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To wonder why everyone raves about cruises?

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malificent7 · 17/09/2024 17:27

It has never appealed until recently. I thought it sounded like you are trapped to an itinery, on a long , boring journey woth only a day in each place and no space from fellow passengers but everyone I know seems to love them...i am seriously tempted.
So what is so good about a cruise and has anyone actually hated them?
Is the food as good as everyone says and is it relaxing? Apparently you don't get sea sick...is this true?

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Superhansrantowindsor · 02/05/2025 21:37

Appletinii · 02/05/2025 08:36

Having followed this thread, I booked one for my mother and I and I am on it now. It’s definitely not for me.

We booked Yacht club with MSC which is very premium so butlers , separate sun beds etc and separate restaurant and bar if you wish.

But the whole concept is just not me but I also don’t like an all inclusive either.

What I can’t get over is the quality of the food. It makes sense that catering for 3000 people can’t mean delivery of quality food but I think people who rave about the food are just raving about the quantity and availability,

I can see why retired people like it though , and also those who like all inclusive.

Thing is there is a big variation between cruise lines. My mum loves a cruise but you’d never get her back on MSC.

Appletinii · 02/05/2025 19:15

Paulettamcgee · 02/05/2025 18:21

MSC food is vile. Even tomato soup was like inedible dishwater. Cruises can be great but pick a line that aligns with how you like to holiday.

I don’t think any align with me at all, hence my dislike. But this is a gift for someone else so it doesn’t really matter what I think. I’ll just never step foot on one again.

Appletinii · 02/05/2025 19:14

Ourdearoldqueen · 02/05/2025 09:56

OMG MSC Yacht club is divine. I loved it with all my heart. I’d gone in non-YC before and it’s like night and day. Which ship are you on? The older yacht clubs are better apparently. (We did preziosa)

Splendida. Yacht club is incredible - the service is superb but it’s too much for me. Ultimately, I think I’m not a cruiser, horses for courses

Appletinii · 02/05/2025 19:12

Parker231 · 02/05/2025 08:47

What restaurants were there?

About 7. We tried everything from the exclusive yacht club one to the buffet. It’s nowhere near what you would get in a local restaurant. We had incredible tapas in a Barcelona restaurant the day before we set sail. Our last truly good meal. Cruises are not for foodies, they just can’t be at those numbers.

Piggywaspushed · 02/05/2025 18:47

Yeah, I think she didnt research but it's also partly the overselling and the marketing so she made assumptions. She isn't a seasoned cruiser. I'm sure she did many things wrong!

There were some children in my coach tour BTW. It definitely did have its disadvantages and I woukdnt repeat it necessarily but I think my scenery was spectacular. I'm not sure it's true that the best views of the fjords are from the water. You should see my photo of Geirangerfjord from above!

GameOfJones · 02/05/2025 18:34

Piggywaspushed · 02/05/2025 17:53

I just went on a bus tour of Norway and saw loads of fjords the ships can't get down and visited towns such as Lillehammer.

Conversely, MIL just came back from a Norway cruise and said she was disappointed at how little fjord scenery they saw as all the sailing was at night.

It sounds to me like I saw more of Norway?

I'm sure you did see more. It's not a competition though, a coach tour sounds like hell to me but I've got young children that would need entertaining on a coach. Each to their own.

We have booked another cruise to go back again as we loved Norway so much (on a different itinerary to visit some other places and fjords.) As to how much of the fjords you see I don't know which cruise your mum did but we had days worth of beautiful scenery. I think this is where it is really important to do your research on the itinerary as well as what times the ship docks and leaves port.

I do understand why some people don't like cruises though. As I said before, they're quite a marmite thing. It's good we are all different.

I can't imagine much worse than going to Dubai on holiday like a PP suggested. My friend went last year and it seemed to mainly be sitting in air conditioned bars, shopping or swimming. Not for me (which is a good thing because the pools on cruise ships are usually tiny! 🤣)

Paulettamcgee · 02/05/2025 18:21

MSC food is vile. Even tomato soup was like inedible dishwater. Cruises can be great but pick a line that aligns with how you like to holiday.

