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Cartoons at after school club?

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Maxmaxmax · 13/09/2024 17:22

My little boy just started at nursery school this week. We are not new to the nursery setting and have been at a private one for 2 years, but this is the first week at the nursery of a local school. The school is highly rated from what I can tell. All parents and local teachers speak highly of it, and all has been good so far in the usual nursery day. However when I went to collect him today from after school club I found them all sat on a mat watching disney cartoons. I asked if this was usual, and was told quite defensively that it was only on a friday, and it was just a little song.

Am I being naive or old fashioned to expect more than this at an after school club? If they're interested in music then why not encourage the children to play music, or to have a dance party. Not just sit there idly watching the screen.

It is also a very sunny day, and all other children were out in the school's beautiful gardens.

AIBU, or should we be expecting a bit more?

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Tumbleweed101 · 13/09/2024 17:32

I think there is a huge expectation that young children need to be active and learning every second. Would you organise active, educational activities if you'd picked them up when school ended or would you have let them help you with dinner, watch TV or quietly play with what they wanted? Most children are exhausted by 3pm whether they've been in school or wrap around nursery.

Lifeasweknowitisrandom · 13/09/2024 17:31

Not a big deal at all

ACynicalDad · 13/09/2024 17:28

YABU if this was happening in the classroom I'd be angry, but it's after school.

MartinCrieffsLemon · 13/09/2024 17:28

It's not like it was a school lesson

The children will be exhausted, settling into a new school year, and will probably welcome the chance to chill

LauritaEvita · 13/09/2024 17:27

At the end of a school day, my kids have had enough of activities and organised fun. They’d be quite happy having a bit of chill time sat on a mat.

TickingAlongNicely · 13/09/2024 17:26

ASC at Primary id expect them to be able to relax and unwind... be that television, craft, outside play etc.

If you want actual activities you need to find an activity club not after school care.

Brickiscool · 13/09/2024 17:26

It's not during the school day. It's after school club and a Friday night when kids are knackered.

An awful lot of children not in childcare will go home on a Friday night and have a bit of TV time.

BotterMon · 13/09/2024 17:24

It's Friday, it's their first week. They're most likely all exhausted. YABU.

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