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Is separating laundry colours dated practice?

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willywallaby · 18/09/2024 20:26

When I moved out and started doing my own laundry I separated light and dark colours but then gradually I stopped doing it when I realised nothing bad ever happened if I mixed everything together. For most of my life though I've been quite careful about keeping brand new dark items away from white items until they'd been washed a few times. A few months ago I accidentally washed a new red t-shirt in with some white things and they stayed white. And we got some new dark things recently and because of the experience with the red t-shirt I didn't separate anything and still everything is fine. Have dyes modernised or something so that they don't run and you don't actually have to do this anymore?

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Doingtheboxerbeat · 24/09/2024 10:49

incognito50me · 21/09/2024 07:37

My mom and my grandma did it, it's an old practice but works well! No, it doesn't make you strange, you're just following tried and true tradition.

I appreciate you 😀. I mean if I have my white quilt cover on my bed then I'll save up my couple of white tops etc and put them in the washing machine, but it seems wasteful to do a wash for 3 small items and you are correct - they are whiter than snow .

Arran2024 · 21/09/2024 19:21

Cherubs4 · 20/09/2024 18:48

I admire the bravery on here of those mixing and hoping for the best!
I worry so much about shortening the life of clothes that I separate everything - towels, red tones (pink red yellow etc), whites, dark (now 2 separate washes of dark darks and lighter darks like blues and greens), bedding, fine wash for delicates.
My issue right now is what to wash beige and taupe with - if it goes in the red wash it goes reddy/pink; if it goes in the dark wash it comes out it comes out somewhat lifeless. Any ideas?

A colour catcher. I am anal about separating into colour groups - I even do a grey wash - and if I have a conundrum item I use a colour catcher just in case.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 21/09/2024 14:18

incognito50me · 21/09/2024 07:35

I separate my laundry, but occasionally there is a mishap. I'm surprised nobody has mentioned bluing - I add a very small amount to my whites/lights and it refreshes them. It's very old school and you have to be careful not to overdo it, but it works!
I also always use color catchers, but I'm not really sure that they make a big difference.

My mum used to do this 🙂 and yes it works great!

saltinesandcoffeecups · 21/09/2024 14:13

honestasever · 21/09/2024 05:57

I spend a lot of time in the US so when you said you were there I knew you would mention the dryer. I always have to buy an airer when we’re staying and take pegs with me. I dry my washing outside but do get strange looks from the neighbours. Your machines are also huge! It took me a while to get used to the top loaders too.
Interesting, the differences.

I have several lines in my basement that I’ll hang things on because in the winter they’ll dry super quick because the furnace is on and it’s really dry in the house. It honestly helps keep the humidity up in the house to do it. I think I line dry more than average though but it’s all inside. I never got around to putting up a line in the yard when we bought our house. But I grew up with one outside and had a makeshift one in our old apartment.

But yeah I’ve come to realize our dryers aren’t the same. Which is funny because when I lived in Scotland we had an industrial/high capacity washer and dryer which seemed to work very similar to ours, so I think those may work different than your home versions?

Front load washers are becoming the norm. But they will have to pry my 20 yo top loader out of my cold dead hands. I don’t want smart anything when it comes to that appliance.

I like to be able to tweak how I wash clothes… see the woolens as an example. I can get the right water temp for both wash and rinse by standing there during the water fill cycle and adjusting the temp knob from cold to warm to get tepid. And now modern washing machine (including mine) allows for nothing but a cold rinse, which I get around by using the main wash cycle setting on the knob to fill the water (at my desired temp) and then switching back to the rinse cycle when it’s filled with water.

Hameth · 21/09/2024 08:16

TheShellBeach · 18/09/2024 20:29

Whites, lights, jumpers, dark clothes.

And bedding also goes separately.

That's the way! Stuff lasts longer. We also have a rule that pockets must be emptied by the wearer as they are put in the basket

twentysevendresses · 21/09/2024 08:16

I do a white wash, then everything else goes in together.

incognito50me · 21/09/2024 07:37

Doingtheboxerbeat · 18/09/2024 21:26

🤭 It's sounds so Victorian when you put it like that - it's a habit I picked up from my mum - and my washing machine is quite new 🫣. I assure you, the boiling pot is quite big so no water ever spills over, but I take your point.

My mom and my grandma did it, it's an old practice but works well! No, it doesn't make you strange, you're just following tried and true tradition.

incognito50me · 21/09/2024 07:35

I separate my laundry, but occasionally there is a mishap. I'm surprised nobody has mentioned bluing - I add a very small amount to my whites/lights and it refreshes them. It's very old school and you have to be careful not to overdo it, but it works!
I also always use color catchers, but I'm not really sure that they make a big difference.

honestasever · 21/09/2024 07:09

I don’t see the problem with separating.
Why just bung everything in together?

It makes no sense.

To those who are saying they don’t care of their child’s uniform or clothing is dingy. Believe me, they will care, maybe not now, but one day.

mitogoshigg · 21/09/2024 07:01

I do whites/very pale separately as it keeps them white for longer, anyway have too much for just one wash!