Piggywaspushed · 02/05/2025 17:53

GameOfJones · 02/05/2025 11:26

I found it so relaxing. E.g a cruise to the Norwegian fjords. The best way to see them is from the water. Just sit with a drink and take in the amazing views.

Get on at Southampton and you are immediately on holiday. No hassle of airports, much quicker to board and get through security and it was way, way easier than flying with young children. I think we arrived at Southampton at 12pm and by 1pm we were having lunch and a glass of fizz.

I just went on a bus tour of Norway and saw loads of fjords the ships can't get down and visited towns such as Lillehammer.

Conversely, MIL just came back from a Norway cruise and said she was disappointed at how little fjord scenery they saw as all the sailing was at night.

It sounds to me like I saw more of Norway?

DoraSpenlow · 02/05/2025 17:45

JojoM1981 · 02/05/2025 12:43

Agree. And the thought of all those people confined together. No wonder bugs and sickness are rife 🤮

No different to a hotel. I have never been ill on a cruise but have had norovirus twice at hotels.

DoraSpenlow · 02/05/2025 17:44

Indeed. I was so excited to be visiting Acapulo. Awful place. So disappointed. Glad I wasn't there for a week.

KimberleyClark · 02/05/2025 13:49

ASphinx · 02/05/2025 12:51

I get that not all cruise ships are ‘huge’, but surely they are all, essentially floating hotels, in that you sleep there, mostly, for the duration of your holiday, and eat there as a default if you’re not off the ship?

Bigger cruise ships are more like floating holiday resorts, smaller ones are more like floating hotels. I much the latter, not interested in resort ships.

annielouisa · 02/05/2025 13:12

I am off on my 3rd cruise in September with 3 friends. We started with a mini cruise to see if we liked it and we did . Last year we did the Canaries, Madeira, Lisbon and Cadiz. This September we are doing a Baltic cruise. So far we have done only P&O from Southampton. A friend has done a Caribbean and transatlantic.

We find it relaxing Sea days we take part in activities or chill out and we tend to self organise days ashore. We love the main dining Rooms and gala nights. All our families are over 18 and Cruising is some me time

Parker231 · 02/05/2025 12:55

ASphinx · 02/05/2025 12:51

I get that not all cruise ships are ‘huge’, but surely they are all, essentially floating hotels, in that you sleep there, mostly, for the duration of your holiday, and eat there as a default if you’re not off the ship?

What type of holiday would you choose instead

Gettingbysomehow · 02/05/2025 12:55

My idea of hell quite frankly.

ASphinx · 02/05/2025 12:51

Parker231 · 02/05/2025 12:48

Not all cruises are huge floating hotels.

I get that not all cruise ships are ‘huge’, but surely they are all, essentially floating hotels, in that you sleep there, mostly, for the duration of your holiday, and eat there as a default if you’re not off the ship?

Parker231 · 02/05/2025 12:48

ASphinx · 02/05/2025 12:44

Yeah, I see that, I suppose. But unless you do also enjoy the floating hotel experience of being on the ship, it seems to me that it would be a rather inefficient way of ‘test-driving’ a location? I mean, I don’t think I’d go on a Caribbean cruise just to see whether I wanted to go on holiday to St Lucia.

Not all cruises are huge floating hotels.

ASphinx · 02/05/2025 12:44

Parker231 · 02/05/2025 12:38

A cruise an be a great tester for a location - if you like it you can then plan a holiday to that area.

Yeah, I see that, I suppose. But unless you do also enjoy the floating hotel experience of being on the ship, it seems to me that it would be a rather inefficient way of ‘test-driving’ a location? I mean, I don’t think I’d go on a Caribbean cruise just to see whether I wanted to go on holiday to St Lucia.

JojoM1981 · 02/05/2025 12:43

ASphinx · 02/05/2025 12:25

Because the idea of spending only a single day, or a day and a night, in somewhere you’re interested enough in to have travelled a long distance to is crazy to me. I entirely get why people with limited mobility or energy compromised by illness, age etc would find cruises good for what they need, but I would class other cruisers as like people who go to Dubai on holiday, because what they go on holiday for is not a new place.

