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AIBU to think dog owners have low hygiene standards.

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ThisQuirkyPeachHare · 19/09/2024 20:46

I'm not a pet owner, although have had pets in my childhood.

Many of my friends and family members have dogs... And I'm just always so surprised to see how their hygiene standards change when they get a pet....
No dogs on the sofa/bed... But how is it suddenly acceptable?
Dogs around the table and sniffing around food that's low eg coffee table.
And then the owners stroking the pets and letting it sniff/lick hands and then eating without washing first??
My sister in law is awful for it... Her and her children are all petting the dog while eating and then taking more food from the plates which are for everyone. In-between this, the dogs led licking it's nethers before coming back for another sniff around the food 🤢
I can't be the only person to think this is disgusting? 😂🤦🏾‍♀️

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Est1990 · 23/09/2024 21:21

I agree. Terrible to have fresh bedding and then the dog goes on top of it...dog hair everywhere.

Then it's the weekend and off i go to open the living room door so the dog can come up and chill with us while we having coffee and breakfast in bed. It's such a comfort and sweet feeling❤️

MsBaker · 23/09/2024 21:18

sunsetsandboardwalks · 19/09/2024 20:59

It has to have been at least 24 hours since the last dog-bashing thread.

Well maybe dog owners should do better?

SantoriniSunrise · 23/09/2024 20:48

My elderly aunt lets her dog eat leftovers off her plates and bowls. She doesn't have a dishwasher either, so her crockery must be full of bacteria. What really turned my stomach, was when she once invited me for lunch, then let the dog eat the leftovers directly out of the slow cooker. 🤮

ThisQuirkyPeachHare · 21/09/2024 14:05

FranticFrankie · 21/09/2024 11:30

It is possible to own a dog and be hygienic!
We are very clean 😇😂
What amazes me is seeing cats strolling or sitting on kitchen worktops 😮
And no animals upstairs/on beds please;
thank you
As for ‘swinging bags of dog poo’, at least it shows we pick up after our dogs
(Cats poo anywhere and don’t bury it - none of mine ever did)

Absolutely, at least you're taking it to a bin...
.. there's absolutely nothing worse than bagged poo that's just been thrown in a hedge on on the ground.... Why do people even bother bagging it up if they're going to whizz is anyway 😩

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FranticFrankie · 21/09/2024 11:30

It is possible to own a dog and be hygienic!
We are very clean 😇😂
What amazes me is seeing cats strolling or sitting on kitchen worktops 😮
And no animals upstairs/on beds please;
thank you
As for ‘swinging bags of dog poo’, at least it shows we pick up after our dogs
(Cats poo anywhere and don’t bury it - none of mine ever did)

Chocolatecookiesandtea · 21/09/2024 11:25

kenidorm · 21/09/2024 11:21

@Chocolatecookiesandtea

Well whatever , I did use it as part of a joke and that’s just something you’ll have to untrigger yourself over

You must have forgotten to post the other 'part' of that joke.

I'm not triggered by your use of PTSD incorrectly though, not sure why you think that? Merely pointing out that the thoughtless use of such language makes it harder for people, like yourself, with genuine diagnoses to be heard.

I would say the same for any incorrect use of terms. In fact I did unthread when another poster was calling people psychopaths, psychotic and maniacs. It's not acceptable.

I'm not too sure why you are hitting back rather than taking a minute to think about it; but it's absolutely your problem, not mine.

That’s fine you are entitled to your opinion. I’m entitled to use terms in whatever way I wish. We can just disagree on it 🤷‍♀️

kenidorm · 21/09/2024 11:21

@Chocolatecookiesandtea

Well whatever , I did use it as part of a joke and that’s just something you’ll have to untrigger yourself over

You must have forgotten to post the other 'part' of that joke.

I'm not triggered by your use of PTSD incorrectly though, not sure why you think that? Merely pointing out that the thoughtless use of such language makes it harder for people, like yourself, with genuine diagnoses to be heard.

I would say the same for any incorrect use of terms. In fact I did unthread when another poster was calling people psychopaths, psychotic and maniacs. It's not acceptable.

I'm not too sure why you are hitting back rather than taking a minute to think about it; but it's absolutely your problem, not mine.

