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To wonder why everyone raves about cruises?

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malificent7 · 17/09/2024 17:27

It has never appealed until recently. I thought it sounded like you are trapped to an itinery, on a long , boring journey woth only a day in each place and no space from fellow passengers but everyone I know seems to love them...i am seriously tempted.
So what is so good about a cruise and has anyone actually hated them?
Is the food as good as everyone says and is it relaxing? Apparently you don't get sea sick...is this true?

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nocoolnamesleft · 18/09/2024 20:37

Dabralor · 18/09/2024 20:07

God this makes it all sound even less appealing than before!!!!

Also staggered by all these people who have done 20, 25, 30+ cruise holidays - where on earth do you find the cash?!

Staggering.

Where do I find the cash? When I first went on cruises, I could only afford a windowless inside cabin that probably used to be maid servant quarters (QE2, now that was a proper ship) but it was worth it to get on board. These days my annual cruise is my main luxury. I drive a cheap car. I never traded up on houses. I don't have kids (which drops my carbon footprint a lot). I don't drink. I don't do much socialising, mainly because so much of it revolves around drinking. But once a year I go on a fantabulous cruise. I missed it so much during Covid times. Holidaying in the UK in a nice hotel in an interesting area? Not remotely as good. And seen as so much weirder ashore to be travelling/dining alone. Whereas on board it's seen as perfectly normal. It is something to look forward to the rest of the year. Something I can so happily do alone. Something I have occasionally happily shared with my parents, who also love a nice civilised cruise.

God, I need to book my next one.

Vergus · 18/09/2024 20:16

@Marinade

They are safe and easy holidays for single mums with young children. And for older folks, who don’t have the physical energy of others but who want to see different places.

Dabralor · 18/09/2024 20:07

Marinade · 18/09/2024 09:23

So you are using more fuel and resources to get there on tenders. Got it.

And how long does it take to get on the tenders? Queing up to squeeze onto tenders to see Venice, you could not make this up.😅Its like being in the dinner queue at school.

What a horrible way to enter the beautiful lagoon of Venice. But I get that people are desperate to travel on these floating monstrosities so please, fill your boots.

God this makes it all sound even less appealing than before!!!!

Also staggered by all these people who have done 20, 25, 30+ cruise holidays - where on earth do you find the cash?!

Staggering.

Sunnysal · 18/09/2024 19:14

My favourites are NCL and Cunard

underused · 18/09/2024 18:45

Sartre · 18/09/2024 11:05

I’d hate it. Travelling is all about exploring and experiencing a new place and culture for me and a cruise is basically just an all inclusive hotel. It’s always baffled me when people go on holiday to stay in the hotel.

It's totally different.

Every cruise I've been on, we are off the ship straight after an early breakfast, spend the day sightseeing, have lunch out, back on ship for dinner. Nothing like spending the day in your AI hotel.

EasternStandard · 18/09/2024 17:17

Sunnysal · 18/09/2024 17:16

I've been on maybe 30 cruises and I love them. Every cruise line is different and suited to different experiences. You don't have to do anything you dont want to but there are lots things to do. Some of the speakers I've heard are really good. There are painting classes, gyms , films , choirs,wine, tastings, craft meetings. The food is fabulous and you can dine w8th different people or as a couple. im not very mobile and it's a good holiday for me. I've met some wonderful people, Sally Gunel, Mary Berry's brother! And just generally interesting travellers. They are really conscious of pollution and you can go to really interesting talks about how they deal with rubbish,effluent etc.

Which was your favourite @sunnysal?

Sunnysal · 18/09/2024 17:16

I've been on maybe 30 cruises and I love them. Every cruise line is different and suited to different experiences. You don't have to do anything you dont want to but there are lots things to do. Some of the speakers I've heard are really good. There are painting classes, gyms , films , choirs,wine, tastings, craft meetings. The food is fabulous and you can dine w8th different people or as a couple. im not very mobile and it's a good holiday for me. I've met some wonderful people, Sally Gunel, Mary Berry's brother! And just generally interesting travellers. They are really conscious of pollution and you can go to really interesting talks about how they deal with rubbish,effluent etc.

