Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To wonder why everyone raves about cruises?

559 replies

malificent7 · 17/09/2024 17:27

It has never appealed until recently. I thought it sounded like you are trapped to an itinery, on a long , boring journey woth only a day in each place and no space from fellow passengers but everyone I know seems to love them...i am seriously tempted.
So what is so good about a cruise and has anyone actually hated them?
Is the food as good as everyone says and is it relaxing? Apparently you don't get sea sick...is this true?

OP posts:
Thread gallery
15
TheBers2024 · 19/09/2024 13:09

@sweetpickle2 although I notice that the report cited compared a 7 day cruise travelling to 4 ports, to a weeks holiday with one flight and one hotel.

How much damage to go by air or ferry separately? What's the environmental cost comparison of a cruise just going to one port for 7 nights.

I mean that's one reason a cruise is popular. You visit more than one place in a 7 day holiday. Is the amount of places travelled worse than the way we travel to them?

sweetpickle2 · 19/09/2024 11:25

It's about three times more carbon-intensive to go on a cruise than it is to fly to a holiday and stay in one hotel- https://www.energymonitor.ai/sectors/transport/weekly-data-is-it-better-to-take-a-cruise-than-fly/?cf-view

Devices being shipped on on container ships is a disingenuous comparison- one trip on one of those ships will supply thousands of people with the devices they need to work and live every single day, it's not quite the same as people taking a one or two week holiday that is entirely a luxury.

Fair enough if you like cruising and decide to do it anyway but the posters tying themselves in knots trying to claim that cruising isn't that bad an environmental impact need to give their heads a wobble.

Badbadbunny · 19/09/2024 11:12

KimberleyClark · 19/09/2024 09:42

The anti cruise contingent on here seem to be posting on the basis that cruise ships are the only pollutants of the sea. They aren't -;most of the antis will be typing on devices that have been shipped on container ships from the far east.

They're also forgetting all the pollution etc caused by traditional hotels, holiday resorts, etc., in terms of the infrastructure, building, utilities, power, etc.

Ineffable23 · 19/09/2024 11:01

@Parker231 @saltinesandcoffeecups @TheBers2024 @nocoolnamesleft

Sorry if I have missed anyone but thank you all for the many and varied answers. I will do some research - thanks again!

sweetpickle2 · 19/09/2024 10:47

I've been on a few, as my parents love them and have taken me with them a few times, either as a teen or later as an adult when it was a dying wish of one of them.

They are definitely good fun and great value, a fantastic way to see lots of places, and not flying (if you go from Southampton) is an amazing way to start a holiday.

I wouldn't choose to go on one myself though, they're really appalling for the environment. The Virgin ones look incredible though, if I was going to do one again I'd do one of those.

forevernumb · 19/09/2024 10:27

@Paulettamcgee I didn't say all Americans are bad .

I SAID there are too many Americans ON many cruises. Cruising is much more of an activity for all ages than is the trend in the UK.

How do I know? I used to live in a place where every Thursday 4 large cruise ships came into port. I saw the effect of their off shore dumping on the local beaches. To be fair though locals had a very poor attitude towards dumping crap in the sea.

The minibuses, taxis etc were lined up to collect them. In general though many see cruising as a one stop spend and contribute very little to the local economy. They go back to the ship for lunch. They offer ridiculous prices to local vendors. There's always another port and another vendor - no real involvement in the community they are docking at for a few hours. Places and people are disposable.
I saw a family fighting in Santorini because father insisted on going back to the ship because he had paid for it . I have acquaintances who post endlessly about how they just stay on the ship and drink. Cruise ships are seen as " third class tourism" by many of these countries. A friend did a Greek one recently - two hours at most on a destination. What is the point?

I know many love aspects of it but as a former aid worker I'm not blind to the negative effects of them.

KimberleyClark · 19/09/2024 09:42

The anti cruise contingent on here seem to be posting on the basis that cruise ships are the only pollutants of the sea. They aren't -;most of the antis will be typing on devices that have been shipped on container ships from the far east.

deplorabelle · 19/09/2024 09:26

toastandtwo · 18/09/2024 02:20

No because Bob and Mary aren’t constantly driving around when at home (and that’s not even a good analogy as cruise ships emit
more pollutants than cars), or releasing sewage into the oceans.

If Bob and Mary's home was entirely powered by low grade marine fuel and so were their local shops, restaurant, cinema, heating aircon water treatment centre etc then you'd be getting close to equivalent emissions at home and on a cruise.

Cattyisbatty · 19/09/2024 08:25

MrsTerryPratchett · 17/09/2024 17:41

It's cheaper than hotels in each of the ports.

