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To wonder why everyone raves about cruises?

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malificent7 · 17/09/2024 17:27

It has never appealed until recently. I thought it sounded like you are trapped to an itinery, on a long , boring journey woth only a day in each place and no space from fellow passengers but everyone I know seems to love them...i am seriously tempted.
So what is so good about a cruise and has anyone actually hated them?
Is the food as good as everyone says and is it relaxing? Apparently you don't get sea sick...is this true?

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Ourdearoldqueen · 20/09/2024 16:49

Cruising is ace.

I also shop at Temu.

headstone · 20/09/2024 16:22

Regarding the point about the boats being eyesores. I think that is a mute point really. Beauty is subjective and a lot of tourist accommodation could be seen as ugly or ruining a beautiful coastline. The thing about these boats is they are not permanent and float away unlike ugly buildings.

IHateWasps · 20/09/2024 16:18

Oh I knew someone would come up with that. But there's precious little point preserving the planet if there aren't any future generations.

Other species are available. The planet doesn’t just belong to humans.

vivainsomnia · 20/09/2024 16:16

Also I choose to cruise with RCL because of all their initiatives and ecological concerns when designing new ships compared to other companies.

vivainsomnia · 20/09/2024 16:14

I mean, firstly a lot of people fly to reach the start of their cruise and secondly those figures on their own mean very little
It doesn't mean little. It might not be a perfect comparison but it shows how disproportionate it is to be as outrage as some posters are here about cruising yet don't seem half as concerned about air pollution caused by flying.

6strings1song · 20/09/2024 15:47

Meredusoleil · 20/09/2024 15:14

Have you heard anything about Azura? We are booked on her for next summer. I have heard she is planned to have a refit in March 2025, so have high hopes!

I haven't heard much about Azura, but if she is having a refit then I am sure it will be brought up to a similar spec as the much newer ships. I.e. less Debenhams/BHS cafe and more hotel/airy vibe. 😅

ThatsNotMyTeen · 20/09/2024 15:23

And in terms of the environment not sure how it compares to flying but I haven’t flown in 11 years 🤷‍♀️ so I’m hardly going to beat myself up over a cruise.

ThatsNotMyTeen · 20/09/2024 15:21

I wouldn’t say I rave about cruises but I went one last year and we all enjoyed it. It’s basically a package holiday on a ship. The food was fine, some restaurants better than others. It didn’t feel crowded. The length of time we had in the ports was fine. There was plenty to do on sea days. Our kids were 14 and 17 and enjoyed the freedom they had to do their own thing. I liked the mix of ages on board. The entertainment was good. Overall it was fun. We are going on another one next year.

Meredusoleil · 20/09/2024 15:14

6strings1song · 20/09/2024 15:04

We have been on Iona and Ventura. Iona was definitely better food, decor and facilities wise. Ventura had the vibe and decor of a floating Debenhams/BHS cafe. Iona had the impressive buffet (on the surface), but was very repetitive and roast focused. Ventura buffet was a bit more of a standard all inclusive style buffet. Ventura was pre Covid so no doubt different now.

I have heard (via the in laws) that Aurora and Arcadia are entering their "floating rust bucket" era. Aurora in slightly better nick that Arcadia.

Have you heard anything about Azura? We are booked on her for next summer. I have heard she is planned to have a refit in March 2025, so have high hopes!

6strings1song · 20/09/2024 15:04

saucycrumpet · 20/09/2024 11:37

@6strings1was that one of the older ships? I've been on a few P&O and been surprised recently at the differences between the ships. For example, food much more interesting and varied on Arvia than Aurora. But also the vibe was different with a much wider age range on Arvia.

We have been on Iona and Ventura. Iona was definitely better food, decor and facilities wise. Ventura had the vibe and decor of a floating Debenhams/BHS cafe. Iona had the impressive buffet (on the surface), but was very repetitive and roast focused. Ventura buffet was a bit more of a standard all inclusive style buffet. Ventura was pre Covid so no doubt different now.

I have heard (via the in laws) that Aurora and Arcadia are entering their "floating rust bucket" era. Aurora in slightly better nick that Arcadia.

taxguru · 20/09/2024 13:35

Marinade · 20/09/2024 11:03

Being rammed into a boat with other people listening to 'low key' cabaret whilst talking about their cruise package, the variety and quality of the buffet, and the plethora of destinations they have 'cruised into' sounds like a snore fest.

And 'haters' - are you 12? 😆

Likewise for lots of people, spending time at a beach hotel doing nothing but swimming, sunbathing, eating and drinking is a "snore fest".

And no doubt there are even people who'd regard the Cairo pyramids as a "snore fest" too - after all, they don't do anything - they're just "there".

You have to accept that different people have different preferences.

KimberleyClark · 20/09/2024 13:16

TulipTuesday · 20/09/2024 13:11

Fuck me, who knew people could get so worked up about other peoples holidays?!

I joined this thread to gain some insight in to what I’ve signed up to for my first ever cruise, looks like I’ve signed up to be universally loathed by the high and mighty.

Yes you'll have to get used to it I'm afraid. Never mind I'm sure you will enjoy the cruise!