Chocolatecookiesandtea · 21/09/2024 10:12

kenidorm · 21/09/2024 08:56

@Chocolatecookiesandtea

It was a joke

Joke is something that makes people laugh. Using the term 'PTSD' instead of the word 'memories' isn't a joke in any way.

The way people flippantly use medical terms to describe normal experiences is really concerning. The fact that you have a PTSD diagnosis should make you more aware of how this belittles the real condition, not jump to defend your misuse of the term.

Well whatever , I did use it as part of a joke and that’s just something you’ll have to untrigger yourself over

kenidorm · 21/09/2024 08:56

@Chocolatecookiesandtea

It was a joke

Joke is something that makes people laugh. Using the term 'PTSD' instead of the word 'memories' isn't a joke in any way.

The way people flippantly use medical terms to describe normal experiences is really concerning. The fact that you have a PTSD diagnosis should make you more aware of how this belittles the real condition, not jump to defend your misuse of the term.

Summatoruvva · 21/09/2024 08:01

But like people (and dare I say kids), some dogs are just shit. Law of averages state some people encounter only the crap ones and them being dog apathetic doesn’t make them a psycho.
In my life I only have memories of family/neighbour dogs barking, begging, slobbering, stinking, biting. I honestly can’t recall them ever being charming or interested in anything but getting a meal.
My sister in law is doolally about hers though and puts it on a par with her kids. That’s psychopathic imo.

ChristmasFluff · 21/09/2024 07:55

I am a cat person, and whilst I don't like dogs, I don't actively dislike them. In fact, I love the 'idea' of a dog, and the individual dogs I meet (I grew up with dogs). It's just the reality of them.

I can't live with the pet hair and smell, and with certain dogs, you cannot stop the smell. Dog hair is also so much more difficult to vacuum up. The short time I cared for someone's dog, I was constantly vacuuming.

The rest of it, the 'germs' - not something I could get exercised about. It's not dogs who spread noro, covid, flu etc.

I don't know how we survived as kids. We all had mumps, measles, german measles, chicken pox, flu and dogs licking our faces.

Chocolatecookiesandtea · 21/09/2024 07:05

kenidorm · 21/09/2024 00:01

@Chocolatecookiesandtea

Maybe I just have PTSD from the very lovely but very disgusting dog we had when i was a child!! He was adorable but he was the naughtiest dirtiest dog ever

PTSD isn't a substitute for 'memories'

You have memories of your dog, not trauma.

It was a joke (and I am actually diagnosed with PTSD from something so I don’t feel it’s totally inappropriate for me to use the term within a joke too)

AngelicKaty · 21/09/2024 00:51

Cantbearsedbaking · 20/09/2024 08:47

I find people who are not keen on dogs or treat them as if they’re way below them…pretty suspect

Dogs are amazing.

I agree. People being afraid of dogs I completely understand - that could be due to a phobia or a bad experience, but I am deeply suspicious of people who say they don't like dogs. And the funny thing is, the very few people I've met who've said that have all been cold fish - not an ounce of warmth amongst them. 🤔

Waitingfordoggo · 21/09/2024 00:44

Blondiney · 20/09/2024 22:25

Ahhh, gorgeous 🥰 Not a forrin’ is it? 😉

😂 Yes, he’s Irish!

AngelicKaty · 21/09/2024 00:43

MissUltraViolet · 20/09/2024 09:18

Bet my pup has cleaner bollocks than some of your husbands. 😉

😂😂😂😂😂(God, that made me howl with laughter!)

AngelicKaty · 21/09/2024 00:39

ellebelli · 20/09/2024 08:48

Here's my two! One knows its place...the other is a spaniel...be prepared to be disgusted!

Do you know that spaniel's on your chopping board? (You hum it lad and I'll play it.) 😉😂

AngelicKaty · 21/09/2024 00:28

Lemonadeand · 19/09/2024 22:29

I used to clean more when we had a dog because of the hair and mud she brought in. I would sweep and mop the floors every day whereas now I don’t. And hoover the sofas. So the house got dirtier definitely but I cleaned it more.

I miss the dog but I don’t miss the extra work.

