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Colleague deliberately staying late at work just to accrue TOIL?

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KatParr · 14/09/2024 08:15

She admitted yesterday she'd been staying past her contracted times, 10-15 mins here and there deliberately and has managed to accrue a whole week of TOIL!? we are a very small team who has an issue (imo) with sickness. Although we all have different roles, it inevitably impacts everyone when someone is off, even for leave. She also arranges appointments and runs regular "errands" on her working days (so leaves the workplace for up to an hour) when she has every Monday and Tuesday off. She is incredibly skillful at "looking busy" and talking constantly about having loads to do. Yes, I do notice it because none of us imo are busy enough to accrue TOIL.

She said she has leave left but wanted to 'save' it. I'm feeling pissed off. She has no reason to stay late every day as she does, genuinely, it's not that kind of role. I'm thinking of speaking to the manager about what she said regarding the TOIL. AIBU or should I keep my nose out?

OP posts:
lazyarse123 · 14/09/2024 09:08

PoshTosh · 14/09/2024 09:00

if she’s busy working through the day and is busy working essential tasks in the additional 15 minutes, then what she says about gathering toil is irrelevant

Only her and her manager will have a clear idea of work backlog, tasks, timings. This is not something you can accurately judge.

Taking appointments in a mix of work and personal time is acceptable, often there is very little flexibility about when GPs Dentists Consultants can see people. Appointments are like gold dust.

But op does the same job so has a good understanding plus the colleague has admitted making appointments on work days. Some people are just piss takers

pleasehelpwi3 · 14/09/2024 09:06

Clever lady! Good for her. Work to live, not live to work and all that.

lazyarse123 · 14/09/2024 09:05

I never understand all the "mind your own business" posts. I get incredibly fucked off about colleagues who are paid the same as me but piss about all day and don't do the work that they should.
They come in late, leave early and have longer breaks. Don't wear the correct uniform. It's very poor management which is one of the reasons I am retiring in two weeks.

Loopytiles · 14/09/2024 09:04

In many workplaces work requirements and workloads are easily understood by and visible to more than individuals and their manager. It’s likely that OP has a good understanding of her colleagues’ work.

BadSkiingMum · 14/09/2024 09:02

I previously worked at an organisation that had a reasonable TOIL policy. For example, you could get quite a generous amount of time back if you’d travelled and stayed away, or had to work a lot of overtime. All fine in my team and people appreciated it.

It then turned out that someone in another team had been accumulating TOIL in the manner that you describe. Lo and behold there was a crackdown, the whole system was overhauled and almost nobody could claim TOIL anymore…

PoshTosh · 14/09/2024 09:00

if she’s busy working through the day and is busy working essential tasks in the additional 15 minutes, then what she says about gathering toil is irrelevant

Only her and her manager will have a clear idea of work backlog, tasks, timings. This is not something you can accurately judge.

Taking appointments in a mix of work and personal time is acceptable, often there is very little flexibility about when GPs Dentists Consultants can see people. Appointments are like gold dust.

CocoapuffPuff · 14/09/2024 08:56

If it doesn't affect you directly (eg you missing time off to cover for her) then I'd stay out of it personally. It's your manager's job, not yours.
I wouldn't be surprised if her toil is refused at some point. Wherever I've worked, it's ONLY agreed OT that receives toil. Probably worth a look at your employee handbook to check procedures, but again, that's your manager's job.
Of course, if its making your job difficult then yes, you should raise it with your manager, but focus on YOUR needs and difficulties. Let your manager work out the "why".

MySocksAreDotty · 14/09/2024 08:55

That's so weird, Toil is only really applicable in our work if you're on company business for hours at a time, like a half day conference on a Saturday that you take instead on the Monday etc.

RedSuedePump · 14/09/2024 08:55

The “how does it affect you” brigade don’t seem to get that it does affect you as presumably you have to pick up the slack when she’s off? i probably wouldn’t talk to your manager however why don’t you start doing the same? i’m sure if everyone suddenly starts having loads of TOIL time off they will start to get stricter about how it’s managed!

KatParr · 14/09/2024 08:53

LoquaciousPineapple · 14/09/2024 08:50

"She also arranges appointments and runs regular "errands" on her working days (so leaves the workplace for up to an hour) when she has every Monday and Tuesday off."

This is none of your business. If other people have this flexibility on their working days (whether they use it or not), she is also entitled to it on her working days. Most people don't work part-time just for fun, they have other commitments during their "days off".

The thing that baffles me is if she's using flexi to do these things on her working days, how is she ALSO managing to accrue TOIL by only staying a little later most days? It's doesn't add up. I also work exactly the same days as her, I know days off involve other commitments but she's also said in the past that she makes appointments on her working days deliberately, quite blasé.

OP posts:
Karmaisagod · 14/09/2024 08:52

ThisOldThang · 14/09/2024 08:41

I can build up 20+ hours in one weekend!

There's no way your petty rules would work in an IT department.

They are not petty rules. TOIL accrual is rife with abuse and pisstake in every workplace that allows it, and needs fair but firm management like this. @TheLever , I salute you 👏.

Loopytiles · 14/09/2024 08:52

Where I work this would suggest a poor line manager and/or TOIL policy.

There is no business need to work longer than standard hours, so as a manager I only agree toil by exception (eg unexpected periods of high workload, specific events involving travel / extra hours)

If her absences affect you directly I would probably raise it once with the team leader and suggest that building up that much TOIL doesn’t seem consistent with business needs and ask them to apply a consistent approach.