It's everything I despise about travel and nothing I like. Environmentally horrifying while being the most surface experience of each place. With food poisoning.

But I can see why people like it.

Likewise!

Parker231 · 19/09/2024 08:05

Ineffable23 · 18/09/2024 21:41

Is there a good way of dealing with the single supplement issue or do you just have to live with it? I've considered going on cruises but as I don't have a partner currently they are all nearly double the headline per person price and that's just too much to justify.

https://www.passionforcruises.co.uk/

a single friend raves about this company and has been on multiple solo cruises with them. No single supplement.

Latest Top Cruise Holidays For 2023, 2024 & 2025 | Leading UK Singles & Solo Cruise Specialists | PassionForCruises.co.uk

Leading Expert Cruise Specialists & Cardiff Cruise Sales Agents in the UK. We sell solo occupancy cruises to many destinations for all ages including Fly Cruise, Cruise Only, Cheap Cruises, Last Minute Deals and No Supplement Singles Cruises Deals.

https://www.passionforcruises.co.uk

sashh · 19/09/2024 07:15

OhMaria2 · 18/09/2024 11:59

Was it smooth sailing or was it choppy like the sea? I'd so love to be the kind of person that could do a big glamorous cruise but I get seasick and I'm sort of terrified of the ocean. I've thought about a river cruise but I wonder if Fjords are a good compromise.

Cruise ships are in the business of keeping people happy and spending money, whereas ferries are in the business of getting you from A to B.

So it is in the interests of the cruise ship to keep things as smooth as possible, even if that involves skipping a port.

If you are travelling from Southampton to the med you might get a rocky ship in the bay of Biscay.

If you fly to the med to get on the ship then it will be as smooth as possible.

You can obviously take sea sickness pills and according to one of the YouTubers I follow you can get a jab on board that costs about £150, knocks you out for a few hours and after that you are fine

WatchOutMissMarpleIsAbout · 19/09/2024 05:47

@pestowithwalnuts 💐💐

@malificent7 look at cruise critic. A mine of information. Check out the reviews as each line has different classes of ship. Look at the boards and if you book then the roll call for your ship where you could share excursions. I think for some people on the first cruise though to do ships excursions can be a good starting point- but they are busy!

GreenTeaLikesMe · 19/09/2024 01:38

The worries about massive cruise ships running on traditional heavy fuel oils are not just about "carbon," which someone might offset in other ways, but about eye-popping amounts of sulphur dioxide and other stuff being emitted and all the stuff getting released in the harbors of charming historical cities. And the fact that cruise tourists tend to flood cities suddenly in huge numbers and spend less than other kinds of tourists.

More and more cities are banning them, and I don't blame them. They may play a role for disabled and elderly tourists, but Europe is building a lot of high speed rail and sleeper trains right now, and hopefully they will be ensuring some accessible accommodation, so it would be nice if this became an alternative for travelers who have less mobility but want to see different places.

Smaller cruise ships running on clean synthetic fuels would be OK, as long as they stop dumping crap in the sea, seriously.

Ourdearoldqueen · 19/09/2024 00:22

pestowithwalnuts · 18/09/2024 23:22

We've loved cruising.So much so that we've done 15.
One of the great things is you unpack once and that's it.
Get a balcony cabin midships..and with cabins above and below.No noise from night club ..show room or dining rooms that way.
Yes the buffet can be a scrum but only if you go at the same time a loads of others .And you can lunch in other venues with no extra charge.
You can book excursions for each port.you don't have to stick to walking around the port all day.
These can be expensive if booked with the cruise line so it pays to do some research and book your own trips independently.
We've had some wonderful times including a Christmas cruise.
Sadly my lovely husband has terminal cancer so no more cruising...but lots of lovely memories

Edited

So very sad about your husband. I hope you’re able to have some more lovely memories before he passes. X x x x x

TheBers2024 · 18/09/2024 23:47

@Ineffable23
Most ships do have single cabins which are less than paying for a single in a double occupancy cabin. I believe the best are NCL ( Norwegian Cruise Line). The cabins are tiny but they are together and you have your own exclusive singles lounge nearby .
They do go quickly though. Lots of people want to sail as a single.
There are issues with some of their ships. Epic sounds bad!

www.ncl.com/uk/en/freestyle-cruise/solo-cruising

pestowithwalnuts · 18/09/2024 23:22

We've loved cruising.So much so that we've done 15.
One of the great things is you unpack once and that's it.
Get a balcony cabin midships..and with cabins above and below.No noise from night club ..show room or dining rooms that way.
Yes the buffet can be a scrum but only if you go at the same time a loads of others .And you can lunch in other venues with no extra charge.
You can book excursions for each port.you don't have to stick to walking around the port all day.
These can be expensive if booked with the cruise line so it pays to do some research and book your own trips independently.
We've had some wonderful times including a Christmas cruise.
Sadly my lovely husband has terminal cancer so no more cruising...but lots of lovely memories

Ourdearoldqueen · 18/09/2024 23:20

Negroany · 18/09/2024 23:12

You can do actual knitting cruises with them it seems:

https://arnecarlos.com/journeys/

Can’t breathe!

