I was unwell yesterday (Thursday) - in bed, sleeping on and off all day unwell.
At home with two young children.
Fiancé (who lives about 25 minutes away) helped in the day by choice rather than me asking. Great. Then he had to pick up his car late afternoon from a location about twenty minutes away. No problem.
I asked him to come back to help with the evening stuff for the kids. He refused.
He refused because he wanted to rest up for a new job starting on Monday and declined the offer of a bed and room to himself because he thought he might hear the children at five am, ignoring the fact he has all weekend to rest up. He could also have just left to go home after putting them to bed.
I feel like he should have helped in the evening since he was needed. Yes we made it through, no one died but the children got cold leftovers for dinner and i did fall asleep before them so it wasn't ideal, and he had no good reason not to help.
Aibu for thinking he should've helped out?
He's calling me a parasite now for being upset he didn't help.