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To be absolutely sick of excuses being made for men's disgusting sexual behaviour? Trigfer warning. Hugh Edwards sentencing.

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UCConfuseMe · 16/09/2024 13:13

Just read that Hugh Edwards ahs been given a suspended sentence.

And if course it's not his fault. He had a mean Daddy and some mental health issues and some bad things going on in his life, poor lamb.

All that made him say 'amazing' when sent photos of children as young as 7 being molested.

Having a rough time and a strict father doesn't make you a fucking paedophile!!!

Take responsibility for your predatory and vile behaviour!!

To be absolutely sick of excuses being made for men's disgusting sexual behaviour? Trigfer warning. Hugh Edwards sentencing.
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WinterMorn · 16/09/2024 14:15

OhMyGodAChicken · 16/09/2024 14:10

*men

Men, women, whatever! Anecdotally, I can tell you that an increasing number of women are now finding themselves in front of a Court for sexually motivated offending.

ClaudiaWinklepanda · 16/09/2024 14:15

WinterMorn · 16/09/2024 13:54

These offences being taken seriously is an entirely different topic to the efficacy of early intervention and prevention schemes. In fact, there needs to be societal overhaul going far beyond the criminal justice system if we are going to deal with this issue once and for all. I am sorry to hear about your experience.

Can you tell us more about the societal overhaul aspect? It sounds like you work in this field. Clearly something isn't working, and I'd like to hear what solutions there might be.

Naunet · 16/09/2024 14:15

Haroldwilson · 16/09/2024 14:01

Why not? If it's a crime against children but the perpetrator is in early 20s, grew up in care experiencing regular abuse themselves, it's relevant, right? Not an excuse or a get out of jail free card, but relevant.

Crimes against children do carry severe consequences. For example, look at Huw Edwards - he's lost his career and family, likely will struggle to do anything much with the rest of his life, on sex offenders register for years.

Calling for long sentences for everything just results in prison overcrowding and early release as we've just seen.

Gee, my heart bleeds. 🙄

dustoffthebooks · 16/09/2024 14:15

That pesky 'mental 'elf' removing men's memories. Tut, Tut, Tut...

Trainstrike · 16/09/2024 14:14

dustoffthebooks · 16/09/2024 14:11

Animals, children and women aren't valued or taken seriously. Male abusers get away with it all the time. Meanwhile, the most vulnerable in our society continue to suffer.

Whilst this is true, the biggest issue is the scale of the problem. It is impossible to manage the amount of referrals and convictions unless every working adult joined law enforcement/judiciary to tackle it.

Haroldwilson · 16/09/2024 14:14

dustoffthebooks · 16/09/2024 14:11

Animals, children and women aren't valued or taken seriously. Male abusers get away with it all the time. Meanwhile, the most vulnerable in our society continue to suffer.

People do go to prison for crimes against children. The judge said this case crossed the barrier for a custodial sentence being appropriate. A suspended sentence means Edwards will go to prison if he breaches the terms of his probation.

It's basically a prison term hanging over him for two years if he does wrong. Being on the sex offenders register also presumably means he can be swiftly in deep trouble if he does anything wrong.

Stickystickysticky · 16/09/2024 14:13

I think the suspended sentence, coming at a time when people have been sent to prison for tweets , highlights how unfair the law is.
As someone who has suffered at the hands of an abuser and went to court but lost the case due to his witnesses not being available, this makes me sick to my stomach. People who are lucky enough not to have been affected by this crime have no idea of the lasting effects it has, they can imagine but will never know the torment victims have to live with for the rest of their lives.

OhMyGodAChicken · 16/09/2024 14:13

The chief magistrate was quoted as saying he "accepted evidence that Edwards had no recollection of viewing the indecent images due to his mental health issues at the time of the offences" and that Edwards "doesn't present a risk or danger to children."

Time to check Paul Goldspring's hard drive. Men protecting men again.

YellowphantGrey · 16/09/2024 14:13

Haroldwilson · 16/09/2024 14:11

Well, I for one am glad the state can't kill or castrate people.

Prison is there for people who are dangerous enough to pose a real danger to the public so should be kept inside. And for those who need to be removed from society for rehabilitation.

In this case, he wasn't going about snatching kids off the street. He was exchanging photos. That's bad, I'm not minimising it, but there are ways of monitoring what someone is doing with communications that doesn't necessitate locking them up.

