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To be a bit freaked out right now - 2am

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cossette · 13/09/2024 02:15

Horrible phone call tonight at 8.20 from a no caller id. Started out as a scam call supposedly from HSBC fraud dept. I've had a number of these in the past so said 'I'm not speaking to anyone from my bank on an unknown number'. Guy then said he would send an agent round at 2am. I laughed and was about to end the call when he said he planned to burgle my house at 2am. He knew my name and my full address! I said I have a German Shepherd and he then said he had a gun. I said my son is here and has a knife (not sure why I said that as my son does not have a knife) to which he said 'a knife is no protection against a gun'. I told him he was pathetic and I was ending the call. I was shaken up and called the police. They came round at 12.10 and took threat really seriously and offered to take us (myself, my teenage son and adult daughter) to somewhere else if we wanted to go. I said we'd be ok and police said they would send cars past the house tonight. I'm ok but a bit worried, and I'm cross that I'm worried because of some idiot making stupid threats. It was such a strange call and my daughter was/is really upset. Can't sleep now and I'm at work early this morning. I've been meaning to buy a ring doorbell and I've just purchased one from Amazon that will arrive same day - so that may make me feel a bit better!

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DryBiscuit · 13/09/2024 04:23

If someone had a gun - They wouldn't tell you that they had one

Someone just trying to scare you! They are Pathetic

BoreOffAboutYerChickensEmma · 13/09/2024 03:08

That is frightening, these scammers are getting very bad now. I had one once tell me he would show up at my work, and I lied and said good luck, it is a military base.

hope you get some sleep.

ErniesGhostlyGoldTops · 13/09/2024 03:04

I had a strange call a few days ago and they knew my name and address so I immediately said, "No, that's not me. I live at Number 42....actually, I'm not comfortable sharing this - sorry." They said thanks, they clearly had their data wrong and they ended the call.

I'm hoping this will get them to stop calling. Bastards!

Just4thisthreadtoday · 13/09/2024 02:59

@cossette

id be freaked out too.

HSBC spammers are rife at the moment & though this is the first one I've heard of with exact threat, they are threatening & they are telling people to 'fuck off'

HSBC are forever advising on current scam techniques & how to not fall for them. They might have to up their game.

DarkHollowTree · 13/09/2024 02:37

Probably just a scammer - probably got hold of your details. Your dog, is this something easily picked up on social media?
Besides that adult DD isn't recently out of a relationship/knocked someone back? Bit baby reindeer 😬
Or DS had any fallouts and they're trying to mess with him by scaring you?

Ohjustalittle · 13/09/2024 02:31

Frozensun · 13/09/2024 02:27

Totally understandable being freaked out. Chances are much higher that it is a remote scammer. They can buy all sorts of information in one go. Now, I don’t answer any calls from a number I don’t recognise. I’ve got voicemail and, if it’s important, the caller will leave a message. I figure just don’t engage in the first place, particularly when a vulnerable family member was threatened with jail and subsequently the scammer posed as a police officer as well. Great idea getting the ring doorbell. I hope you feel better soon,

I don't answer my phone either, unless I want to.

Peaky18 · 13/09/2024 02:30

I had one turn nasty when I said something similar. Ignore it. They're probably miles away.

Ohjustalittle · 13/09/2024 02:30

Do you know anyone who would have a motive to make such a distressing call? I'm glad the police took it seriously. I once took a malicious phone call at shop I worked at 30 years ago, I was alone at the time the person described what I was wearing. It was extremely unsettling there are some nasty pieces of work out there. Hope you and your family manage some sleep.

Frozensun · 13/09/2024 02:27

Totally understandable being freaked out. Chances are much higher that it is a remote scammer. They can buy all sorts of information in one go. Now, I don’t answer any calls from a number I don’t recognise. I’ve got voicemail and, if it’s important, the caller will leave a message. I figure just don’t engage in the first place, particularly when a vulnerable family member was threatened with jail and subsequently the scammer posed as a police officer as well. Great idea getting the ring doorbell. I hope you feel better soon,

heaque · 13/09/2024 02:26

YANBU to be freaked out - what a bizarre call. These days strangers personal info gets to such random places - he's probably not even in the UK or if he is at the other end of it.

If he was planning on turning up at 2 am then he would definitely not have told you about it! I hope you can get some sleep. Do you actually have a German Shepherd?

Garlictest · 13/09/2024 02:21

Glad the police took you seriously, and the video doorbell will give you reassurance. It's past 2am and you're still safe? Great!