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Family member awarded enhanced pip - AIBU?

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Orangecrocs · 19/09/2024 15:42

My family member has just been awarded enhanced pip in both living and mobility components.
Shes told me that she’s twisted the truth during the assessment and told the assessor that she has lots of pain and can’t really walk at all, but she walks all the time as I see her out and about - we live in a hilly area. I know people who are in a wheelchair and struggle to get enhanced rate - so I really don’t understand how she’s managed this.
I know people will say mind your own business but she’s told me she’s actually lied to them.

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Miley1967 · 19/09/2024 21:48

icelolly12 · 19/09/2024 21:45

I understand this but there are fraudsters who see PIP as a top up to their universal credit.

Yes of course. Uc with LCWRA and PIP can be a similar figure than a full time nmw job.

Windchimesandsong · 19/09/2024 21:47

People do realise that PIP isn't an out of work benefit?

Some people receiving it are too unwell to work, but others are working - often because of their PIP.

PIP is, I understand, to pay for the extra costs incurred by their health issues or disability. For some people their PIP is what enables them to work.

Separately I'm still stunned to hear that so many people are apparently cheerfully telling all and sundry - friends, family members, colleagues, neighbours, and casual acquaintances that they're committing fraud. Pretty stupid imo. Presumably if they're so openly telling everyone they know, they're likely to get caught.

Also surprised so many people, including the many many genuine claimants, tell anyone they're claiming benefits given the current climate of stigma and increased disability discrimination.

Miley1967 · 19/09/2024 21:46

Bornnotbourne · 19/09/2024 21:42

If you are able to be a nurse full time you don’t meet the criteria for PIP. Nursing involves moving and handling, running for crash calls, manual dexterity for changing dressings etc.
my friend claim PIP and works full time but she works on an office and isn’t hands on.

I have a colleague who claims it for mental health issues whilst spending all day supporting addicts. Not sure what descriptors it was awarded on.

icelolly12 · 19/09/2024 21:45

Rosscameasdoody · 19/09/2024 21:42

PIP isn’t an out of work benefit. It’s a universal benefit paid to contribute to the cost of living with a disability. And it’s a fact that many people who qualify for standard sickness benefits will also qualify for a level of PIP for the same condition. Doesn’t mean they’re claiming either benefit fraudulently - the two benefits are assessed and paid for entirely different reasons.

I understand this but there are fraudsters who see PIP as a top up to their universal credit.

Julen7 · 19/09/2024 21:43

icelolly12 · 19/09/2024 21:38

Mumsnet is always very naive when it comes to issues like this. The reality is there are ways to 'scam' the pip system. Mumsnetters largely won't know this, but people who abuse the system pass on their 'tips' to each other. Largely involving illnesses that are hard to prove - mental health, fibromyalgia etc and going to the doctors about these symptoms for 'evidence' and exaggerating to the assessor.

Yes many many people are exaggerating their illnesses to claim PIP. It's a lot easier than working 37 hours a day 5 days a week. The reality is that a lot of these people aren't fit for full time work. They wouldn't last a normal job. Another reality is that standards benefits pay about 400 quid a month which is barely enough to survive on hence the PIP fraud.

This…and I’m thinking once on it it how many people ever want to admit to getting better and risk losing what has become part of their income?

Rosscameasdoody · 19/09/2024 21:42

icelolly12 · 19/09/2024 21:38

Mumsnet is always very naive when it comes to issues like this. The reality is there are ways to 'scam' the pip system. Mumsnetters largely won't know this, but people who abuse the system pass on their 'tips' to each other. Largely involving illnesses that are hard to prove - mental health, fibromyalgia etc and going to the doctors about these symptoms for 'evidence' and exaggerating to the assessor.

Yes many many people are exaggerating their illnesses to claim PIP. It's a lot easier than working 37 hours a day 5 days a week. The reality is that a lot of these people aren't fit for full time work. They wouldn't last a normal job. Another reality is that standards benefits pay about 400 quid a month which is barely enough to survive on hence the PIP fraud.