If you lock people up, you have to let them out at some point. What then? Or if you locked up every sex offender forever, we'd need a lot more prisons and higher taxes.

The point of the justice system is to deter offending and prevent reoffending, not to wreak vengeance. If we did that, we'd still be disembowelling people etc.

CPS graded him a medium risk of reoffending and a medium risk to children

He's a risk and is now back home. There's no deterrent to not commit paedophilia

WinterMorn · 16/09/2024 14:13

ClaudiaWinklepanda · 16/09/2024 14:09

I don't work in the justice system, and maybe you do, but to lay people whether or not it's a custodial sentence is semantics. Someone only goes to jail if they break the conditions placed upon them, conditions that normal people don't find at all difficult to abide by. It shouldn't be called a custodial sentence because there is no custody UNLESS there is further wrongdoing.

Under no other circumstances would a punishment work this way, if we tell a toddler who's done something naughty not to do it again because next time they'll be in trouble, that's not a punishment, that's a warning.

Well, it’s not hard to establish what a suspended sentence means, as a couple of minutes on the internet should resolve it.

dustoffthebooks · 16/09/2024 14:11

SpudleyLass · 16/09/2024 14:06

Honestly, if we aren't sending people to prison for crimes against children, why do we send anybody at all?

Or is that the point?

Animals, children and women aren't valued or taken seriously. Male abusers get away with it all the time. Meanwhile, the most vulnerable in our society continue to suffer.

Haroldwilson · 16/09/2024 14:11

Devonshiregal · 16/09/2024 14:04

erm…I thought when people broke the law and are a danger to others they went to prison. Who is prison for if not people involved in this kind of behaviour?

and 7 years on the sex offenders register? What happens at 7 years? He suddenly unpeadophiles? No he’s still a fucking peadophile. he should be on it for life.

i would also castrate anyone involved.

and why on earth would we care his reputation will be damaged - like that’s punishment? It’s not. It’s a natural consequence of being a peadophile surely. Not something we should use to be like welll he did lose his reputation so he got comeuppance?! That is not like for like

Well, I for one am glad the state can't kill or castrate people.

Prison is there for people who are dangerous enough to pose a real danger to the public so should be kept inside. And for those who need to be removed from society for rehabilitation.

In this case, he wasn't going about snatching kids off the street. He was exchanging photos. That's bad, I'm not minimising it, but there are ways of monitoring what someone is doing with communications that doesn't necessitate locking them up.

If you lock people up, you have to let them out at some point. What then? Or if you locked up every sex offender forever, we'd need a lot more prisons and higher taxes.

The point of the justice system is to deter offending and prevent reoffending, not to wreak vengeance. If we did that, we'd still be disembowelling people etc.

AGirlInACountrySong · 16/09/2024 14:11

FragileWookiee · 16/09/2024 13:54

Honestly, I'd want to take a good look at the personal lives (and computers) of the judges who hand these sentences out. Why are they so lenient when it comes to sentencing men convicted of these crimes?

You don't know much about the judicial system,read up on sentencing guidelines

OhMyGodAChicken · 16/09/2024 14:10

WinterMorn · 16/09/2024 13:20

To be honest, this sentence is actually quite punitive for a first offence. The vast majority of people convicted of this type of behaviour get a community order not a suspended sentence.

*men

YellowphantGrey · 16/09/2024 14:10

Haroldwilson · 16/09/2024 14:01

Why not? If it's a crime against children but the perpetrator is in early 20s, grew up in care experiencing regular abuse themselves, it's relevant, right? Not an excuse or a get out of jail free card, but relevant.

Crimes against children do carry severe consequences. For example, look at Huw Edwards - he's lost his career and family, likely will struggle to do anything much with the rest of his life, on sex offenders register for years.

Calling for long sentences for everything just results in prison overcrowding and early release as we've just seen.

He's lost nothing. His family are standing by him and he can now start claiming his nice healthy pension, plus he was still getting his full pay.

Why is there always more concern about the men as opposed to the victims?

Those poor children. 7 year olds performing sex acts for the gratification of dirty bastards like Huw.

He will disappear into a contented little life. He couldn't even own his shitty behaviour and it was everyone else's fault but his.

