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Family member awarded enhanced pip - AIBU?

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Orangecrocs · 19/09/2024 15:42

My family member has just been awarded enhanced pip in both living and mobility components.
Shes told me that she’s twisted the truth during the assessment and told the assessor that she has lots of pain and can’t really walk at all, but she walks all the time as I see her out and about - we live in a hilly area. I know people who are in a wheelchair and struggle to get enhanced rate - so I really don’t understand how she’s managed this.
I know people will say mind your own business but she’s told me she’s actually lied to them.

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Thisworldisjustillusion · 19/09/2024 19:53

The problem is how do you weed out the minority who may be exaggerating, without hurting those in genuine need, it's not possible.
Especially with invisible mental health conditions.
I would much rather know that a safety net was spread far and wide, even if it did catch a few who didn't actually need it.
These types of posts are just an attempt to get people worked up about those receiving benefits, so they will welcome any planned future changes to criteria.

SodaFountainMountain · 19/09/2024 19:52

Tagyoureit · 19/09/2024 16:00

Shameful of her and this is why the country is on its knees, hand outs for those who don't need them.

It is shameful of her, but the country isn’t on its knees because of that, that’s a tired old trope rolled out by certain tabloids. Don’t fall for it.

Mumandcarer80 · 19/09/2024 19:51

I would wait a few weeks then report her. Some people need a carer with them 24/7 but even they struggle to get enhanced rate. People like her piss me off.

AccountDeleted · 19/09/2024 19:45

Report it. If there is no issue it won’t affect her but if she has actually lied they will catch her out.

There was a woman in the press recently who was claiming enhanced PIP saying she couldn’t walk and was running every day! They recorded her over several days and weeks to prove it wasn’t just a good day.
PIP fraud should be reported as it’s only for people who really are very affected in everyday life by their condition.

notatinydancer · 19/09/2024 19:43

PandoraSox · 19/09/2024 16:22

Oh good. Another disability benefits bashing thread.

No benefits fraud.

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 19/09/2024 19:43

NothingWrongButTheFire · 19/09/2024 16:05

It is shameful if true BUT I listened in on my mum's phonecalls and somethings I noticed were that she would too often try to describe her best day, not her worst. She would often underestimate how many of the 'worst' days she has and would over estimate what she could achieve in a day (she does this is real life too and exhausts herself).

If you asked her, she might even joke about over egging the truth to the assessor because she probably genuinely feels like she did - but in reality she didn't. She just feels like she did because she is so keen to put a positive spin on her current siutation and abilities and because it's downright painful for her to think about how much she cannot do for herself day to day.

I heard those phone calls and she lives with me. I know what she can and cannot do each day. She didn't lie and in some cases I don't think she properly represented how hard she has it. I also saw the tears on her face after the calls were finished because, for a little while there, she was forced to look her disability morre or less in the eye and it grieves her.

Sounds as if ypur Mum’s too brave and positive for her own good, Nothing. Thank god she’s got you.

Could you maybe do some role-play, with you as the assessor, to get her to answer more realistically instead of down-playing her problems? She may find it hard to admit how bad it is. But with some gentle encouragement you could help her cope more successfully with her next assessment.

Best of luck to you both.

DejaTu · 19/09/2024 19:39

Certainly, some very heartfelt and sobering stories of just how broken the system is.

HelpMePlease32 · 19/09/2024 19:39

The thing is with PIP is it is based on your worst days. I get enhanced mobility and standard living. To look at me you would not think there is nothing wrong with me. But I have complex mental health issues and have done for many years, GAD, OCD. I also have fibromyalgia and chronic pain. Some days I can go out and do normal things and then walk 3/4 miles (might take me a very long time due to pain. Some days I can't leave th house due to anxiety, some days I can't drive on my own due to panic and some days I cant get out of bed or put my socks on without help. If she really has bended the truth that that's shameful but if she's based it on her worst days and has more worse days then good days then I don't see an issue.

Thevelvelletes · 19/09/2024 19:37

PandoraSox · 19/09/2024 16:22

Oh good. Another disability benefits bashing thread.

Yip those lying disabled schemers.
Sick of reading this pish anyone that's involved in claiming knows the stress of claiming,the constant updates,phone assessments,the ludicrous questions.my wife has a birth defect one leg shorter than the other..was asked is that on one leg or both...DOH!!!.and that's not on top of other physical progressive conditions.

TheRavenSaid · 19/09/2024 19:36

Orangecrocs · 19/09/2024 16:15

She hasn’t been asked for any clinical evidence from her doctor.

They don't just hand out pip.

They will have looked at her records

ilovesooty · 19/09/2024 19:35

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nextdoornightmares · 19/09/2024 19:33

Efacsen · 19/09/2024 19:26

Won't it be monitored by AI rather than human banking staff?

No idea. I'm not entirely sure what AI can and can't do. But the DWP don't care about individual transactions in the sense of spying on what people are spending their money on and it would be against people's rights to start that kind of level of intrusion.

DoTheDinosaurStomp · 19/09/2024 19:30

It can be very frustrating seeing how unfair PIP awards can be. I've had many patients awarded zero when in reality their day to day functioning is so poor and there is no way that they'd be able to hold down a full time job. It really frustrates me.

On the other hand, I have 2 relatives who get PIP, both at the highest rate. One has mental health issues and agoraphobia, cannot leave the house and his PIP application included that he hadn't left the house in 4 years. He's just back from a 10 day trip to New York.

The other relative has pain from arthritis and can apparently barely move. Now I do believe that he suffers from pain, I've seen him wincing a bit at times myself. However he regularly goes fishing and is currently laying down some lovely paving slabs for my cousin. He also walks her 2 dogs twice daily.