KatParr · 14/09/2024 08:50

Thanks for the responses so far. Good point to check out the policy on TOIL before anything. We really are a tiny company (9 staff and only 1 full time) There is one line manager who can be quite permissive about stuff but I do now remember an email from some time ago when she asked people to take TOIL promptly, not accrue it for too long. My natural inclination WOULD be to keep my nose out, I'm incredible non-confrontational but there's been so much sickness this year. I really do rarely take sickness and work my alloted hours only. I'm just fed up covering for other people.

OP posts:
LoquaciousPineapple · 14/09/2024 08:50

"She also arranges appointments and runs regular "errands" on her working days (so leaves the workplace for up to an hour) when she has every Monday and Tuesday off."

This is none of your business. If other people have this flexibility on their working days (whether they use it or not), she is also entitled to it on her working days. Most people don't work part-time just for fun, they have other commitments during their "days off".

Aussieland · 14/09/2024 08:48

ThisOldThang · 14/09/2024 08:41

I can build up 20+ hours in one weekend!

There's no way your petty rules would work in an IT department.

Well clearly you are working then. This is a different situation

MargaretThursday · 14/09/2024 08:48

10-15 minutes daily would be an hour a week approximately. Assuming she's contracted 37 hours a week or thereabouts, assuming she's doing it every day, that's around 9 months worth.

But I'd have thought anything under 15minutes or so wouldn't be counted anyway. I mean I can easily leave 15 minutes later because of just plain rafting at the end of the day. You know, remember there's half a sandwich in the fridge to take home, must just deliver the book I borrowed back type thing, so I'd look at that as being normal working. Never occurred to me to start counting it. I just see it as building a favour for the time I need to leave slightly early, or the traffic is bad so I'm late.

MuchasSmoochas · 14/09/2024 08:48

Rife in the civil service with people starting at 7am from home with no meetings or little work till 9am. Not much you can do about it OP, can understand how frustrating it is.

CraftyNavySeal · 14/09/2024 08:48

ThisOldThang · 14/09/2024 08:41

I can build up 20+ hours in one weekend!

There's no way your petty rules would work in an IT department.

Presumably you can demonstrate why though (incident, releases etc).

If someone on your team was completing the same number of tickets as everyone else but was apparently working hours extra a week to complete then you would question it.

LlynTegid · 14/09/2024 08:46

It would bother me if the time selected for time off was as inconvenient to the rest of the team as possible. Not your case, an example would be someone in retail having time off in December.

TheLever · 14/09/2024 08:43

ThisOldThang · 14/09/2024 08:41

I can build up 20+ hours in one weekend!

There's no way your petty rules would work in an IT department.

We are small and there is no need to work extra hours. We close at a certain time, it’s not the same environment. I assume you know workplaces are different. I don’t run an IT department. And as you say, I would probably pay you to work that time if it would impact the business to have the time off. If I ask people to work extra I pay them for doing so.

TOIL in some business is not good business sense. You end up having to pay someone to work overtime to cover the person who is off using TOIL. I either pay them or encourage them to go home at home time.

SauviGone · 14/09/2024 08:43

When I worked for the NHS this was rife amongst admin staff.

It’s a pisstake. Flexi time and TOIL are meant to be “for the needs of the organisation”, not for Janet to stay late for 15 minutes every day browsing the internet because she fancies building up enough time for a few days off at the end of the month.

Good luck with your line manager though, if it’s anything like the NHS managers just don’t manage staff and they’ll do fuck all.

ThisOldThang · 14/09/2024 08:41

TheLever · 14/09/2024 08:31

I banned this practice at work because this started to cripple the business. Managers should be keeping an eye on this. When I got a promotion as manager this was the first thing I put a stop to. We had someone doing this every few months they had 5 weeks holiday a year plus 3 extra weeks of TOIL from staying 15-30 mins regularly for no valid reason. Now anyone can only accrue 8 hours at a time and all TOIL has to be agreed with a manager before it is worked. The TOIL has to be used in 8 weeks cannot be saved up for longer. You can’t accrue new TOIL unless you have used up your hours first.

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I can build up 20+ hours in one weekend!

There's no way your petty rules would work in an IT department.

Fingerscrossed2015 · 14/09/2024 08:40

Stay out of it. I agree that it’s annoying and I would feel exactly the same as you, but it’s not your job to police her and you don’t need to waste your emotional energy on it.

There’s also a risk that anything you try to do will backfire or create an enemy of her.

Try to let it go and just focus on your own job (I know that that’s easier said than done).

ThisOldThang · 14/09/2024 08:39

DarkForces · 14/09/2024 08:19

There's usually strict limits in organisation's policies about how much TOIL can be built up, when it can be built up and how it can be used. If your employer has implemented a flexi system with no clear rules to avoid this there's nothing you can do.

I work in IT and build up huge amounts of TOIL when working late to implement out-of-hours changes.

I maintain a spreadsheet with all the times, dates and change references.

I took three weeks of TOIL this summer and have a fortnight scheduled for Christmas.

If the company isn't happy with that, I can either stop doing unpaid out-of-hours changes or they can put their hand in their pocket and pay me overtime. 🤷‍♀️

With regards to the OP, I've worked previously with people that took the piss with sickness. There were women that clearly coordinated with each other to have a weekly day at the beach during the summer - shamelessly coming back to the office with fresh sunburn and suntans! Them being off work, resulted in my workload rising massively, so I can see why OP might get pissed off.

Why isn't OP's manager tracking this TOIL to ascertain why it is required? If it can't be justified, then surely it can't be claimed back - what's to stop her colleague sitting there until midnight twice a week to build up the 'holiday' entitlement?

boulevardofbrokendreamss · 14/09/2024 08:36

10-15 minutes a day? It must have taken years to build up a week of TOIL