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..To be mortified at the treatment of rape victims at the Edinburgh Rape Crisis Centre?

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TorghunKhan · 12/09/2024 16:22

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/clynyky7kj9o

No women only spaces for 16 months. Basically women, RAPED women - were told they could not definitely see a woman to help them with such an awful crime, they might have to see a man in a dress, and if they objected they were to be 're eductaed' by the man in charge - a man who himself applied for, and got!! a job which was supposed to be only filled by a woman.

It's shameful, disgusting, but whats worse is how many people put up with it!! Who thought this was ok?! why did nobody do anything, or say anything FOR YEARS

Woman with head in her arms sitting on a bed

Edinburgh rape crisis centre failed to protect women-only spaces

The centre unfairly dismissed a worker who believed victims should know the sex of staff who deal with their case.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/clynyky7kj9o

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AccidentallyWesAnderson · 25/09/2024 14:08

nothingcomestonothing · 24/09/2024 17:16

This woman and the others failed by SRC and ERCC deserved so much better then, and deserve so much better now. Brindley has no shame

https://x.com/JournalistJill/status/1838544394103775301

I think this needs another bump. Powerful letter.

nothingcomestonothing · 24/09/2024 17:16

This woman and the others failed by SRC and ERCC deserved so much better then, and deserve so much better now. Brindley has no shame

https://x.com/JournalistJill/status/1838544394103775301

x.com

https://x.com/JournalistJill/status/1838544394103775301

Delphinium20 · 23/09/2024 16:45

The insidiousness of these men who weasel their way into women's most vulnerable spaces is astounding, and I'm not surprised that some women fall for it, but once the writing is blazing neon on the walls, isn't it better to have a mea culpa rather than double down and say an author is being mean to me on X?

TwistedWonder · 23/09/2024 11:39

WandsOut · 23/09/2024 08:16

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13879363/JK-Rowling-blasts-arrogant-Rape-Crisis-boss-row-controversial-support-centre-led-trans-woman.html

Look at the comments - every single one in support of JKR. Two years ago it would have been a mixed bag with people in the comments not really knowing about what was going on.

Now, everyone can see the Emperor has no clothes and an erection.

Sharon Cowan over at the uni is too comfortable in that influencing position of power, bringing the Uni into disrepute as a bully of survivors of sexual assault. What can be done about her?

As much as the DM has its many faults, it’s been one of the very few MSM outlets to really shine a light on what’s going on with the TRA movement and show its readers what’s plain to see to anyone with eyes.

They’re bound by the ridiculous rules led of calling an obvious man ‘she’ but always make sure they show their readers photos making it clear exactly who we’re dealing with here.

Sunburstclocklover · 23/09/2024 11:36

MrTiddlesTheCat · 12/09/2024 17:58

I can't get over that a man with no therapeutic training skills whatsoever was allowed to join in with therapy sessions for women who had been raped and got to ask them if they orgasmed as they were being raped. Then went on to describe these experiences as the fun, enjoyable part of his job. He's a very sick man.

Yeah a lot of people seemed to just ignore these uncomfortable facts about this massive red flag of a man! The daft women who appointed him are still in post drawing their salaries too.

WandsOut · 23/09/2024 08:16

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13879363/JK-Rowling-blasts-arrogant-Rape-Crisis-boss-row-controversial-support-centre-led-trans-woman.html

Look at the comments - every single one in support of JKR. Two years ago it would have been a mixed bag with people in the comments not really knowing about what was going on.

Now, everyone can see the Emperor has no clothes and an erection.

Sharon Cowan over at the uni is too comfortable in that influencing position of power, bringing the Uni into disrepute as a bully of survivors of sexual assault. What can be done about her?

murasaki · 22/09/2024 23:39

As ever, she nails it.

user47 · 22/09/2024 22:53

WandsOut · 22/09/2024 20:55

x.com/jk_rowling/status/1837827858284093847?s=46

Amazing thread by JKR laser focused on the unethical behaviour by Sandy.

She quotes Andrea Dworkin - Ionic

Binglebong · 22/09/2024 21:25

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 22/09/2024 11:51

Imagine a male CEO having the phone numbers of multiple vulnerable young female service users? Everyone would see what a safeguarding huge red flag that is.

Worth reporting to the ICO?

TwistedWonder · 22/09/2024 21:05

WandsOut · 22/09/2024 20:55

x.com/jk_rowling/status/1837827858284093847?s=46

Amazing thread by JKR laser focused on the unethical behaviour by Sandy.

JKR really is such an icon. A truly strong women fighting for all of us.

WandsOut · 22/09/2024 20:55

x.com/jk_rowling/status/1837827858284093847?s=46

Amazing thread by JKR laser focused on the unethical behaviour by Sandy.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 22/09/2024 19:02

I have occasionally been "had" by things purporting to be for women only and turning out to mean they are for women and transwomen because the organisers hold that transwomen are women.

IwantToRetire · 22/09/2024 18:48

I've posted before but will repeat there are 3 rape crisis centres that are women only (in the biological sense).