PIP isn’t an out of work benefit. It’s a universal benefit paid to contribute to the cost of living with a disability. And it’s a fact that many people who qualify for standard sickness benefits will also qualify for a level of PIP for the same condition. Doesn’t mean they’re claiming either benefit fraudulently - the two benefits are assessed and paid for entirely different reasons.

Bornnotbourne · 19/09/2024 21:42

PandoraSox · 19/09/2024 21:32

Better tell DWP it has got its stats wrong, then.

My old nurse manager claimed it for a back problem but still worked full time

Plenty of people on PIP work full time. It is an in work benefit. I am surprised you don't know that.

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If you are able to be a nurse full time you don’t meet the criteria for PIP. Nursing involves moving and handling, running for crash calls, manual dexterity for changing dressings etc.
my friend claim PIP and works full time but she works on an office and isn’t hands on.

icelolly12 · 19/09/2024 21:38

Mumsnet is always very naive when it comes to issues like this. The reality is there are ways to 'scam' the pip system. Mumsnetters largely won't know this, but people who abuse the system pass on their 'tips' to each other. Largely involving illnesses that are hard to prove - mental health, fibromyalgia etc and going to the doctors about these symptoms for 'evidence' and exaggerating to the assessor.

Yes many many people are exaggerating their illnesses to claim PIP. It's a lot easier than working 37 hours a day 5 days a week. The reality is that a lot of these people aren't fit for full time work. They wouldn't last a normal job. Another reality is that standards benefits pay about 400 quid a month which is barely enough to survive on hence the PIP fraud.

JanglingJack · 19/09/2024 21:37

NothingWrongButTheFire · 19/09/2024 16:05

It is shameful if true BUT I listened in on my mum's phonecalls and somethings I noticed were that she would too often try to describe her best day, not her worst. She would often underestimate how many of the 'worst' days she has and would over estimate what she could achieve in a day (she does this is real life too and exhausts herself).

If you asked her, she might even joke about over egging the truth to the assessor because she probably genuinely feels like she did - but in reality she didn't. She just feels like she did because she is so keen to put a positive spin on her current siutation and abilities and because it's downright painful for her to think about how much she cannot do for herself day to day.

I heard those phone calls and she lives with me. I know what she can and cannot do each day. She didn't lie and in some cases I don't think she properly represented how hard she has it. I also saw the tears on her face after the calls were finished because, for a little while there, she was forced to look her disability morre or less in the eye and it grieves her.

It's so difficult isn't it? With having to admit that your disability is that bad, comes a sense of... Well... Life over then. Some of us still dream of an impossible career!

Likewise with your Mum, my Nan got assessed to have a walk in shower fitted by the council (okay maybe not like your Mum!) she was ooh no I'm fine, look I've even got this exercise bike - shall I show you how I use it?!

Nan! Too stubborn, felt out of the bath within 2 months and copped the cost privately for the shower. I'd only ever seen a washing basket on that bike!

Rosscameasdoody · 19/09/2024 21:35

Petitchat · 19/09/2024 20:17

You ARE allowed to join in activities when you're in pain, although it can be difficult.

I've just "managed" to have a weekend away. I know I look ok sitting at breakfast, walking with my stroller and using the seat on it every few minutes.

But boy, was it a bloody struggle and painful.
Painkillers help.

Try not to be judgemental......

Very difficult for MN not to be judgmental when it comes to disability benefits. Claimants should sit quietly during the day, and at night cover themselves with a blanket and wait quietly to die, so they’re not too much of a burden to the tax payer. Absolutely no account taken of the fact that a great many people who claim benefits like PIP actually work and are tax payers themselves.

Bushmillsbabe · 19/09/2024 21:32

NothingWrongButTheFire · 19/09/2024 16:05

It is shameful if true BUT I listened in on my mum's phonecalls and somethings I noticed were that she would too often try to describe her best day, not her worst. She would often underestimate how many of the 'worst' days she has and would over estimate what she could achieve in a day (she does this is real life too and exhausts herself).

