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Colleague deliberately staying late at work just to accrue TOIL?

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KatParr · 14/09/2024 08:15

She admitted yesterday she'd been staying past her contracted times, 10-15 mins here and there deliberately and has managed to accrue a whole week of TOIL!? we are a very small team who has an issue (imo) with sickness. Although we all have different roles, it inevitably impacts everyone when someone is off, even for leave. She also arranges appointments and runs regular "errands" on her working days (so leaves the workplace for up to an hour) when she has every Monday and Tuesday off. She is incredibly skillful at "looking busy" and talking constantly about having loads to do. Yes, I do notice it because none of us imo are busy enough to accrue TOIL.

She said she has leave left but wanted to 'save' it. I'm feeling pissed off. She has no reason to stay late every day as she does, genuinely, it's not that kind of role. I'm thinking of speaking to the manager about what she said regarding the TOIL. AIBU or should I keep my nose out?

OP posts:
ssd · 14/09/2024 10:00

Mumofoneandone · 14/09/2024 09:23

Time Off In Lieu IE you have to work additional hours but you don't get pay but extra leave!

Thank you @Mumofoneandone

StolenChanel · 14/09/2024 10:00

KatParr · 14/09/2024 09:58

My conscience!

That sounds more like a you problem I’m afraid. We work to live, not live to work; join in or leave her be. She’s not breaking any rules.

SunQueen24 · 14/09/2024 09:59

KatParr · 14/09/2024 09:58

My conscience!

Same for me

SunQueen24 · 14/09/2024 09:59

I had a member of my team who managed to crack the code for flexible working. She would have regular sickness of an entire week, then on her return work extra to catch up and accrue banked hours. Then she’d use those banked hours. She managed to have loads of leave and give the impression she was banking masses of hours working really hard. Problem was she had been with the business 30 years and had a wealth of knowledge it would be impossible to replace.

I just accepted it and grumbled to my husband.

KatParr · 14/09/2024 09:58

sunsetsandboardwalks · 14/09/2024 09:55

Is there anything stopping you from doing the same as her?

My conscience!

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wastingtimeonhere · 14/09/2024 09:56

I've had to use most my AL for DHs hospital appointments, TOIL, is rare, if you stay late you are told to come in a bit later, leave a little later or longer lunch, the next day. No abuse possible, sick leave is a different matter

sunsetsandboardwalks · 14/09/2024 09:55

Is there anything stopping you from doing the same as her?

southpawsofthenorth · 14/09/2024 09:55

It would take ages to build up a weeks worth of TOIL at 15 mins per day! It’ll be a while before she’s able to do that again.

Bestyearever2024 · 14/09/2024 09:52

Shes very smart and playing the system. Also manipulating the system to work for her

If you don't like what she's doing I'd check out the rules, first and foremost to see if what she's doing is actually wrong or is actually allowed

For example..... I dont understand how she can accrue TOIL each day for 15 or 20 minutes each day.....that's a crazy TOIL accrual method and makes no sense. Is it allowed?

AND if she's also using flexi time to do personal chores during her working day.....how does this work? How has she worked enough hours to use flexi AND TOIL?

It needs clarifying.

Because...... if what she's doing is correct, then I'd be doing it too, if I were you

KatParr · 14/09/2024 09:52

Mulhollandmagoo · 14/09/2024 09:21

As frustrating as it can be, these types of people are in most work places. Yes, she's playing a game, staying over 15 mins everyday to take a whole week off later in the year, as well as running errands through the day - but what can you do? Her manager knows she is doing it and is ok with it.

The only thing you can do is disengage from her, any of her work that can be left until after her holiday, leave it for her to get back and don't make life easy for her where possible, if she asks you to pick up any tasks, just say you can't. If you don't have to do any of this for her, then it's not impacting you anyway so don't give it any headspace.

I think this is correct, thank you. I can't control this situation so I'm going to disengage from the whole thing.

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KatParr · 14/09/2024 09:48

Cattery · 14/09/2024 09:09

We had someone like you OP in the last office I worked in before I retired; couldn’t stop picking over who was doing what and running to the managers in the hope of getting staff “told off”. What a hateful pain in the neck she was. Despised by all

Haha where have you got that I'm constantly running to managers? Amazing how people always manage to apply their own issues to situations.

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Peaceandquietandacuppa · 14/09/2024 09:46

KatParr · 14/09/2024 08:53

The thing that baffles me is if she's using flexi to do these things on her working days, how is she ALSO managing to accrue TOIL by only staying a little later most days? It's doesn't add up. I also work exactly the same days as her, I know days off involve other commitments but she's also said in the past that she makes appointments on her working days deliberately, quite blasé.

They should promote you! Her manager sounds rubbish…

Rubydoobydoobydoo · 14/09/2024 09:46

theboywantstogoupthefield · 14/09/2024 08:20

It wouldn't bother me atall. Makes no difference to you

But it will make a difference to OP when she is one of those who has to take on extra work while her colleague who's played the system is off using the TOIL she's cunningly accrued.

6pence · 14/09/2024 09:44

Check the policy first.

Peaceandquietandacuppa · 14/09/2024 09:43

Why is her line manager not noticing the TOIL? I wouldn’t approve this for my direct report unless it was a particularly busy week with events etc. Don’t say what she told you but just ask about the TOIL policy. You don’t know what she has discussed / told her line manager and you could end up looking the bad one here.

readysteadynono · 14/09/2024 09:43

I manage a team and overtime(for TOIL) has to be approved. It doesn’t necessarily have to be approved in advance because sometimes events need to be dealt with unexpectedly (rarely in our industry but sometimes). However I wouldn’t be approved frequent overtime for day to day tasks. I’d be having a chat about workload and what someone had on their plate that could be deprioritised or shared.

