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To ask if you’ve ever become obsessed with a murder case?

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sheknoedidhitit · 16/09/2024 20:26

I was watching a true crime podcast on YouTube and it finished and went to a random suggestion and it was a 2 minute video of a crime scene inside a subway from the 80s on an ordinary news channel.

I looked into the case and there’s nothing on it apart from a one column blurb in the newspaper at the time and the victims photo being sold on Amazon. It’s so weird .. and I can’t stop thinking about it.

Anyone else?

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Babbadoobabbadock · 17/09/2024 20:24

Netflix have got a new documentary coming out about the Mendenez case

choccytime · 17/09/2024 20:23

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BogusHocusPocus · 17/09/2024 02:26

Have you seen the four-part documentary about it? It is the best crime programme I've ever watched.

Title please?

Bectoria2006 · 17/09/2024 20:20

LuluBlakey1 · 17/09/2024 20:04

I often think about the mystery that is Andrew Gosden's disappearance. The police still talk about him as if they think he is alive. I am baffled by this one.

I’m from Doncaster and I think about this one too. There was something on the news last year where they arrested 2 men in connection with the kidnap and human trafficking but haven’t heard anything since.

I also regularly think about Ben Needham. Not confirmed dead but missing all this time. His poor mum 😢

LuluBlakey1 · 17/09/2024 20:04

I often think about the mystery that is Andrew Gosden's disappearance. The police still talk about him as if they think he is alive. I am baffled by this one.

JackJarvisEsq · 17/09/2024 20:01

Daniel Morgan’s murder.

it ties in with so many other crimes and incidents from the Brinks Mat robbery to NoTW phone hacking to Leah Betts death

Passenger42 · 17/09/2024 19:48

They reckon there are other victims of Fred West buried, I read a lot of books on them, and Rose all safe in prison watching “come dancing” her favourite tv programme! I also read a lot of books on Jeremy Bamber case.

Sarah2891 · 17/09/2024 19:43

Anyone read about Elizabeth Barraza, who was shot and killed while setting up a garage sale in Texas in 2019?
Very very strange, unsolved case.

Firefly1987 · 17/09/2024 19:43

Peter Falconio in the outback.

Lovedogwalking · 17/09/2024 19:42

Several years ago I was in Lancashire over a long weekend near Preston. On the drive up there, there was a news report that a womsns body had been found in another Lancashire town, and I remember thinking how awful it was, and relatively close as well. Some time later after the trial, a documentary about the perpetrators of this woman's murder was on TV ( the murder of Sadie Hartley), it was the most bizarre story and unfortunately true.
I watched the documentary 3 times, trying to understand the individuals involved and the lady's boyfriend as well.
It's an extremely sad story, but had me obsessed like it was a novel, for some time.

WandaFishy99 · 17/09/2024 19:35

@CauliflowerBalti whenever I see either of his parents on tv I am struck by their dignity and their determination to get justice for James. I just don't know how anyone can be so brave.

Evan456 · 17/09/2024 19:32

The Casey Anthony case, didn’t miss a single day of the court case, couldn’t believe it when she got off

zingally · 17/09/2024 19:26

I still think about the murder of Jon Benet Ramsey at least half a dozen times a year.

The general "internet sleuth" consensus seems to have settled on the brother killing her accidentally, and the parents covering it up so as not to lose 2 children that night. Poor little thing has been gone a long time now... 1996 I think it was.

And of course, Madeline MacCann. So weird and sad on so many levels.

RetirementIsGreat · 17/09/2024 19:24

I'm obsessed with the Chris Watts family killer on YouTube.

Dandymax1 · 17/09/2024 19:12

I feel that when I get the time I will solve the 'Jack the ripper' case. It gripped me decades ago n still does.

cuckooooooo · 17/09/2024 18:56

@CauliflowerBalti I still think about those poor little boys a lot too!

CauliflowerBalti · 17/09/2024 18:53

The murder of Jamie Bulger. I had a dream about him when I was pregnant. It was extremely vivid and real. He came to me out of a dark space, not like a normal dream where you’re in a location. I was nowhere, it was just a black space and he was suddenly there, naked and covered in blue paint.

He held his arms out to be picked up and said, “I cried and cried and no one came.”, and then I woke up because I was so upset. Haunted for days.

And since then the case has really played on my mind. I can’t get over the evil.

Baby P affected me in the same way as a result.

MagicFarawayTea · 17/09/2024 18:43

I regularly get obsessed with a case.
Making of a Murderer
JonBenet Ramsey
etc.
Just watched a documentary on Amazon about Keli Lane. Wow. Just fascinating. Couldn’t understand why she got pregnant so often and nobody acknowledged it.

Babbadoobabbadock · 17/09/2024 18:42

A couple of people have mentioned Genette Tate, Robert Black was due to be charged but died beforehand. Pretty sure he’s suspected of April Fabb’s murder amongst many others. He was a lorry driver and is linked to cases on the continent too

Cajanz · 17/09/2024 18:39

Rachel Nickell, Wimbledon Common. Witnessed by her toddler son 😥

WandaFishy99 · 17/09/2024 18:28

The Yorkshire Ripper- I was late teens/early 20s when he was at large and it was a very terrifying time for those of us in the north.
The whole case fascinates me, particularly the lives of those poor victims, both the girls he killed and the ones he attacked who survived.

BySparklyMoose · 17/09/2024 18:17

The BBC’s ‘Paradise’ podcast. Death in ice valley. And Serial. But the paradise podcast was particularly emotional. The scene in the cemetery with the family sent shivers.

JudgeJ · 17/09/2024 18:16

Babbadoobabbadock · 17/09/2024 18:08

First thing the landlord of our Sheffield uni house said to us was ‘they caught the Yorkshire ripper just behind here’ (Broomhill).

When he was caught my late OH said Shit, that's Pete I worked with in Bingley churchyard when In was a student!

JudgeJ · 17/09/2024 18:15

A few interest me for various reasons,
I'm one of the evil boomers and just before I was born a 7 year old boy from near us was murdered and the murderer was never found. Fast forward to the '80s, we were viewing a house and when the vendor heard where I was from he mentioned this murder, he'd been a policeman working on the case. He told us that they knew who'd done it but couldn't prove it, they let the man know, he didn't deny it, and he moved away shortly afterwards but the police made sure that wherever he went the local police knew.
Another time I read a short piece in a newspaper about a murder, didn't recognise the name but scanning the death notices in the paper realised it was our former baby-sitter, it was an awful feeling.
When a 3 year old went missing in a NAAFI shop in Germany, never to be found, we were in that shop the same day and our 3 year old was so like her.