To be pissed off at DH’s comments every time I get angry/upset

Ta mate. Did you ever have a life changing experience and have some body mock you. Well did you?? Thanks for your support

He's weaponising your illness against you. Acting ableist and dismissive. And lacking understanding about the type of medicine you're taking. This is out of order.
It sounds like when he says that you should just remain silent and not engage in that line of convo. He's acting disrespectfully.
Is your relationship decent in other ways?
It shows an innate lack of understanding about mental illness which is a big red flag in my eyes.

It’s a dismissive male response similar to is it your time of the month.

Immature and not constructive.
Call him out on it and ask if he’s been checked for low testosterone for his grumpy man syndrome.

I honestly don’t get the mindset of blokes, their conflict resolution skills are worse than a 5 year olds most of the time. And agree with the Urgh!!! response … it puts me right off too 🤢

If you weren't on antidepressants he'd find some other way to dismiss you. "Time of the month, is it" etc.

Mine was PMT, which moved to "seems like you need to up the dose of your happy pills", until finally I had a concussion from a car accident. Long after i recovered, every single display of any emotion, even happiness, I was suddenly accused of acting "strangely", "embarrassing him" and him cocking his head on one side and squinting at me with a confused face. Wrecked my self esteem.

How Dare He.
Your DH is weaponising a medical matter to diminish you.

If he is calculating and aware of his actions he's an absolute abusive b.
If on the other hand, this petty person does not grasp the magnitude of his behaviour, he needs to be enlightened and become self-aware... and most importantly cease this toxic tendency

This hits the nail on the head.
ExDH pushed and pushed for me to get on meds for depression. Turns out, all I needed to so was get rid of him. 10 years and counting - no depression!

Strange I found as soon as I split from my ex my post natal depression went with him

He was like this too

That’s happened to me before - my ex partner used to ask me if I’d forgotten to take a pill - if I was upset or angry about something. It’s so belittling, patronising and downright rude - it also makes you question your behaviour and isn’t healthy

That's disgusting of him. He just wants to make you doubt yourself so he can get out of having to think about whatever is upsetting you. Just a way to shut down any criticism for an easy life for him.
Horrible betrayal of you there. I'd be furious.

Urgh, I HATE people doing this, and sadly it’s not rare or confined to medication issues. I remember having a massive row with my mum when I had been really angry about something important and she kept telling people, oh it’s ok she’s just not well. No I wasn’t well, but it had NO impact on my anger. Anyway, that’s the long way of me saying no you’re not unreasonable, and big hugs!

He is diminishing you as a person: trying to deny you the right to a normal human emotion.
Actually if someone said this to me it would have the effect of stoking whatever annoyance I had been feeling into real anger and that would have a knock on effect of making me start to doubt whether I had control of my emotions.

That's abusive of him. Would you need to take these without him, I wonder.

I'm not surprised you're pissed off about this, it's basically him dismissing anything you get annoyed about isn't it, so you effectively don't have a voice anymore.