Negroany · 20/09/2024 13:12

KimberleyClark · 20/09/2024 05:09

That doesn’t happen. You don’t have to sit with anyone.

It did on the Hurtigruten cruise I did. First two nights was help yourself, buffet, sit where you like. But after that it was your designated table and I was with three other people for breakfast and dinner, the same ones each time.

I didn't mind, but I'm just saying it does happen.

TulipTuesday · 20/09/2024 13:11

Fuck me, who knew people could get so worked up about other peoples holidays?!

I joined this thread to gain some insight in to what I’ve signed up to for my first ever cruise, looks like I’ve signed up to be universally loathed by the high and mighty.

KimberleyClark · 20/09/2024 13:04

sicknotez · 20/09/2024 12:51

Oh I knew someone would come up with that. But there's precious little point preserving the planet if there aren't any future generations. I only had two. That's population stability not expansion

And I expect my whole family's carbon footprint is smaller than that of individuals who cruise and fly and conspicuously consume

Having kids is the worst thing you can do environmentally. Especially if they go on to have kids and their kids have kids. Your footprint basically never stops growing.

sicknotez · 20/09/2024 13:02

vivainsomnia · 20/09/2024 12:59

British Airways : 7.52 Mt CO2 in 2023

Royal Caribbean: 4.99 million metric tons in 2022.

So unless those who claim how bad it is also never fly, they are just hypocrites

I mean, firstly a lot of people fly to reach the start of their cruise and secondly those figures on their own mean very little. Surely a per capita or per holiday figure is far more relevant

(That said, I don't fly)

sicknotez · 20/09/2024 13:02

vivainsomnia · 20/09/2024 12:59

British Airways : 7.52 Mt CO2 in 2023

Royal Caribbean: 4.99 million metric tons in 2022.

So unless those who claim how bad it is also never fly, they are just hypocrites

I mean, firstly a lot of people fly to reach the start of their cruise and secondly those figures on their own mean very little. Surely a per capita or per holiday figure is far more relevant

(That said, I don't fly)

vivainsomnia · 20/09/2024 12:59

British Airways : 7.52 Mt CO2 in 2023

Royal Caribbean: 4.99 million metric tons in 2022.

So unless those who claim how bad it is also never fly, they are just hypocrites

sicknotez · 20/09/2024 12:51

KimberleyClark · 20/09/2024 12:02

There's a certain irony in your statement, you do realise that?

Oh I knew someone would come up with that. But there's precious little point preserving the planet if there aren't any future generations. I only had two. That's population stability not expansion

And I expect my whole family's carbon footprint is smaller than that of individuals who cruise and fly and conspicuously consume

vivainsomnia · 20/09/2024 12:49

There are loads of experienced independent guides in every town who are well used to getting you back to your ship on time
Totally agree with that. Locals tolerate or welcome visitors because they rely heavily on tourists.

I always book with locals and the experience is always much better. Being a tour guide is often considered a highly skilled job and most have studied tourism or local history at Uni. They know everything about local culture and indeed, they know how essential it is for them to make sure passengers are back on time for their cruise.

There was an issue with one tour where our mini bus left without us through no fault of hours. We were very worried as times were tight but one operator remained to make sure all had left and when he got to us and we explained the situation, he immediately booked a private taxi.

In terms of saving the planet, does anyone know the difference between 1 week cruise Vs 7 flights?

Parker231 · 20/09/2024 12:43

sicknotez · 20/09/2024 11:55

Agreed. I want to be able to look my children in the eye and say I tried really hard to do my bit to protect the planet

A little late now if you’ve got children

Marinade · 20/09/2024 12:39

saltinesandcoffeecups · 20/09/2024 12:33

Hey don’t bring me, Bob, and Mary into your bun fight. We’re over here minding our own business 🤣

Tell Bob and Mary they have it right! 😂

saltinesandcoffeecups · 20/09/2024 12:33

Marinade · 20/09/2024 12:14

I said the ships were ugly and hideous, said nothing about the people. I used random names to give to my virtual cruise passengers... This is done frequently on threads like this.

Someone else mentioned something upthread about a Bob and Mary but you don't seem to have an issue with that? Just Rita, Sue and Bob!

Hey don’t bring me, Bob, and Mary into your bun fight. We’re over here minding our own business 🤣

Marinade · 20/09/2024 12:14

saucycrumpet · 20/09/2024 11:32

But @Marinade you are choosing to surround yourself with 'people like that' on this thread. Like me.

Why? Are you hoping that if you throw enough sneers and insults around, call people Sue, Tony and Rita, and use enough words from your thesaurus that mean ugly and hideous, we will all agree with you in the end?

I said the ships were ugly and hideous, said nothing about the people. I used random names to give to my virtual cruise passengers... This is done frequently on threads like this.

Someone else mentioned something upthread about a Bob and Mary but you don't seem to have an issue with that? Just Rita, Sue and Bob!

KimberleyClark · 20/09/2024 12:02

sicknotez · 20/09/2024 11:55

Agreed. I want to be able to look my children in the eye and say I tried really hard to do my bit to protect the planet

There's a certain irony in your statement, you do realise that?