't care about animals in shops, pubs, cafes or other peoples houses, just not in my own home.

Surprisedcupcake · 19/09/2024 21:03

It's so goady to generalise all dog owners 🙄

ThisQuirkyPeachHare · 19/09/2024 21:03

sunsetsandboardwalks · 19/09/2024 20:59

It has to have been at least 24 hours since the last dog-bashing thread.

I'm not bashing dogs... They're little cuties. It's the owners I have issues with 😂
Disclaimer... As someone kindly pointed out, obviously not all dog owners...

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