Edingril · 21/09/2024 06:56

I still do it, no idea if I need too but happy to continue

Mellish84 · 21/09/2024 06:50

I just use colour run sheets, to stop anything getting marked. It saves having to run extra loads which saves on time and electricity so win win!

BlastedPimples · 21/09/2024 06:40

Always separate.

honestasever · 21/09/2024 05:58

Aquamarine1029 · 20/09/2024 19:03

I have a lot of beigey/taupey clothes and I wash them as their own little group. They're kind of the odd man out, they don't fit in with whites or colours.

I’m the same, I do wash them with pale greys too as I have a lot of grey too!

honestasever · 21/09/2024 05:57

saltinesandcoffeecups · 19/09/2024 19:47

I find laundry threads fascinating. I’m in the US so I’ve come to learn there are a lot of differences. (Although I’ll never claim that I’m typical 😜)

That being said I chuck everything in together regardless of color including dry clean only blouses. All on a cold wash. All gets tossed in the dryer except for blouses which are flung over a line to dry in the basement. My DH will do a load of whites from time to time with bleach and I’ll freshen up the whites.

The exception is a new red t-shirt I will wait until my DH does a load since 90% of his clothes are navy blue.

And woolens get tossed in together at a nice tepid temperature. Agitated for 1 min. Then left to soak (usually until I’ve both forgotten and remembered them), then they’re spun with no rinse, filled with tepid water again and spun with no rinse. Laid flat to dry after blocking.

I spend a lot of time in the US so when you said you were there I knew you would mention the dryer. I always have to buy an airer when we’re staying and take pegs with me. I dry my washing outside but do get strange looks from the neighbours. Your machines are also huge! It took me a while to get used to the top loaders too.
Interesting, the differences.

Teenagehorrorbag · 20/09/2024 22:01

WhiteCatsRock · 20/09/2024 17:33

Holy moly I separate - my husbands red work hoody destroyed a lot of our clothes 😂

Oh yes reds can always be tricky.....

Teenagehorrorbag · 20/09/2024 21:58

Depends on each item. New black socks can run, and anything made of natural fibres can do - I always wash by hand once before chucking certain items in the mixed wash. Also cheaper Asian cottons etc - I have some lovely bright coloured cotton dresses that I wash by hand even years later.

But no - mostly modern stuff is fine, especially man made fibres/mixes - school uniform black trousers and white shirts are fine together etc. MIL was horrified when my machine broke down and I took a mixed load to her - she couldn't believe I mixed whites and coloureds! (There was also a pale green towel in there - she said ' ha, look, that's not white any more!' I'm sure she didn't believe me that it never had been......😂)

celticprincess · 20/09/2024 21:55

I put the beige and taupe in the whites. But I don’t boil/hot wash the whites anymore as some of the white bras were going grey and o read somewhere that washing them too hot causes this. So they go in with the whites and I also add in the banish mix white powder.

Aquamarine1029 · 20/09/2024 19:03

Cherubs4 · 20/09/2024 18:48

I admire the bravery on here of those mixing and hoping for the best!
I worry so much about shortening the life of clothes that I separate everything - towels, red tones (pink red yellow etc), whites, dark (now 2 separate washes of dark darks and lighter darks like blues and greens), bedding, fine wash for delicates.
My issue right now is what to wash beige and taupe with - if it goes in the red wash it goes reddy/pink; if it goes in the dark wash it comes out it comes out somewhat lifeless. Any ideas?

I have a lot of beigey/taupey clothes and I wash them as their own little group. They're kind of the odd man out, they don't fit in with whites or colours.

Cherubs4 · 20/09/2024 18:48

I admire the bravery on here of those mixing and hoping for the best!
I worry so much about shortening the life of clothes that I separate everything - towels, red tones (pink red yellow etc), whites, dark (now 2 separate washes of dark darks and lighter darks like blues and greens), bedding, fine wash for delicates.
My issue right now is what to wash beige and taupe with - if it goes in the red wash it goes reddy/pink; if it goes in the dark wash it comes out it comes out somewhat lifeless. Any ideas?

Button28384738 · 20/09/2024 17:45

No i separate, I can always tell when people haven't separated their whites.....

I do darks, colours, whites, towels & bedding. Sometimes combine white towels/bedding & clothes to make a full wash.
2 adults, 2 kids so always enough to make a full load

Brendabigbaps · 20/09/2024 17:34

whites, brights, darks, bedding and finally towels.
we have enough to do them like that though

WhiteCatsRock · 20/09/2024 17:33

Holy moly I separate - my husbands red work hoody destroyed a lot of our clothes 😂

caringcarer · 20/09/2024 17:26

I do sheets, duvet covers and pillow cases together. 1 load of just towels every week. 1 load of whites mainly for cricket clothes but cricket season now come to an end so I might get away with 1 white load a fortnight. At least 2 dark loads each week and 1 load of dark sports wear on a sports wash. There is only 3 of us but teen makes loads of washing

rayofsunshine86 · 20/09/2024 17:23

I separate washes into:

  • Mine
  • DHs
  • DCs
  • Bedding
  • Towels/white wash
  • 60° tea towels
  • Everything else