Do they put you first sometimes ? Silly stuff like, letting you choose the movie or takeaway.
Do they buy you stuff they know you'd like ? Do they surprise you sometimes ?
Do they take care of you and check up on you when you're not feeling well?
Do they give you a break from things when they see you're stressed out ?
Do they take the baby / toddler / child off you, even when they're tired- because they can see you struggling ?
Do they sometimes make plans / suggestions of fun things to do together or with your kids as a family ?
Are they just nice to be around? Or do they moap around grumpy a lot ?
Do they do their share of the housework and cooking / laundry etc ?
How do you know they love you ? What do they do to show it? Apart from being there ?