Marinade · 18/09/2024 17:00

pantomanto · 18/09/2024 14:42

Cruise food and the options you have is nothing like AI beige food.

And you know that because.... You have been on an AI?

I am not talking about the food particularly - its more the actual concept of a packaged type holiday with the limiting experience that entails, such as eating in the same place every night, not being able to go out of an evening and peruse the lovely local restaurants as you are being hoarded off somewhere else on your floating block - polluting the sea as you go.

pantomanto · 18/09/2024 14:42

Marinade · 18/09/2024 12:15

The cruisers who denounce AI hotels and their generic beige food have failed to notice that their floating block is essentially an AI hotel on rudders...

Cognitive bias perhaps?

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Cruise food and the options you have is nothing like AI beige food.

Marinade · 18/09/2024 12:15

Sartre · 18/09/2024 11:05

I’d hate it. Travelling is all about exploring and experiencing a new place and culture for me and a cruise is basically just an all inclusive hotel. It’s always baffled me when people go on holiday to stay in the hotel.

The cruisers who denounce AI hotels and their generic beige food have failed to notice that their floating block is essentially an AI hotel on rudders...

Cognitive bias perhaps?

saltinesandcoffeecups · 18/09/2024 12:11

toastandtwo · 18/09/2024 02:20

No because Bob and Mary aren’t constantly driving around when at home (and that’s not even a good analogy as cruise ships emit
more pollutants than cars), or releasing sewage into the oceans.

But Bob & Mary x 2000 x #of cruise ships are driving, shitting, and producing waste will have an impact on the environment.

I’m not trying to argue that these ships don’t have some impact but it’s a bit disingenuous to imply that the impact of them doesn’t have an offset somewhere else.

OhMaria2 · 18/09/2024 11:59

ASpritzOfMyFavouritePerfume · 17/09/2024 18:44

Perfect response.

We paid £5k for a cruise at half term and had the best time (Fjords). IMO a million times better value than sitting in a generic hotel stuffed full of people and eating generic AI food.

But would I judge people who chose that holiday instead of mine? No!

Was it smooth sailing or was it choppy like the sea? I'd so love to be the kind of person that could do a big glamorous cruise but I get seasick and I'm sort of terrified of the ocean. I've thought about a river cruise but I wonder if Fjords are a good compromise.

Harassedevictee · 18/09/2024 11:42

halava · 17/09/2024 21:26

I think I'll try one soon. I can't say whether I'd like or hate it if I haven't tried it! I'm interested in the Norwegian Fjiords so if anyone has been, maybe they'd like to share their experience and cruise line.

I'd go all out and get a balcony, although I think the fjiords ships are smaller so may not have them. I'd cope though if the overall experience was good.

(apologies if this information was given already, I confess not to have RTFT.)

A 7 day cruise from Southampton to the Fjords is an Ideal first cruise.

Definitely get a balcony as you spend time cruising in the Fjords with spectacular views.

Think about the time of year as the sunrise and sunset times vary enormously. In May June you get really long days and the waterfalls tend to be fuller due to the meltwater.

Breakfast in the main dining room is much better than the buffet.

If you can, get a cruise that stops at Flaam and do the return train journey - sit on the RHS to go up as the views are better.

Take layers including waterproofs as well as sun cream!

Vergus · 18/09/2024 11:25

Bleurgh nah - too many people, brash, loud, pit-stops at lovely places that would be better explored at a slow pace. If norovirus hits, you’re all getting it. Pools are tiny. Not for me, but others rave about them so each to their own

taxguru · 18/09/2024 11:09

Sartre · 18/09/2024 11:05

I’d hate it. Travelling is all about exploring and experiencing a new place and culture for me and a cruise is basically just an all inclusive hotel. It’s always baffled me when people go on holiday to stay in the hotel.

No more baffling than why some people like wearing black clothes.

Or why some people prefer a cat to a dog.

Or why some people prefer a BMW rather than a Nissan Micra.

Or why some people prefer to live in the countryside rather than a city centre.

Not sure why anyone should be "baffled" that other people have different likes/dislikes in any walk of life.

Sartre · 18/09/2024 11:05

I’d hate it. Travelling is all about exploring and experiencing a new place and culture for me and a cruise is basically just an all inclusive hotel. It’s always baffled me when people go on holiday to stay in the hotel.