If you asked her, she might even joke about over egging the truth to the assessor because she probably genuinely feels like she did - but in reality she didn't. She just feels like she did because she is so keen to put a positive spin on her current siutation and abilities and because it's downright painful for her to think about how much she cannot do for herself day to day.

I heard those phone calls and she lives with me. I know what she can and cannot do each day. She didn't lie and in some cases I don't think she properly represented how hard she has it. I also saw the tears on her face after the calls were finished because, for a little while there, she was forced to look her disability morre or less in the eye and it grieves her.

Exactly this. I requested the PIP form 3 times before I actually completed it. I couldn't admit that I had a disability. I'm a health care professional, I'm supossed to help others, not need help myself. The interview was so hard, I cried for hours after I finished it. And then doubted myself, maybe I was too negative, maybe I really shouldn't get PIP, maybe I dont deserve, others are worse off than me
And then when I got the letter confirming I was awarded PIP, I cried again. Part of me wanted someone to tell me I don't have a disability.
Those that are genuine often find the process really emotionally challenging, especially their first application.

PandoraSox · 19/09/2024 21:32

Bornnotbourne · 19/09/2024 21:31

I used to assess and not everyone had supporting evidence. We could ring the GP, however, with under an hour to assess and write up few assessors ever followed up even when it was clearly fraudulent. I would guess there is large scale fraud with PIP. My old nurse manager claimed it for a back problem but still worked full time.

Better tell DWP it has got its stats wrong, then.

My old nurse manager claimed it for a back problem but still worked full time

Plenty of people on PIP work full time. It is an in work benefit. I am surprised you don't know that.

Bornnotbourne · 19/09/2024 21:31

TigerRag · 19/09/2024 16:18

I find this hard to believe. I supplied a lot of evidence some of which I was told was rubbish. Quite why my medically trained doctor and consultant would like with the test results and years of appointments from various specialists is beyond me. (They absolutely weren't lying)

I used to assess and not everyone had supporting evidence. We could ring the GP, however, with under an hour to assess and write up few assessors ever followed up even when it was clearly fraudulent. I would guess there is large scale fraud with PIP. My old nurse manager claimed it for a back problem but still worked full time.

JanglingJack · 19/09/2024 21:31

Kitkat1523 · 19/09/2024 16:12

The thing with PIP at the moment is that, in theory, you don’t actually need any diagnosis or medical evidence…..they very rarely contact your GP …..it’s all based on what you tell them you can and can’t do, with regard to the descriptors…..they either go with what you are telling them or don’t……I have medical evidence but lots don’t….there are changes afoot,these will likely be made public at the November Autumn Statement …..there’s talk of the need for a medical diagnosis and medical evidence ……and stopping a cash handout , instead providing free services ….who knows 🤷‍♀️…..but guessing it will be harder to claim for some….I’m just hoping they leave me alone until my current award runs out in 2027

I didn't get mine until they'd been sent my entire medical history since age 18.

PIP is notoriously difficult to get. You can't just go online, meet the markers then get it. You're questioned over everything. Well, I was. Records spoke for themselves though.

Motherrr · 19/09/2024 21:30

Report her. Pisses me off that some people blatantly lie like this, and others can't get the basic help or dignity they need

LadyKenya · 19/09/2024 21:27

orangeleopard · 19/09/2024 19:23

It’s disgusting. My mum has arthritis, diabetes, endo, had her thyroid removed, hip replaced, migraines, glucoma, sleep apnea, lupus, chromes, asthma - literally so much more and SHE got declined. It’s crazy the people who they decline when most of us know at least one person who’s on the fiddle.

None of that means anything. It is how it affects her which is important. Why don't you ask those that you know "on the fiddle", what they wrote on their formHmm

PandoraSox · 19/09/2024 21:27

Julen7 · 19/09/2024 21:21

Well according to most people on this thread there is no PIP fraud so go figure

Not no fraud, but the fraud rate is very low. According to DWP, not posters on this thread.