Mumofoneandone · 19/09/2024 19:29

I'm nearly in tears reading this, as one of those who is fighting to get PIP for genuine conditions that adversely affect me every day.
People playing the system make it harder for those who genuinely need it to get it.
If she is openly admitted to lying then quite frankly report her. She clearly has no shame and it is fraud.
(I've reported someone for benefit fraud, as it was openly discussed around the family. I didn't want to be party to the dishonesty)

TortillasAndSalsa · 19/09/2024 19:29

They do look at your medical records I've got entries on mine from dwp wanting to see them and the date they requested them and got them

Efacsen · 19/09/2024 19:26

nextdoornightmares · 19/09/2024 19:21

Wild eh? I knew there was still some chat about it. But I don't think it will go any further than alerts for things like income or having over the savings threshold. Also not sure how any staff at banks would have the time to be sitting checking millions of bank account transactions.

But you never know! It would be a total piss take and invasion of privacy anyway.

Won't it be monitored by AI rather than human banking staff?

orangeleopard · 19/09/2024 19:23

MMUmum · 19/09/2024 19:05

I have heart disease, diabetes and thyroid problems, I was refused PIP because I can walk 200 yards🙄, gets my goat, it really does 😡

It’s disgusting. My mum has arthritis, diabetes, endo, had her thyroid removed, hip replaced, migraines, glucoma, sleep apnea, lupus, chromes, asthma - literally so much more and SHE got declined. It’s crazy the people who they decline when most of us know at least one person who’s on the fiddle.

Arran2024 · 19/09/2024 19:21

Orangesandlemons77 · 19/09/2024 16:40

If the doctor has not been asked for evidence, she must have sent some in herself, they don't give it out without it

The gp WAS asked for evidence. That's what I said. The dwp sent him a form to complete.

We sent in plenty of evidence too btw.

nextdoornightmares · 19/09/2024 19:21

Rosscameasdoody · 19/09/2024 19:18

The legislation for this is in place and the proposal is to introduce it towards the end of 2025 if the present government don’t scrap the plans - which they haven’t so far. Most benefits will be covered by the legislation, including state pension and child benefit. The intention is to check for indications of fraud, but the capability is there to monitor for other things if necessary. It’s also been mooted that things like spending on supermarket loyalty cards etc, can be monitored if necessary to get an idea of spending habits. That will inevitably include benefit claimants.

Wild eh? I knew there was still some chat about it. But I don't think it will go any further than alerts for things like income or having over the savings threshold. Also not sure how any staff at banks would have the time to be sitting checking millions of bank account transactions.

But you never know! It would be a total piss take and invasion of privacy anyway.

Rosscameasdoody · 19/09/2024 19:18

nextdoornightmares · 19/09/2024 19:10

Most people on benefits are paying everything electronically not via cash. And even if they are using cash, how is that fraud?? If I withdrew all my benefit payment in cash, what does that actually prove??

The government will also never be allowed to just look at people's bank accounts whenever they like just to check their spending. There was a proposal to allow more monitoring of bank accounts to prevent fraud in the form of undeclared income or exceeding the savings threshold. This was in no way related to people withdrawing cash. And didn't go ahead anyway.

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The legislation for this is in place and the proposal is to introduce it towards the end of 2025 if the present government don’t scrap the plans - which they haven’t so far. Most benefits will be covered by the legislation, including state pension and child benefit. The intention is to check for indications of fraud, but the capability is there to monitor for other things if necessary. It’s also been mooted that things like spending on supermarket loyalty cards etc, can be monitored if necessary to get an idea of spending habits. That will inevitably include benefit claimants.

LadyKenya · 19/09/2024 19:17

DejaTu · 19/09/2024 18:31

Claimants should take the taxpayers hard earned, be grateful, keep their heads down, and get on with it.

The sense of entitlement on these threads is mind blowing.

Oh sit down. This is getting ridiculous.

QueenOfHiraeth · 19/09/2024 19:16

@JustAnotherPoster00 Fucking melts?? What a reasoned argument that is!🙄Are you seriously discounting the experience of all of those who know people personally (as opposed to the hearsay you suggest this is) and of those who have worked in the system?

The sad thing is that the shysters are, effectively, not just stealing from the taxpayers but are also meaning the money has to spread further so are stealing from those who need and deserve it

Rosscameasdoody · 19/09/2024 19:14

Zanatdy · 19/09/2024 19:11

Some do, trust me as I know one, and he’s told me he has had to exaggerate to get it. I’m not saying he doesn’t have an illness, he does, but he had lied on his form. He told me and he was also worried as his ex girlfriend reported him to DWP and he received a phone call. I’m sure there are some people who just make assumptions that people are lying, but some people actually do just tell people they’ve had to bend the truth. I don’t know anyone who has completely made up an illness, but have made it out to be worse to qualify for PIP

Even the DWP advise disability benefit claimants to describe their condition on their worst days, and tell them how often it happens. The problem is that genuine claimants don’t get a fair shake if they have fluctuating conditions - the effects have to be there at least 50% of the time to qualify for even the most severe conditions. I don’t think it’s unreasonable to tell it like it is if that applies most of the time.

Lavenderflower · 19/09/2024 19:13

I think this thread highlight why you shouldn't disclose personal finances to friends and family. PIP claimant have been told to describe for worst moments and days.

Zanatdy · 19/09/2024 19:12

MMUmum · 19/09/2024 19:05

I have heart disease, diabetes and thyroid problems, I was refused PIP because I can walk 200 yards🙄, gets my goat, it really does 😡

What about the care part? Mobility is only part of it, you can qualify for just the care part without qualifying for mobility