EXACTLY this! I'm cleaning every single day as I'm conscious of not wanting the house to smell "doggy".

AngelicKaty · 21/09/2024 00:19

UpUpUpU · 19/09/2024 21:56

My annoyance with dogs is their hair. My son’s dad has two dogs. Son always comes back from his covered in hair as the dogs are allowed on furniture and beds (which is quite gross).

Not all dogs moult - my Westie doesn't. Now how could you not love this gorgeous little chap .....?

AIBU to think dog owners have low hygiene standards.
AngelicKaty · 21/09/2024 00:14

Eenymeanymineymo · 19/09/2024 21:48

But humans are even worse. The stench from some people is worse than any dog. And dogs don't go out shopping etc. Eg just this week....a lady does a poo, she shakes her leg, and eventually it falls onto my shop floor. A man fingers his gf over the freezers. Another customer has shit running all down his legs. This isnt even rare. It's daily. So a slightly whiffy dog is welcome. Oh, and if you think I'm lying....I'm happy to send evidence. Humans are the worst animals.

WTAF?!!! Where do you live that so many of your customers are like this? 😱

AngelicKaty · 21/09/2024 00:10

AmyFarrahFowler1 · 19/09/2024 21:41

I quite like dogs but I have a friend with a newborn who lets her dog lick and slobber all over said newborn and I cannot bear it. Another friend let’s the dog chew on the toddler’s soft toys or carry them around in his mouth then sticks it back on toddler’s bed. Nope. Nope. Nope.

My SIL and BIL used to allow their dogs to do this to their two toddlers too, which I found gross, although it made them giggle and they've grown into strapping big lads. I'd never owned a dog then, but even though I do now I still wouldn't want it licking my face, let alone a child's. Fortunately, my Westie doesn't do this.

kenidorm · 21/09/2024 00:01

@Chocolatecookiesandtea

Maybe I just have PTSD from the very lovely but very disgusting dog we had when i was a child!! He was adorable but he was the naughtiest dirtiest dog ever

PTSD isn't a substitute for 'memories'

You have memories of your dog, not trauma.

AngelicKaty · 20/09/2024 23:58

BIossomtoes · 19/09/2024 21:25

Mine doesn’t. I spend a fortune on reed diffusers and scented candles to make sure it doesn’t.

Nope, nor mine. My Westie neither slobbers or moults and is too short-legged to sniff at food on tables. I'm obsessed with not wanting my house to smell of dog so I vacuum/wash the floors daily and keep a washable throw on the main sofa to protect it. The fact that some people who don't own pets can't grasp this daily cleaning routine makes me wonder how clean their homes really are?

Chocolatecookiesandtea · 20/09/2024 23:53

AngelicKaty · 20/09/2024 23:20

The "sitting with no pants on" part of your post made me cry with laughter, but I have to tell you, in 16.5 years my Westie only rolled in fox poo once (when he was a young puppy) - I don't think he liked it either!😂

Maybe I just have PTSD from the very lovely but very disgusting dog we had when i was a child!! He was adorable but he was the naughtiest dirtiest dog ever ! Rolled in fox poo, rolled in other dogs poo, we are pretty sure he rolled in human poo once. He would eat the most disgusting things too - if he could get to something he would eat it and we are talking my little brothers dirty nappy contents , vomit, the cats poo from the litter tray he was just terrible !!!
Always into some kind of trouble too and liked to dig the garden up much to my parents dismay 😂

AngelicKaty · 20/09/2024 23:49

Sprampyourface · 19/09/2024 21:13

I know lots of hygienic and unhygienic dog owners, the same as non dog owners. But my friend lets her child nap in the dog bed with the dog and that’s one of the grossest things I’ve ever seen. When the child woke up and got out of the dog bed he had a bit of dog biscuit/treat stuck to his face and crumbs on his clothes and he smelt like the dog.

Mind you a Facebook post that went viral a while ago of the teabag mountain on someone’s oven was also very gross and nothing to do with a dog so I guess we could just say lots of people are gross and it’s nothing to do with if they have a dog.

EXACTLY THIS! There are plenty of people who are unhygienic without the help of a dog.