Not sure if I’m being highly unreasonable or fully entitled to be majorly fucked off with him.
His sister has asked him to be a guarantor on a rental that they want to upsize to as the partner has recently gone self employed.
he initially asked if I would be too but I was overseas at the time as I asked for us to discuss it when I was home.
he then said that we weren’t needed as they found someone. That then fell through and so they asked if just DF would do it. Again said let’s discuss when I’m home.
ive found out today that they have a moving date and have been packing. Turns out DF has agreed to do it without any communication to me.
so YABU - it’s family, you should think twice and just sign to dotted line asap
or YANBU - as an engaged couple, decisions that affect your family unit should be discussed at length before concluding on a decision together.