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Would you have sex-missionary with someone if offered money

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Snoringfamily · 12/09/2024 23:34

If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

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Yotomoto · 23/11/2024 11:20

Boomer55 · 22/11/2024 16:53

No, I wouldn’t because I’m not a paid sex worker. But each to their own…👍

For half a mil I'd be a paid sex worker, show me where to sign. Beats data entry in the office hands down.

FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 23/11/2024 11:16

For half a million? Probably not. A million, probably.

TheEyesOfLucyJordon · 23/11/2024 11:07

No.

OldScribbler · 23/11/2024 10:40

Newname71 · 22/11/2024 17:54

Absobloodylutely!!
im pretty sure I’ve done it for a pint and a bag of nuts in my younger days!!

How refreshingly honest. Being a gentleman I would have bought them.

OldScribbler · 23/11/2024 10:35

JoyousTern · 22/11/2024 17:41

In that case there’s only the price to negotiate. I’ll offer you £120 for a great hour. 🤣

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A reasonable rate, too, if you're good at it, as no doubt you are.

Newname71 · 22/11/2024 17:54

Absobloodylutely!!
im pretty sure I’ve done it for a pint and a bag of nuts in my younger days!!

JoyousTern · 22/11/2024 17:41

peachgreen · 22/11/2024 16:46

…Yes, that’s what I said?

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In that case there’s only the price to negotiate. I’ll offer you £120 for a great hour. 🤣

Boomer55 · 22/11/2024 16:53

No, I wouldn’t because I’m not a paid sex worker. But each to their own…👍

OldScribbler · 22/11/2024 16:50

MarkingBad · 12/09/2024 23:47

I'm over 50 and don't currently have a partner ... a tenner would do, hell I'd probably pay him! 😆

Refreshing honesty. Why did I never meet someone like you when younger?

peachgreen · 22/11/2024 16:46

JoyousTern · 22/11/2024 13:48

So you’re basically ok being a prostitute but you’re not sure about letting your partner do the same? 😂

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…Yes, that’s what I said?

JoyousTern · 22/11/2024 13:48

peachgreen · 12/09/2024 23:39

Almost certainly. Sex can be incredibly meaningful and special — but it can also be transactional and unserious. I don’t have a difficulty separating the two. Whether I’d let my other half do the same thing I’m not so sure!

So you’re basically ok being a prostitute but you’re not sure about letting your partner do the same? 😂

MayaPinion · 22/11/2024 11:40

For half a million I’d throw in a blowie as well.

OldScribbler · 22/11/2024 03:01

Ha ha. At my age I take what I can get!

There is an old, funny story about this, about the writer George Bernard Shaw at a dinner party.

He asked a women sitting next to him if she would sleep with him for £100 - then a huge sum.

She agreed. He then asked if she would for half a crown - about 30p today.

She replied scornfully "What do you take me for?"

"We have already established what you are.We are now just discussing the price" he said.

Personally I have aways rather liked whores. I lived with one when young. The most jealous woman I ever met.

Pinkdhalia · 21/11/2024 17:54

Yes I would, I've done love and sex . Done two and me. And I accepted money. I'm free to have sex as and when and with whomever I want, so yes absolutely, it's sex no regrets gotta live this life !

asdfgasdfg · 25/09/2024 13:20

when they said would you sleep with Robert Redford for half a million dollars I replied I don't have that much but if he'd take a couple of hundred, gladly

OonaStubbs · 19/09/2024 01:37

I don't really understand why anyone wouldn't do it unless they are already rich.

Mt61 · 18/09/2024 22:55

Arraminta · 16/09/2024 11:39

This reminds me of when DH (then DP) and I watched the original 'Indecent Proposal' and he freely admitted that he would happily shag Robert Redford for a million quid.

I love his pragmatic attitude.

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Ha. Me too 🤣

Mt61 · 18/09/2024 22:38

Jellybeanz456 · 16/09/2024 10:31

🤣😂

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🤣

Poodleydoodley · 18/09/2024 22:25

Everyone has their price! For a million I’m anyones! 🤣😂

takealettermsjones · 18/09/2024 15:32

And to the question - for half a million, probably not. A million I think I would. No I don't know exactly where the line is 🤣 maybe 800k.

takealettermsjones · 18/09/2024 15:30

Arraminta · 16/09/2024 22:13

Well quite, I can look back at some very banal, free sex and wonder why I bothered. For a million quid I would put on quite a show and maybe even take my vest off.

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This made me laugh so much 🤣 🤣 🤣

T1Dmama · 18/09/2024 15:27

It’s not something that is ever going to happen… but it depends on A LOT of factors.
If I was single or not… (100% no if in a serious loving relationship)
It would also depend on the bloke… I’m sorry but money or no money I’m not having sex with some toothless, smelly scruffy bloke..
im not sure how I’d feel after though as I’ve never been one to have one night stands, and there needs to be some level of attraction/connection.

AhBiscuits · 17/09/2024 10:46

If I was single and they weren't gross, probably.
Slept with plenty of pretty low quality men in my youth for free.

Sartre · 17/09/2024 10:42

Depends completely on the guy to be honest. I really couldn’t bring myself to do it with a butt ugly morbidly obese guy who stank like shit and had furry teeth, even for a million…

Errors · 17/09/2024 10:37

I’d do it for half a million!!