Having said that we also operate flexi time, so assuming you won’t miss a meeting or commitment, someone is perfectly at liberty to arrive 30 minutes earlier, pop to the post box or do an errand for 30mins and that doesn’t need approval. You can’t though do this for large amounts of time. It’s clearly defined.

Perhaps you need to discuss with your manager the overtime and flexi time policies more generally.

TemuSpecialBuy · 14/09/2024 09:41

TheLever · 14/09/2024 08:31

I banned this practice at work because this started to cripple the business. Managers should be keeping an eye on this. When I got a promotion as manager this was the first thing I put a stop to. We had someone doing this every few months they had 5 weeks holiday a year plus 3 extra weeks of TOIL from staying 15-30 mins regularly for no valid reason. Now anyone can only accrue 8 hours at a time and all TOIL has to be agreed with a manager before it is worked. The TOIL has to be used in 8 weeks cannot be saved up for longer. You can’t accrue new TOIL unless you have used up your hours first.

Edited

Thats amazing (8 weeks annual leave!) And outrageous (ita jaw drippingly shameless) in equal parts

Its also one of a billion examples of "this is why we can't have nice things"

Some people are the worst

Zeeze · 14/09/2024 09:41

MuchasSmoochas · 14/09/2024 08:48

Rife in the civil service with people starting at 7am from home with no meetings or little work till 9am. Not much you can do about it OP, can understand how frustrating it is.

Do you even work in the Civil Service @MuchasSmoochas ? Or just decided to have a swipe. In my dept it is taken seriously and people have been sacked for that sort of fraud.

muckandmerriment · 14/09/2024 09:38

We can't accrue TOIL without prior manager approval. Seems like there isn't a policy or if there is she is abusing it. Maybe just have a chat with your manager about the TOIL policy for your own information and then you can work out whether she's being a CF or not.

Zeeze · 14/09/2024 09:37

This is a management issue. Surely her manager has to sign the toil off and is aware of it? So if it is a shit manager they are unlikely to refuse it or go higher up.

alpacachino · 14/09/2024 09:37

LadyMacbethssweetArabianhand · 14/09/2024 08:18

Do not go to your manager about this. It will look like you are jealous. Do go to your manager and ask if the work is fairly distributed because you've noticed Janice needs to work longer hours than the rest and you are concerned about her health. 🤣

This

ratherbesurfing · 14/09/2024 09:36

ThisOldThang · 14/09/2024 09:31

How would it be fair for me to work Friday evening and all day Saturday and Sunday (12+hours on occasion) only to be told that I can only claim back 8 hours and that I'm not free to use the hours as I wish?

I can see how those rules might work in an admin team, but it's just not practical for an IT Department - especially if the company doesn't want to pay overtime. The work simply wouldn't get done.

Can’t you see that yours is a totally different situation? If it’s business need, that’s entirely different to someone staying late every day through choice ‘finishing work’ because they’ve been titting about through the day / have poor time management skills / just want to accrue hours to get an extra week off.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 14/09/2024 09:36

hihihithere · 14/09/2024 08:16

It's none of your business though

It is though because it affects her when she is off.

When I was much younger, I worked for a v small company (6 of us). As soon as the director went out, the other 2 people who should be answering calls both made long personal calls (I'm talking over an hour sometimes) which meant that I had to answer all the calls. This was before email, so there were a lot of calls.

I really wish that I had said something, but I was too young.

JeremiahBullfrog · 14/09/2024 09:35

It seems we have two things going on here.

1 - Someone working beyond their contracted hours and getting time off in compensation. This, by itself, is entirely fair - and a lot of employees would do well if this sort of thing was more easily available.

2 - Someone (actually the same person) slacking off during the working day and not doing as much work as they should. This is not fair and it would be legitimate to be raised as a complaint. But it's strictly speaking a distinct issue from the TOIL one.

I don't side with the "none of your business" people, at least not in relation to issue no. 2. People are entirely entitled to raise grievances against their lazy colleagues when it negatively impacts on their own work.

Changedforthetoday · 14/09/2024 09:33

Check your policy - and maybe google to se other company policies online to maybe be able to suggest some amendments.

I instigated some changes where TOIL or overtime was acceptable but only after having a quick check with me prior so I knew whet to expect. We also have a policy that you can only carry over 8 hours to the next month - but I’m happy for people to use the TOIL up within the month it occurs - meaning it is being taken round about the time it is being worked. Therefore trying to avoid burnout.

There is flexibility where someone may work hours at the very end of the month and so they don’t lose their hours. But as I am kept informed I can make sure this little blips are looked after.

I am also flexible when it comes to appts, family emergencies etc for my team of 21. In most cases as I am reasonable they will always make sure where they can the missing time is made up without me even having to ask. It pays dividends back when I require them on the rare occasion to be flexible too.

however the worst thing for a team is when one person doesn’t play fair and the others have to cover or can see the unfairness when they themselves are good workers. Then the rot sets in.

I would get the policy, check it and then if you can see abuse the best way to handle it might be a word with your manager. Not dobbing in the staff member but discussing your concerns on capacity and covering holidays at a time when there is also issues re sickness.

Faced with the prospect of having to maybe manage or prioritise work being done and other work not being covered your manager might step up.