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To clipper cut DS’s with lice

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ThatHappyAmberDog · 14/09/2024 06:58

DS7, 9 and 11 all have lice. I’m in the process of treating them but their hair is quite long and very thick. I have bought a pair of clippers from Amazon and plan to buzz their hair after school to make their treatment easier. I imagine they won’t be fond of this but it is going to save me hours of treatment and it will grow back. AIBU?

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Moonshiners · 14/09/2024 09:10

IkeaMeatballGravy · 14/09/2024 07:06

How would you treat it if it was your daughter's hair?

Don't choose the lazy option, treat the poor kids properly and let them keep their hair how they like it.

I actually cut my DDs hair pretty short after months of repeated lice (class not being treated).
Girls can have short hair!
OP are they up for having their hair shorter? Doesn't have to be a no.1

j2qb · 14/09/2024 09:08

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j2qb · 14/09/2024 09:08

I buzzed my ds’s hair to a grade 3 when he was 6yo. There was a kid with long curly hair whose parents just never bothered with his nits. He was a good friend of my ds and my ds kept catching them and giving them to me and my dd.

After I buzzed his to a grade 3, the nit problem was solved. They can’t live in very short hair because it’s too warm if they are too close to the scalp.

My ds is now an adult and has had the grade 3 haircut constantly since the age of 6. No brushing no combing no nits and never looks out of place. Less use of shampoo, dries instantly. It’s absolutely brilliant.

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Flashcardsagain · 14/09/2024 09:04

What grade are you defining 'buzz'? Because a grade 6 is very very different to a grade 1 cut.

Also remember that you still need to treat and regularly check for lice and eggs. Lice can live on very short hair.

freakinthespreadsheets · 14/09/2024 09:02

Get them all to absolutely slather (and I mean SLATHER) their hair in the thickest cheap conditioner you can find, they need to really rub it in thick. They can sit like that for a few hours and it should smother the lice. Then start combing through. Not all on ypu though, 11yo can help surely with his younger brothers?

FuckMiniBabybells · 14/09/2024 09:01

Don't be so bloody lazy. Yes, it's annoying and time consuming but it's part and parcel of having kids in school.

Conditioner and a nitty gritty comb and just get on with it woman. They'll be lice free after a couple of weeks.

smallchange · 14/09/2024 09:00

If they're ok with having short hair, give them a no.8 clipper cut (1inch), then get rid of the nits and then take them to the barber for a proper style.

No need to buzz it all off.

LadyPenelope68 · 14/09/2024 09:00

msbevvy · 14/09/2024 07:11

I have seen plenty of young girls with buzz cuts in our area.

I’m a Primary teacher, in 20 years of teaching I’ve never seen a girl with a buzz cut. You’re talking rubbish.

loudbatperson · 14/09/2024 09:00

Are you going to shave your head, as most likely you have them too?

If the boys want their heads shaved go ahead. If they don't then it's cruel. Just treat them properly.

Comtesse · 14/09/2024 08:59

No don’t do that. Go to a big chemist and buy whatever nit products are on special offer. Treat them today and then do it again next week. There is one that you need to leave on for just 5 mins. A buzz cut would be horrible for them.

Katemax82 · 14/09/2024 08:57

You can douse their hair in vodka if you want a good effective treatment (or perfumers alcohol) I did this on my daughter when she was 6 and her lice kept coming back

LadyPenelope68 · 14/09/2024 08:57

ThatHappyAmberDog · 14/09/2024 07:05

They just have very very thick hair and so it’s difficult to treat when I work so many hours

You can’t shave your children’s heads just because you are too busy to treat them properly, that’s appalling!

butterpuffed · 14/09/2024 08:55

As they've all got nits , it must have taken a few days to spread , so you'll need to treat yourself and DH . Are you going to buzz cut yourselves too !

Nannyfannybanny · 14/09/2024 08:53

If you look up the stats, even a completely shaved head can get lice..my youngest DD at primary school a long time ago,had thick waist length hair,tied in high ponytail , because of asthma and eczema could not use standard treatments. Our local pharmacist said you have to check the hair 3 times a day, morning, after school, bedtime. I relayed this to the Head, nothing happened. Standard letter still went out....check hair every 3 days. I tried electric combs. In the end it was in the bath and comb through with thick conditioner every night
We were told they prefer blonde straight hair, this was certainly her!

Wolfpa · 14/09/2024 08:49

are you going to shave your head at the same time?

maybeiknew · 14/09/2024 08:46

Just do a normal cut not shaved but maybe a little shorter than normal. Nitty gritty comb with conditioner then treat then the next day repeat with comb and conditioner they’ll be gone quickly

Beautiful3 · 14/09/2024 08:40

Yes absolutely. It's just a buzz cut. It will soon grow out. You're lucky they're boys!

UnbeatenMum · 14/09/2024 08:32

I do DS's with a number 5 on top and then 3-4 on the back and sides. I think it's a nice style, I would think something like that would be fine. Or if you don't want to comb and they don't want it cut use Hedrin Once and do two treatments 7 days apart. I used to do this for my DD who has sensory issues and very thick hair.

Daisychainsandglitter · 14/09/2024 08:30

I would treat rather than cutting their hair off.
My DD currently has head lice and it's a nightmare but we are persevering. Her hair is long and thick.
Do your boys want a buzz cut?

ThePrologue · 14/09/2024 08:29

Can lice use clippers?

Bornnotbourne · 14/09/2024 08:28

I’m the opposite of all these responses, I think it’s cruel to allow them to have nits when you can shave it all off in minutes. I shaved my hair during the pandemic and it was so nice not to have to worry about lice combing.
The treatments don’t work first time (IME) and as you’ve experienced it’s cruel to pass them onto parent who don’t need any additional pressure.

newyear2024 · 14/09/2024 08:19

Alot of schools don't allow buzz cuts, our school doesn't allow anything below a 2 hair cut. But buzz cutting your kids hair over lice is ridiculous. You put the lice lotion on to kill them - then you fine comb them all out. It's not a fun task, but you will have to do it anyway.

The school will also have to send out a note to the class letting parents know there is an incidence of lice in the class - and your boys turning up to school with two shaved heads will just let all the other children know exactly who had the lice 🙄

Sansan18 · 14/09/2024 08:10

Just douse them in cheap hair conditioner, let it sit for a while and comb it with one of the nitty gritty combs.It's not really difficult.
If you do this at least once a week for a few weeks they'll be nit free.

TaylorSwish · 14/09/2024 08:10

Chances are you have them. Will you shave your hair?

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