Just sense checking if I am being ungrateful or ?
So Wednesday it was my birthday and a big one too ( 60) which in the summer I thought heck why not and planned a party to celebrate!
It's at home with bbq and drinks so obviously will cost but not a hugely expensive affair .
My DH who has form for being useless at gift giving is working away mon to Fri so wasn't with me for the day.
He did send some Roses a card and chocolates - nice gesture as not here ..
Come home last night and it seems in his mind he's done - I got you the flowers you liked them didn't you ?
I was hoping for an actual gift that he had put some thought into for my birthday .
AIBU?
a party is expensive be happy with that
Or
He should have made an effort and bought a nice gift for your 60th birthday?
I'm kinda wondering what to say now if someone asks at the party - so what did DH get you ??