Negroany · 18/09/2024 23:15

Ineffable23 · 18/09/2024 21:41

Is there a good way of dealing with the single supplement issue or do you just have to live with it? I've considered going on cruises but as I don't have a partner currently they are all nearly double the headline per person price and that's just too much to justify.

I'm looking at a cruise round Japan. It's £10k. The single supp is over £8k! DP can't come.

I could let someone come for, say, £4k and still save money! I might look at one of those solo traveller websites and see if I can find someone to share with!

Negroany · 18/09/2024 23:12

Ourdearoldqueen · 18/09/2024 22:41

I haven’t got over reading that there’s a knitting area on the Hurtigruten! That’s next year’s cruise sorted! One of them, anyway!

You can do actual knitting cruises with them it seems:

https://arnecarlos.com/journeys/

Journeys – ARNE & CARLOS

Designers, textile artists and authors, known for their craft books and their original and visually striking designs.

https://arnecarlos.com/journeys

saltinesandcoffeecups · 18/09/2024 23:10

Ineffable23 · 18/09/2024 21:41

Is there a good way of dealing with the single supplement issue or do you just have to live with it? I've considered going on cruises but as I don't have a partner currently they are all nearly double the headline per person price and that's just too much to justify.

I think this is just river cruises… but google to find out who doesn’t charge the single supplement… https://rivercruiseadvisor.com/2024/06/single-supplements-for-solo-travelers/

Cruisecritic is also a reputable source for information.

Ourdearoldqueen · 18/09/2024 22:44

I was reading somewhere about educational river cruises. That would suit T least one of my nerdy kids.

Ourdearoldqueen · 18/09/2024 22:41

I haven’t got over reading that there’s a knitting area on the Hurtigruten! That’s next year’s cruise sorted! One of them, anyway!

Lordofmyflies · 18/09/2024 21:56

OhMaria2 · 18/09/2024 11:59

Was it smooth sailing or was it choppy like the sea? I'd so love to be the kind of person that could do a big glamorous cruise but I get seasick and I'm sort of terrified of the ocean. I've thought about a river cruise but I wonder if Fjords are a good compromise.

We did a Norwegian fjord cruise this
summer. It was fabulous! Slightly choppy on the one day Uk to Norway, but once in the fjords, it’s super smooth. Plenty to do, whale watching, hiking, Flåm railway, kayaking, RIB safaris, e-bikes and zip-lining. All very wholesome. We went with Silversea. Highly recommended.

nocoolnamesleft · 18/09/2024 21:44

Ineffable23 · 18/09/2024 21:41

Is there a good way of dealing with the single supplement issue or do you just have to live with it? I've considered going on cruises but as I don't have a partner currently they are all nearly double the headline per person price and that's just too much to justify.

It's the main reason I can't afford two cruises a year. Though I was a bit naughty one time when there was a great deal for 2 people travelling, that didn't apply to singles, and pretended my non existent twin sister was going to come, then had to pull out at the last minute. Saved me over a thousand pounds. Though now they want passport/insurance details in advance online it would be harder to pull that one off...

Ineffable23 · 18/09/2024 21:41

nocoolnamesleft · 18/09/2024 20:37

Where do I find the cash? When I first went on cruises, I could only afford a windowless inside cabin that probably used to be maid servant quarters (QE2, now that was a proper ship) but it was worth it to get on board. These days my annual cruise is my main luxury. I drive a cheap car. I never traded up on houses. I don't have kids (which drops my carbon footprint a lot). I don't drink. I don't do much socialising, mainly because so much of it revolves around drinking. But once a year I go on a fantabulous cruise. I missed it so much during Covid times. Holidaying in the UK in a nice hotel in an interesting area? Not remotely as good. And seen as so much weirder ashore to be travelling/dining alone. Whereas on board it's seen as perfectly normal. It is something to look forward to the rest of the year. Something I can so happily do alone. Something I have occasionally happily shared with my parents, who also love a nice civilised cruise.

God, I need to book my next one.

Is there a good way of dealing with the single supplement issue or do you just have to live with it? I've considered going on cruises but as I don't have a partner currently they are all nearly double the headline per person price and that's just too much to justify.