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How long should I give the other side before pulling out?

34 replies

prettyperfect · 16/09/2024 16:05

First time buyer, starting to get really fed up of people not taking this process seriously and just being incredibly slow.

We're 9 weeks in and have still not received the draft contract from the other side (entirely the sellers fault although I don't think his solicitor chased him, it was only when the EA rang him that he got his arse into gear)

I've received my mortgage offer and the survey and searches have been done. My solicitor hasn't been able to raise any enquiries yet because of this. The searches were returned 2.5 weeks ago so I'm really pissed off if I'm honest because they've massively slowed things down by not having the paperwork ready.

The EA rang me last Wednesday and said the seller had returned the protocol forms on Tuesday and his solicitor was going to prioritise getting the contract over to us but we've still not received it. How long would you give them before pulling out?

I'm dreading what they'll be like if my solicitor has enquires (which I'm sure she will). Annoyingly I've already wasted money on the searches and survey.

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Bingbong2000 · 16/09/2024 16:18

You need to ring your solicitor every day to get them to prioritise you. Also frequently ring the estate agent frequently. The market has started rising so it's possible the ex landlord wants a better offer so find out why a landlord is being slow

prettyperfect · 16/09/2024 16:17

@ItWasOnAStarryNight yeah that's true. I just feel like a broken record asking the same thing over and over. Honestly can't understand why someone would put their house up for sale if they're not actually motivated to sell.

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prettyperfect · 16/09/2024 16:14

@WhatMe123 as far as I'm aware the draft contract is sent within the first couple of weeks (that's what my solicitor and the EA said anyway) not sure why it's taken 9 weeks to do.

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ItWasOnAStarryNight · 16/09/2024 16:14

Well if you pull out and you've got nothing else surely it'll take longer? Seems a bit daft, just keep nagging and it'll all fall into place

prettyperfect · 16/09/2024 16:12

@WhatMe123 no it's an ex rental, currently vacant, no chain.

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prettyperfect · 16/09/2024 16:11

Thank you for replying.

Unfortunately there isn't anything else on the market right now that I'm interested in.

Just fed up of waiting!

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WhatMe123 · 16/09/2024 16:10

Are they looking to find an inward purchase? If so you won't get their signed contract back as they'll be waiting h to sort that purchase out. 9 weeks isn't too long really but yeah if you annoyed you can pull out at any time really if you really choose to do so

TheRavenSaid · 16/09/2024 16:08

Ablondiebutagoody · 16/09/2024 16:07

When you have found a house that you prefer

Yeah, keep looking for another property

Ablondiebutagoody · 16/09/2024 16:07

When you have found a house that you prefer