And to repeat again the women who run the services persisted with providing this service during all the time that the SNP and others where putting pressure on women's group to become trans inclusive.

And they did it without the backing of a millionaire.

And they probably could have done with more support at the time.

But having repeated this fact which is easy to find on Rape Crisis Scotland's own directory of groups, have no idea how anyone, let alone the CEO of the organisation that promotes that directory could go on to claim all RCCs in Scotland have women only services. Those they dont make it quite clear they are trans inclusive.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 22/09/2024 16:38

x.com/hightreebud/status/1837820599697072343?s=46&t=SPorwN-mokktL467rcZ57g

Brilliant, fairly long thread on Twitter, highlighting the reality lie of "women only" rape crisis services in Scotland. All the receipts.

PollyDactyl · 22/09/2024 11:53

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 22/09/2024 11:51

Imagine a male CEO having the phone numbers of multiple vulnerable young female service users? Everyone would see what a safeguarding huge red flag that is.

I have got the rage all over, again.

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GargoylesofBeelzebub · 22/09/2024 11:51

Imagine a male CEO having the phone numbers of multiple vulnerable young female service users? Everyone would see what a safeguarding huge red flag that is.

PollyDactyl · 22/09/2024 11:45

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 22/09/2024 10:20

Offering up the phone numbers of survivors must breach GDPR and any kind of ethical standards. How can Sandy survive this?

www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/scottish-news/rape-crisis-chief-offered-phone-33723265?int_source=nba

What the actual?

Brindley has no morals. This is very very unkind of her.

TwistedWonder · 22/09/2024 10:28

Is she seriously saying that being a black woman and having a penis then claiming to be a woman are comparable?

She really is tone deaf and all about meeeeeeeeeeeeeee

WandsOut · 22/09/2024 10:23

www.scotsman.com/news/opinion/columnists/scots-politicians-would-like-edinburgh-rape-crisis-centre-scandal-to-simply-vanish-4791974

From this damning article

Cole-Hamilton and 85 other MSPs voted in favour of the bill, while 39 were opposed. When the result was announced, the Lib Dem leader and other frontbenchers stood and turned to face a group of trans rights activists – including a number who had posted abusive and threatening messages about biological women online – and applauded. It was a nauseating display by slow-witted men and women whose desire to be seen as being on “the right side of history” trumped any serious consideration of the matter or any concern for women whose right to female-only spaces they were thrilled to remove.
When it became clear, early in 2023, that then Scottish Secretary Alister Jackk* was minded to block the new law on the reasonable grounds that it was incompatible with the existing UK-wide Equality Act, Cole-Hamilton was among those politicians who further humiliated themselves in order to “be kind”. He appeared at a rally in Glasgow, praising trans women for their courage. He singled out activist Beth Douglas – later suspended from the Scottish Greens over complaints about violent online posts, including some photos featuring axes and knives – for praise,
In his best approximation of sincerity, Cole-Hamilton said: “Beth was with us in the public gallery of the Scottish Parliament throughout all of those late-night sessions… in the really dark hours we would look up and see Beth and it was for Beth, for you guys, that we’re doing it.”

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 22/09/2024 10:20

Offering up the phone numbers of survivors must breach GDPR and any kind of ethical standards. How can Sandy survive this?

www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/scottish-news/rape-crisis-chief-offered-phone-33723265?int_source=nba

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 22/09/2024 10:18

WandsOut · 20/09/2024 14:13

Who has the power to trigger a public enquiry into this shitshow?

Charities regulator?

The board of RCS should really be stepping up and drawing a line under this. MSPs and MPs could also do something. They are all cowards apart from the Tories and Alba who have replied to my emails. The rest are wishing this would all just go away.

Well I have news for them, this is not going away. It's going to run and run.

WandsOut · 22/09/2024 08:46

I read the whole interview in Moaning Myrtle's breathless rasp.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 22/09/2024 08:37

That journalist has written a ton of trans stories related to Scotland. He appears to have written all or most of the stories relating to ERCC but also on other topics.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 22/09/2024 07:43

Waaaah I just want to help rape victims (providing of course they agree TWAW and don’t want anything annoying like single sex services)

brindley is is the centre of her own universe. Of course she’s playing all the usual cards and weaponising jkr in her defence because let’s face it, in Sandy’s Scottish circle that’s instant sympathy isn’t it. It’s the sign of the right thinking, that you hate JKR & never mind she founded Abd funded a support service for women

WandsOut · 22/09/2024 07:20

https://archive.ph/4ZxVt

State of this interview with Brindley!

“I’m never upset in front of my daughter. She said, ‘What’s wrong?’” Brindley recalls. “I said, ‘Someone’s calling for my resignation’. She asked: ‘Who?’ I told her: ‘JK Rowling.’”
Brindley’s little girl looked up at her and said: “That’s one of my favourite authors, mummy.”

By now Brindley’s eyes are twinkling as she recounts the incident. “What I didn’t then say was: ‘Well, it’s me or her!” she says, dissolving into laughter.


What a big bad meanie JKR is, picking on poor defenceless crying Sandy.