WinterMorn · 16/09/2024 14:09

Brefugee · 16/09/2024 14:03

it's more about sending a message than anything else.

because over and over and over and over again we are seeing men convicted of possession of thousands of images of child sex abuse not doing any serious time. They live at home and you are never ever going to convince me that they are being managed so thoroughly that they are not in a position to offend again. Undetected.

While we all watch rapists never even get to court. Or people being jailed for things that would be much better handled with community service (the rioters who have not injured a person would be far far more effectively and visibly punished if they were put to work fixing the mess) etc etc.

There is a lot wrong with the criminal justice system in the UK, and I am perfectly happy to say that i want people convicted of the worst crimes (harm against the person) do jail time.

Brefugee, I’m not trying to convince you one way or the other. Your feelings on this are yours entirely. However, we need to move away from this obsession with imprisoning people as it just isn’t working. The threat of a weeks long imprisonment wouldn’t send any message at all and would pretty much collapse the entire system.

dustoffthebooks · 16/09/2024 14:09

Haroldwilson · 16/09/2024 14:02

He has a history of mental health problems stretching back before this all came out.

Sure he does, but most mentally ill people don't ruin children's lives and support child abuse by viewing the images.

People like him need to get a bloody grip.

ClaudiaWinklepanda · 16/09/2024 14:09

WinterMorn · 16/09/2024 13:30

Absolutely not true. A suspended sentence IS a custodial sentence, with the first presumption being activation should there be any breach or further offence.

I don't work in the justice system, and maybe you do, but to lay people whether or not it's a custodial sentence is semantics. Someone only goes to jail if they break the conditions placed upon them, conditions that normal people don't find at all difficult to abide by. It shouldn't be called a custodial sentence because there is no custody UNLESS there is further wrongdoing.

Under no other circumstances would a punishment work this way, if we tell a toddler who's done something naughty not to do it again because next time they'll be in trouble, that's not a punishment, that's a warning.

CassieMaddox · 16/09/2024 14:08

SinisterBumFacedCat · 16/09/2024 13:19

For some reason men are always walking away from court with suspended stentences for having thousands of images of child abuse on their computers. It’s almost as if they don’t class it as a crime. Write an offensive tweet -it’s a different story!

It's because there is so much of it that they can't lock them all up. The police can't even arrest all the men they know are looking at images. There are too many.

NAMALT but far too many are. Try starting a conversation about restricting access to streaming porn and they will all come out going on about it being too hard and infringing their liberties.

I'm sick of it too. Not sure what the answer is.

AGirlInACountrySong · 16/09/2024 14:07

Why aren't men angry that their children are victims of this???

They are

AGirlInACountrySong · 16/09/2024 14:06

FatFuck · 16/09/2024 13:45

How tf has he got away with this. Im seething. If any good comes of this i hope those poor children in the pictures/videos are safe now. Its ludicrous that this is not taken seriously really. Id say, lets march but what good, what change would it do??

if theres no room in prisons, bloody build some more.

And who will staff them??

We have no staff either.... anyone here on this thread fancy it??

SpudleyLass · 16/09/2024 14:06

Honestly, if we aren't sending people to prison for crimes against children, why do we send anybody at all?

Or is that the point?

Ilovetowander · 16/09/2024 14:06

Given prisons are overcrowded, he is not likely to be a threat to society I think the sentence was appropriate whee we n comparing other sentences.

Lwrenn · 16/09/2024 14:05

It's gross.
Someone I knew quite well got a suspended sentence for 8000 images of children including the rape of infants under one and the case is even more complex than that.
He was given no prison sentence because he was lonely.

I cannot stress how lonely many people I have met who are lonely and haven't felt the need to watch babies be abused.

He was named and the address of his street reported on locally and I really expected some kind of response from his community as its in a relatively high crime area with lots of violence and he's had no repercussions, (I'm not saying I want to see him harmed by anyone, I'm saying I'm surprised he wasn't a victim of at the very least his windows being put in with bricks).
It's a very strange time, I feel we almost accept child abuse these days.
When I lived next door to a man who was imprisoned for CSA and CSAI even the local milkman threatened to smack him in the street.

MySocksAreDotty · 16/09/2024 14:05

It's just not enough. This is the abuse of kids FFS. I hope it wakes people up.

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