Rosscameasdoody · 19/09/2024 21:26

Julen7 · 19/09/2024 21:21

Well according to most people on this thread there is no PIP fraud so go figure

No -one is saying there is no PIP fraud. There is a level of fraud attached to most benefits. But the rate of fraud in disability benefits is low - around 0.1% because the eligibility criteria, checks and balances are applied more stringently.

Rosscameasdoody · 19/09/2024 21:24

Miley1967 · 19/09/2024 21:17

I can't remember the last time I heard anyone have a face to face assessment ? not since before lockdown anyway.

Face to face aassessments were restarted in May 2021. DWP announced that wherever possible assessments would either be by phone or paper based. Face-to-face assessments are still widely carried out where a decision cannot be made using other methods. Increasingly DWP are also utilising video calling using various apps, which also qualify as a face to face.

HelpMePlease32 · 19/09/2024 21:22

Barberries · 19/09/2024 21:05

@HelpMePlease32 how do you get enhanced mobility though? I was told it is for when you can't walk the length of a bus unaided.

One of the descriptors is "leaving the house causes overwhelming psychological distress" which I scored full points for as in my case I'm unable to do it alone, I can't drive somewhere alone, or follow a route on my own because of my panic and anxiety, I also have fibromyalgia and was awarded it on the basis that it is can be incredibly difficult on my worst days for me to walk 200 meters or I can do it but I would be in pain, it would take me an unreasonable amount of time and the after effects of doing that activity. Just to add, I didn't provide any medical info on my application. I'm not sure whether they did infact contact my GP or my therapist.

Julen7 · 19/09/2024 21:21

dierama · 19/09/2024 21:19

No, mobility. Apparently she’s always in pain she just pushes on through - apart from the fact that she actually admitted this isn’t true

Well according to most people on this thread there is no PIP fraud so go figure

dierama · 19/09/2024 21:19

Miley1967 · 19/09/2024 21:12

Must clearly be for mental health issues then ?

No, mobility. Apparently she’s always in pain she just pushes on through - apart from the fact that she actually admitted this isn’t true

Miley1967 · 19/09/2024 21:17

Rosscameasdoody · 19/09/2024 21:16

No, they’re definitely not naive. The rate of fraud and DWP error is around 0.1% for disability benefits. They don’t award benefit on the basis that something that can’t be proven could be true. The medical evidence has to support what the claimant says. If it doesn’t benefit is unlikely to be awarded unless the balance of probability is significantly in favour of the client - mostly based on other observations which support what’s being said. Many people here not realising that at a face to face assessment the claimant is not only being judged on the medical evidence, but also what the assessor observes about their overall behaviour on the day - demeanour, mood, appearance, etc.

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I can't remember the last time I heard anyone have a face to face assessment ? not since before lockdown anyway.

Rosscameasdoody · 19/09/2024 21:16

PandoraSox · 19/09/2024 21:07

Is the DWP naive, then? The rate of PIP fraud is so low, the DWP have recorded it as 0%.

No, they’re definitely not naive. The rate of fraud and DWP error is around 0.1% for disability benefits. They don’t award benefit on the basis that something that can’t be proven could be true. The medical evidence has to support what the claimant says. If it doesn’t benefit is unlikely to be awarded unless the balance of probability is significantly in favour of the client - mostly based on other observations which support what’s being said. Many people here not realising that at a face to face assessment the claimant is not only being judged on the medical evidence, but also what the assessor observes about their overall behaviour on the day - demeanour, mood, appearance, etc.

Windchimesandsong · 19/09/2024 21:15

Haven't read the thread but since being on MN I've been amazed at how many people seem to a) tell their whole extended family, neighbours, friends, hairdressers etc their very personal health and/or financial information, and b) happily tell all these people they're committing fraud.

That aside, re your family member OP. Maybe she feels embarrassed about her health issues and/or need for benefits - so is pretending to you that she's doesn't need the help. That scenario is sadly not uncommon.

It's awful some people feel that way but sadly some do. Probably because there's still a lot of prejudice about ill health and disability, and separately about needing benefits.

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