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Would you have sex-missionary with someone if offered money

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Snoringfamily · 12/09/2024 23:34

If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

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Leavesandacorns · 13/09/2024 08:45

Yes, absolutely! Would definitely give DH my blessing if someone wanted to pay big money for sex with him too.

I think I'd only feel awful about it if I had to do it. This would be a free choice 🤷‍♀️

MsLavender · 13/09/2024 08:45

OpalGoose · 13/09/2024 08:21

I'm surprised so many are saying yes. Are you not worried that if it's that easy then you might do it again and again and again........?

Oh for 500k if I was offered it again then I'd do it. Not saying indefinitely but certainly 3 or 4 times to get 1.5mill or 2 million.

I know a lot on here has been said about the psychological damage but many of us are already psychologically damaged by a lifetime of poverty, do not underestimate the damage poverty does to someone's psyche. 40 years of it here and I'd rather a quick shag to change my life around than live another 40 years of not even being able to enjoy the smallest of life's luxuries.

Carouselfish · 13/09/2024 08:44

For me it all hinges on are they hot? If not, no. Couldn't.

Incakewetrust · 13/09/2024 08:43

For half a million? Without a doubt.
Hell, make it a million and they can have a go with DH too 🤣🤣

BalmyLemons · 13/09/2024 08:43

Synchronisedwitches · 13/09/2024 00:12

And I don't think it would be any more psychologically damaging than anything else I've experienced in life only this time I'd have 100k to help me get over it..

A good extension of this discussion is body parts.
Me and a friend who works in insurance were discussing that girl who got the payout from alton towers when her legs got crushed on the Smiler.
And how she may actually have considered it a lucky thing to have happened to her as she can now walk again with prosthetic legs and live a relatively normal life.. but she got 1million plus payout at 18 so she never has to worry much about money...
So we were discussing what body parts we'd give up for how much money..
Apparently there's a list of how much body parts are worth in terms of insurance and/or in court cases regarding accidents that weren't your fault!! There's a whole list of what say, losing a finger, or an ear, would be worth financially

£1mil won't get you many prosthetics over a lifetime. The NHS ones are not very good, lead to painful blisters and are not changed often enough. Then there's the phantom pains and itching. Imagine an itch you can never scratch and cramps you can never rub better. Nah, I'll keep my limbs thanks!

Sex for money I'm fine with.

SissySpacekAteMyHamster · 13/09/2024 08:42

I'd want the money transferred first.

Sdpbody · 13/09/2024 08:42

I would have sex with someone for a little as £50,000. One shag and I'd be able to pay for an extension and a new kitchen.

MsLavender · 13/09/2024 08:40

Flossyts · 13/09/2024 07:14

If my husband found out I hadn’t accepted half a mil for a quick shag I think I’d lose my marriage 😂

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If my partner found out I turned down £500k for a quick shag I think I'd lose him 😂

Beezknees · 13/09/2024 08:39

I would yeah. I'm single, stuck living in a council flat as I can't afford to buy a house. £500k would do me, that could buy me a house outright where I live and have enough to retire on. I'd be happy to carry on working for fun money if I knew I had the necessities sorted!

Mummadeze · 13/09/2024 08:36

Yes, I haven’t had sex in 6 years and miss it. I could also do with the money. Probably £50,000 or above but open to negotiation.

Gremlins101 · 13/09/2024 08:32

SusannaSpider · 13/09/2024 00:02

If I was single I would for a decent amount - £500k would do nicely. But I'm married, I couldn't be unfaithful and even if DH knew and was OK with it, then I'd think less of him for being OK with it - Not sure that makes any sense🤦‍♀️

This 100%

Portfun24 · 13/09/2024 08:31

I don't think I could, because I'm happily married and would worry it could ruin that. So no, money isn't the be all and end all and I'd not risk it. If I was single, without a second thought.

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 08:29

OpalGoose · 13/09/2024 08:21

I'm surprised so many are saying yes. Are you not worried that if it's that easy then you might do it again and again and again........?

It’s not real. No one is going to be offering multiple big buck offers to any of us for a shag 😁

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 08:27

Sparklywhiteteeth · 13/09/2024 07:26

This question always creases me up. The way people seriously consider their answer. Cos yeah whose going to offer you 500k to shag you 😂

Haha I know. But it’s just hypothetical, never ever going to happen, why would any man pay so much to have sex with an MNetter 😁

It wouldn’t be a moral dilemma as I don’t really see sex as purely a precious spiritual experience, sometimes it’s just hot sex up against a wall with someone you don’t know very well but fancy.

As long as they’re good looking and charming then I would do it, take the money, and forget about it.

moonplop · 13/09/2024 08:25

Damnloginpopup · 13/09/2024 08:20

Certainly not me. I'd suck off a tramp for that.

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Sorry but this made me cackle out loud 😂

BigDahliaFan · 13/09/2024 08:23

Single, probably yes. But I'd be feeling a bit sorry for taking advantage of a blind person.

OpalGoose · 13/09/2024 08:21

I'm surprised so many are saying yes. Are you not worried that if it's that easy then you might do it again and again and again........?

sunseaandsoundingoff · 13/09/2024 08:21

Abbylikeswine · 12/09/2024 23:49

Does nobody wonder about the psychological damage it would do to you?

What, choosing to have sex with someone and also getting money for it?

None, unless it was going to be videoed and put online.

Oldseagull · 13/09/2024 08:20

Never.

But I was raped. There is no amount of money that would make me willingly give up control of my own body. The thought of having to have sex with someone that I really didn't want to is terrifying.

Damnloginpopup · 13/09/2024 08:20

Abbylikeswine · 12/09/2024 23:49

Does nobody wonder about the psychological damage it would do to you?

Certainly not me. I'd suck off a tramp for that.

mrsCtheRed · 13/09/2024 08:20

Joystir59 · 13/09/2024 07:59

😁with his consent, hopefully

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His idea 🤣

familyissues12345 · 13/09/2024 08:18

Snoringfamily · 13/09/2024 00:28

Ok doesn’t have to be missionary to those asking, but isn’t that the easiest, less worst option?! Get very drunk, close eyes, think of the money 😬

Nah, it's too close, I wouldn't want to look him in the eye. As someone else said, doggy and I'd be ok.

Not that anyone would want this peri menopausal 40 something fat bird. I'd probably have to pay for him to have counselling!

Yotomoto · 13/09/2024 08:17

User19876536484 · 13/09/2024 07:31

For half a mil my husband said he would drive me there.

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That made me snigger 😂

BackForABit · 13/09/2024 08:16

Look at how men feel when they have paid $50 for sex - the entitlement is off the scale. No man would pay £500k for missionary sex with a normal woman.

Word of warning - link which I got from the Guardian contains graphic descriptions of horrible sex, some violent, very upsetting 'reviews' of women.

invisible-men-canada.tumblr.com/

2024riot · 13/09/2024 08:16

I would and I would feel a frisson of pleasure when I spent my money if it was a million thinking this only took ten minutes work

I shagged a few rotters in my youth

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