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Would you have sex-missionary with someone if offered money

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Snoringfamily · 12/09/2024 23:34

If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

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knittingdad · 13/09/2024 10:38

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 10:34

Exactly. People are saying no they’ll be gross and disgusting, as if you didn’t have a choice to just turn the offer down. How many would sleep with Chris Hemsworth or someone in his league for a big sum of money and no strings.

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But most people would sleep with Chris Hemsworth (or someone in that league) with no money changing hands, so the money is irrelevant to that scenario.

The point of the money is to have sex when you wouldn't have sex if the money wasn't involved.

ehb102 · 13/09/2024 10:38

The damage it causes you mentally would not be worth it.

42tabsaday · 13/09/2024 10:38

Depends how broke I was - I'm not, so I wouldn't.

Mintine · 13/09/2024 10:37

Cobblersorchard · 12/09/2024 23:43

Yes I would, absolutely. I’ve done far worse in my youth!
I’d probably do it for £50k I reckon, £500k and I’d do a whole football team.

Alas I’m fairly sure absolutely no-one would pay £5 these days.

Hahahaha that made me laugh. Yes I would do it as well!

HerVagestyTheQueef · 13/09/2024 10:36

XMissPlacedX · 13/09/2024 10:23

@Chipsahoy yes dh knows I would expect 50% of whatever he 'made'

Exactly! We have a totally shared pot, so we'd not mind the other having their little, erm, side hustle 😀

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 10:34

InSearchOfMartin · 13/09/2024 10:23

I would if it was with Chris Hemsworth.

Exactly. People are saying no they’ll be gross and disgusting, as if you didn’t have a choice to just turn the offer down. How many would sleep with Chris Hemsworth or someone in his league for a big sum of money and no strings.

XMissPlacedX · 13/09/2024 10:34

@Kokomjolk I think it's naive to think everyone is the same, that's just the authors opinion ( and a valid one). People see and experience things differently, it's what makes us all individual.

Like I said In my last pp, I would feel sorry for the person having to pay for it, but others may feel sorry for the person being paid for it. Everyone's individual opinion is of course valid, but not the same for everyone ifswim.

Just to offer a different rounded perspective that's all.

thesoundofmucas · 13/09/2024 10:33

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BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 10:32

Aliceal · 13/09/2024 10:07

Surprised at all the yes answers.

you’d really sell your body for some sweaty, gross man that thinks he can buy consent to use? 🤢

It’s a no from me!

Who said they’re sweaty and gross? They could be drop dead gorgeous.

wintersgold · 13/09/2024 10:32

Yes, and I think (almost) everyone would for a certain price

LoopyLou67 · 13/09/2024 10:28

i mean it was good enough for Lauryn Goodman. Twice 😂😐

Wondergoldenlight · 13/09/2024 10:28

As long as they were not STD riddled or unhygienic (BO is fine) then absolutely I would. How much? Probably about £250k minimum. Enough to pay off my mortgage and live worry free. In fact can we find a way to do this - a C4 show perhaps. 🤔

Kokomjolk · 13/09/2024 10:27

No, and after reading Rachel Moran's incredible book Paid For, I think it's probably quite naive to think it wouldn't affect you.

XMissPlacedX · 13/09/2024 10:24

@Chipsahoy sorry my last post was meant for @HerVagestyTheQueef

XMissPlacedX · 13/09/2024 10:23

@Chipsahoy yes dh knows I would expect 50% of whatever he 'made'

InSearchOfMartin · 13/09/2024 10:23

I would if it was with Chris Hemsworth.

knittingdad · 13/09/2024 10:22

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 10:01

But it’s not someone you don’t want to have sex with. It’s an offer you can take or turn down.

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Sorry, I should have been clearer, "someone I'd want to have sex with with no money changing hands."

Chipsahoy · 13/09/2024 10:22

I did sex work online and phones years ago. I chose it but I was also 18 yrs old and had and was currently still being sexually abused. I didn’t do it for the money. It was control. Survival

I would sleep with someone for half a million but not while married. I would be more concerned with my marriage than the sex.

HerVagestyTheQueef · 13/09/2024 10:22

Yes, without a second thought actually.

I just asked DH if he’d sleep with someone for £500K. He looked over a bit puzzled and said of course he would. What if I objected? I asked.
You wouldn’t!

He's right. 😂

CarterBeatsTheDevil · 13/09/2024 10:21

I wouldn't. I don't need the money - I'm capable of supporting myself, if not super rich - and I don't want it enough to have sex with someone for it. I accept that that's quite a privileged position.

peachgreen · 13/09/2024 10:20

I had the discussion with DP last night. He said he wouldn't do it himself and wouldn't want me to do it either. I said I would do it but wouldn't want him to do it! So we settled on a no all round!

I was quite surprised as he's a very practical, logical person in general life. But he definitely sees sex as a much more intimate, emotional experience than I do. It is that way for me with him, but I've had plenty of meaningless sex and not regretted it, whereas I think he has regrets about the sex he's had that hasn't been with someone special.

SulkySeagull · 13/09/2024 10:18

It would depend a lot on the man - David Beckham yes, Donald Trump no.

Needmoresleep89 · 13/09/2024 10:17

Depends what they look like for me! And no kissing. So I guess the answer is no, because why is a good looking guy going to be paying for it?

XMissPlacedX · 13/09/2024 10:15

@moonplop Grin I like your style

moonplop · 13/09/2024 10:14

you’d really sell your body for some sweaty, gross man that thinks he can buy consent to use? 🤢

Absolutely. I'd try to get him to do it few times too until I got to about 5 million at least.

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