TonTonMacoute · 18/09/2024 11:02

Marinade · 17/09/2024 19:36

Yes we get that, it is not particularly informative or novel to acknowledge that people enjoy different types of holiday.

And yet people post asking the question again and again.

People know what cruises are like, they know what SC is like, they know what AI resorts are like yet they still post asking why people like these things. They deserve to hear the most obvious answer.

Bearpawk · 18/09/2024 10:54

You wonder why some people have different preferences to you? Really ?

sicknotez · 18/09/2024 10:45

KimberleyClark · 18/09/2024 10:44

Not all cruise ships look like that. The line I cruise with looks like this. I cannot abide the really huge ones that look like floating office blocks

I mean that looks like a floating office block too. Just a slightly smaller floating office block

KimberleyClark · 18/09/2024 10:44

MagpiePi · 18/09/2024 10:11

I've only ever seen cruise ships from the land and am just appalled at how big and intrusive they are. One came into Venice when I was there once and it ws like a 30 storey, modern shopping centre had been dropped into the city. Also, the ones on the German rivers are like a block of flats on their sides.

Not all cruise ships look like that. The line I cruise with looks like this. I cannot abide the really huge ones that look like floating office blocks

To wonder why everyone raves about cruises?
taxguru · 18/09/2024 10:12

MrsTerryPratchett · 18/09/2024 01:27

See the earlier posted article. The 218 cruise shits (was a typo but I left it) in Europe produce 4.4 times as many sulphur oxides as all the cars in Europe.

Plus, I don't drive my car into a fjord while throwing sewage out of my window. I mean Venice doesn't even have any cars!

They really are dreadful for the environment. Air and water.

Have you the statistics for the carbon footprint/pollution of a Med holiday resort to compare?

I.e. the power station providing the power (plus the pilons, substations, etc). The water treatment plants, desalination plants, pumps, etc providing the clean water and removing the dirty water? The pollution from the airport/aircraft, all the taxis and coaches, all the local workers using cars and motorbikes to commute home to work. All the delivery lorries delivering the food, drink, souvenirs, etc. The power used by the hotel for heating, lighting, cooking, waste disposal, swimming pools, etc. The power and utilities for building the hotels, shops, restaurants, roads, hospital, etc?

You really can't just pick seemingly "big" figures from a cruise ship without comparing them against ALL the carbon footprint and pollution of alternatives!

MagpiePi · 18/09/2024 10:11

I've only ever seen cruise ships from the land and am just appalled at how big and intrusive they are. One came into Venice when I was there once and it ws like a 30 storey, modern shopping centre had been dropped into the city. Also, the ones on the German rivers are like a block of flats on their sides.

saucycrumpet · 18/09/2024 10:11

@ZoeyBartlett thanks, never heard of that one, I'll research it Smile

Marinade · 18/09/2024 10:11

KimberleyClark · 18/09/2024 09:59

Cruise ships aren't allowed to dump sewage at sea of they are more than three miles off shore. Ost ships send it to local water treatment centers when they are in port.

That's ok then? This is from a Friends of the Earth article in 2022.

https://foe.org/blog/can-cruise-ships-dump-garbage-in-the-ocean/#:~:text=U.S.%20law%20requires%20cruise%20ships,every%20year%20by%20cruise%20lines.

It’s quite legal to dump sewage and food waste into the sea. U.S. law requires cruise ships to treat waste within about 3.5 miles of shore—but beyond that, there are no restrictions on dumping polluted sewage and graywater. Researchers have estimated that over a billion gallons of sludge made from excrement and food scraps are released into the ocean every year by cruise lines.

Can Cruise Ships Dump Garbage in the Ocean?

Cruise ships dump garbage in the ocean, releasing waste and pollution into our oceans. Learn what kind of waste cruise ships are dumping.

https://foe.org/blog/can-cruise-ships-dump-garbage-in-the-ocean#:~:text=U.S.%20law%20requires%20cruise%20ships,every%20year%20by%20cruise%20lines.

saucycrumpet · 18/09/2024 10:09

I find the ships with the pointiest noses the most beautiful. Some bows are too short and stubby!