Agree. And the thought of all those people confined together. No wonder bugs and sickness are rife 🤮

Parker231 · 02/05/2025 12:38

ASphinx · 02/05/2025 12:25

Because the idea of spending only a single day, or a day and a night, in somewhere you’re interested enough in to have travelled a long distance to is crazy to me. I entirely get why people with limited mobility or energy compromised by illness, age etc would find cruises good for what they need, but I would class other cruisers as like people who go to Dubai on holiday, because what they go on holiday for is not a new place.

A cruise an be a great tester for a location - if you like it you can then plan a holiday to that area.

SouthLondonMum22 · 02/05/2025 12:33

ASphinx · 02/05/2025 12:25

Because the idea of spending only a single day, or a day and a night, in somewhere you’re interested enough in to have travelled a long distance to is crazy to me. I entirely get why people with limited mobility or energy compromised by illness, age etc would find cruises good for what they need, but I would class other cruisers as like people who go to Dubai on holiday, because what they go on holiday for is not a new place.

I'm not interested in going to Dubai at all.

Island hopping around the Caribbean was amazing though and a great way of experiencing multiple Caribbean islands. Did we experience as much in one place as we would've done if we had stayed for a week in the same place? Of course not but it was always so much fun waking up in a new place almost every day.

ASphinx · 02/05/2025 12:25

SouthLondonMum22 · 02/05/2025 12:07

Loved our Caribbean cruise. Not sure how it would've been possible to be bored.

We also had full days at each stop, some cruises do overnights as well. We had plenty of time to explore and also did some excursions too.

Because the idea of spending only a single day, or a day and a night, in somewhere you’re interested enough in to have travelled a long distance to is crazy to me. I entirely get why people with limited mobility or energy compromised by illness, age etc would find cruises good for what they need, but I would class other cruisers as like people who go to Dubai on holiday, because what they go on holiday for is not a new place.

SouthLondonMum22 · 02/05/2025 12:07

JojoM1981 · 02/05/2025 10:49

Never appealed to me. Why would you travel around the world and literally have just a few hours at each stop? No time to do anything 🤷‍♀️

Neighbours went on a Carribbean cruise recently. They were very bored and came down with sickness and diarrhea 3 days in. Sounds delightful. "Never again" she said.

Loved our Caribbean cruise. Not sure how it would've been possible to be bored.

We also had full days at each stop, some cruises do overnights as well. We had plenty of time to explore and also did some excursions too.

KimberleyClark · 02/05/2025 11:32

GameOfJones · 02/05/2025 11:26

I found it so relaxing. E.g a cruise to the Norwegian fjords. The best way to see them is from the water. Just sit with a drink and take in the amazing views.

Get on at Southampton and you are immediately on holiday. No hassle of airports, much quicker to board and get through security and it was way, way easier than flying with young children. I think we arrived at Southampton at 12pm and by 1pm we were having lunch and a glass of fizz.

Having breakfast on deck with a gorgeous view set out before you. And sunsets at sea are something else entirely.

GameOfJones · 02/05/2025 11:26

Missey85 · 02/05/2025 11:11

I couldn't think of anything worse than being stuck on a ship if you want to get somewhere just fly there rather than take two weeks to get there

I found it so relaxing. E.g a cruise to the Norwegian fjords. The best way to see them is from the water. Just sit with a drink and take in the amazing views.

Get on at Southampton and you are immediately on holiday. No hassle of airports, much quicker to board and get through security and it was way, way easier than flying with young children. I think we arrived at Southampton at 12pm and by 1pm we were having lunch and a glass of fizz.

KimberleyClark · 02/05/2025 11:23

Missey85 · 02/05/2025 11:11

I couldn't think of anything worse than being stuck on a ship if you want to get somewhere just fly there rather than take two weeks to get there

Well I just really love travelling by sea. The leisurelyness is what appeals. We’re all different.