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To think I'm being ripped off?

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FasterMichelin · 16/09/2024 22:59

My son was 6 in April and has been attending swimming lessons for almost a year. We chose small groups in a private pool in hopes this would expedite the process although this hasn't happened. It's usually just him and another little boy with one or two instructors.

When he started lessons, he was comfortable in the water but used to swimming with armbands and being held. He now is happy swimming around with a noodle but can't swim at all unaided.

On holiday, he couldn't use the pool slides due to the deep water at the end and I can't help but wonder what we're paying (a lot) of money for!

I've checked in with his swim teacher who has said the next two stages of the swim program he's working towards are aided.

WTF? I thought I was paying for him to learn to swim unaided!

Anyway, I was wondering if this is normal or if, at 6, with a years worth of lessons, if he should be swimming without floats now.

He's strong, agile and listens well. Not worried about the water, if that helps.

AIBU to wonder if this swim program is more about taking ages and making money, than it is about teaching kids to swim? Or am I expecting too much?

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Procrastinates · 17/09/2024 07:31

After a year of pretty much 1-1 teaching yes it's a complete piss take from the instructors that he can't swim unaided yet!

Definitely move him, they are either shit instructors or just enjoying the easy passive income.

FasterMichelin · 17/09/2024 07:22

Yes I'm getting the feeling that they're following a scheme word for word, much of it seems focused on technique. But we don't expect him to become a world class swimmer with perfect technique, we just want him to be safe and able to swim without armbands or a noodle.

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user1471526265 · 17/09/2024 00:21

At age 5 DS had 4 private lessons, 1 to 1, and was swimming unaided by then. I would definitely expect it after a year of lessons. Are they following a set program, regardless of a child's ability? We had that with music lessons. He'd still be on three blind mice rather than Beethoven if we'd stuck with the original lessons. They just were following the plan with each child, not taking into consideration that some picked it up quickly.

PutOnYourRedShoesAndLetsDance · 16/09/2024 23:46

I'd take him out and go swimming with him yourself.
My kids/ Grandkids could all swim confidently before age 6.. underwater without aids.
We took them swimming every week from being babies.
They still love swimming now.. as l do.
Teach them the float survival.
Sounds like a money making scheme.

nomorezoflora · 16/09/2024 23:40

Not being able to swim unaided at all after a year is either incompetence on the teacher's part or as you say, coining it.
Sounds ridiculous to me. We were all swimming unaided by six, albeit not necessarily very well - took some of my class a while to get their 25 metre certificate back in the day but no-one was missing out on the slides!

FasterMichelin · 16/09/2024 23:31

That's what I'm trying to ascertain, if my expectations are realistic. I don't want to move him if it's perfectly normal to take a this long to swim independently.__

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OrwellianTimes · 16/09/2024 23:28

If you don’t feel he’s progressing move to a different class. Not all swim instructors are good. We’ve had a couple duff ones.