Would you have sex-missionary with someone if offered money

I don’t think you need a ring on your finger but I always need to feel cared for and respected, I’ve never had a one night stand. I wish I could separate the two but I can’t

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Thank u for being honest

Well quite, I can look back at some very banal, free sex and wonder why I bothered. For a million quid I would put on quite a show and maybe even take my vest off.

I’ve had sex I’ve regretted for free. May as well have gotten paid.

Depends on who it was with. Seriously though, if you enjoy sex & didn't feel you would regret it why not. Not sure I could but wouldn't say it's a definite no.

This reminds me of when DH (then DP) and I watched the original 'Indecent Proposal' and he freely admitted that he would happily shag Robert Redford for a million quid.

I love his pragmatic attitude.

I've read a few of the responses here and will probably catch up with the rest which are featured in the Daily Mail, one day next week!

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most would do it for free these days. My hubby said he would for 1/2 mill 🤣

Enough to buy a lovely house outright, for 2 minutes of non-work?

Of course.

Absolutely I would and would be ok with my partner doing it purely for the cash too. I suspect he wouldn't though.

Half a million buys us a house and some treats so life changing for us.

Yes, 100% if it was enough to make us comfortable/ buy a house.

Vomits

There is definitely an amount I would say “yes” to but it would be a lot more than half a million.

I would have to be able to never work again off the back of it.

Me too. I really couldn't sell my body, although admittedly I sell my brain every day

The red light district was around the corner, he could have got any pretty young experienced sex worker for a lot less than they were offering me very quickly and easily, the sex workers were on the street corners and perfectly visible from where we were. So why stand near a night club with 10 times more money and then some than one of the sex workers would have asked for?

As for being "dramatic much" ... if it keeps me from being naive and overly trusting and prevents me being attacked then yes, fine I'll happily go along with my fertile imagination.

Of course everyone else is free to do what they want but trusting instincts is generaly thought a good thing. And yes people are stuck with needles, raped and forced into prostitution even in the olden days like when I was a student.

You might have had a 'strong feeling' but in reality no one was going to inject you with ketamine and kidnap you. Dramatic much?

Having been one of the ones joking about it I have been offered money for sex before when I was a much younger woman, a handful of times which I always turned down.

One was when I was a student. I was running late and had told friends I'd meet them in the club, it was around the corner of the red light district of the city at the time. I walked past 4 men when the older one said something and another man said his uncle asked if I would have sex with him and held out a huge roll of £20s, there must have been several hundred quid there. I carried on walking and said No, I'm not a prossie and people are waiting for me. The younger in the group stood in front of me said his uncle really liked me and only wanted a short time with me and held out another huge roll of 20s. I kept walking (and I stride along so he was basically running backwards) and repeated that people were waiting for me and would come looking for me. I shouldered him out of the way, as a manual worker I was a lot stronger than I looked.

I had a strong feeling that had I stopped to speak to them one of the men would stick me with a syringe full of ket or heroin and the next time I woke up would be in an overseas brothel.

So my joking comes with a caveat that while I would consider it, it would have to be more in the indecent proposal style where I had a choice rather than some random bloke and his "nephews" on the street at night acosting young women going clubbing.

Definitely not. Even if I was on the bones of my arse.

But I have huge issues with the commodification of women's bodies men seeing us as objects that deliver sex, housework and babies is one of the very base roots of misogyny.

It's interesting to see how we have different perspectives based on age. And of course, based on the importance of the amount of money for someone. Also a lot of variety on how people look at sex (which also changes with age).

If I had to do it, then easiest for me if I'd be lying on my stomach, face down and doing nothing, doggy might mean I'd be expected to move a bit.

I could not cope if DH did it, it would ruin me. in a way if I did it I think it wouldn’t mean anything to me but if DH did it I don’t think I could live with that.

I really, really love the “I’d do it for a fiver/crème egg/I’d do a whole football team comments 😆 but in all seriousness, I’m married and not living in poverty so I wouldn’t do it. It would ruin my life. I don’t need the money to keep my children alive and safe so using the money to buy things I don’t need would make me feel awful. A new kitchen, a Porsche, a holiday so I can feel totally violated? And we enjoy these things as a family and everything is fine? Nope.

Exactly, I'm sure the person it happened to would rather that as well.
Bit nasty for the person who made the original comment about her to discuss her like that.

No thanks.