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To not understand the obsession with ‘doodle’ breeds

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CherryValley5 · 11/09/2024 21:26

Eg: labradoodles, cockapoos etc.

They are absolutely everywhere! Why are people actively seeking out and paying pedigree prices for dogs that are effectively mongrels? Behavioural problems are all too common, not to mention hereditary health issues due to poor and unethical breeding - I am a dog owner and the vast majority of doodles, ‘poo’ breeds etc that I meet are incredibly hyperactive, with owners who have no clue how to deal with them. Obviously there are exceptions, some are lovely but as a rule of thumb they’re dogs that I tend to cross the street to get mine away from.

The breeder who created the labradoodle calls it his ‘life’s regret’ - that speaks volumes in my opinion!

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Chipsahoy · 14/09/2024 09:54

CherryValley5 · 11/09/2024 21:40

One ran and launched at DDog and I today on what should’ve been a lovely, peaceful coast walk - typical useless owner with a flexi lead and 0 control over his dog.

That’s an owner issue not a dog. We have one, sort of acquired, farmer to farmer. She is highly intelligent and a dream to train. She has bags of energy but has acres to roam. She has excellent recall and isn’t allowed to greet people until we take her off her stay command.
The issue isn’t the breed, it’s the people who buy them and don’t realise that’s two highly intelligent and high energy dogs rolled into one. My labradoodle requires as much exercise as my gsd.

YoYoYoYo12345 · 14/09/2024 09:51

Csdrassticcallychanginngnnammes · 14/09/2024 09:24

You are wrong about poodles. They are lovely dogs. We visited the breeder twice. They had the mother and grandmother as family pets. Both dogs were quiet and well behaved.

If you intend getting a puppy, then a proper breeder is the way to go. Any decent breeder welcomes visits and questions. Meet the mother of the puppies and decide for yourself what sort of temperament the breed has. This is what you should do, even if you are going for a poodle cross.

Honestly if you believe poodles are awful, then don’t go near anything crossed with one. Having a hybrid, as you call it, doesn’t mean you won’t get the “awful” poodle character.

Sadly poodle crosses have become so popular, that unscrupulous people are selling them. Personally I don’t have a problem with a cross. I do have a problem with puppy farms and the unscrupulous types.

Nope in my opinion which is just as relevant as yours poodles are awful, anxious, highly strung and some have those awful pom pom haircuts, what is that all about 😂

My sil had 2 and they were dreadful dogs. I wouldn't get one ever. You do you and others can and do in increasing numbers avoid poodles for hybrids instead.

Csdrassticcallychanginngnnammes · 14/09/2024 09:49

CellophaneFlower · 14/09/2024 09:43

Ah, see now I always ask if the dog is a poodle first... just in case 😂

I saw a litter of poodle puppies once. 8 weeks old and had already had their snouts shaved. Why?!

I really don’t know. Some poodle owners are caught up in the idea that the stupid shaved faces, pom poms etc., are how a poodle should look. The stupid cuts have done nothing for the breed. Underneath those cuts is a proper dog! 😂

YoYoYoYo12345 · 14/09/2024 09:44

Freysimo · 14/09/2024 09:06

A reputable breeder wouldn't be breeding cockerpoos.

Rubbish.

CellophaneFlower · 14/09/2024 09:43

Csdrassticcallychanginngnnammes · 14/09/2024 09:39

There is no need to give a poodle a stupid cut. We cut our poodle the same all over, so she looks like a normal dog. And yes, virtually every day people ask if she’s a cockapoo or a cavapoo.

Ah, see now I always ask if the dog is a poodle first... just in case 😂

I saw a litter of poodle puppies once. 8 weeks old and had already had their snouts shaved. Why?!

Csdrassticcallychanginngnnammes · 14/09/2024 09:39

CellophaneFlower · 14/09/2024 09:29

Quite. I'm not sure why anybody would go for a poodle cross if they disliked poodles so much.

I think poodles are beautiful. I'm not keen on their cuts and shaved snouts, but fully coated, people would struggle to distinguish them from a typical doodle.

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There is no need to give a poodle a stupid cut. We cut our poodle the same all over, so she looks like a normal dog. And yes, virtually every day people ask if she’s a cockapoo or a cavapoo.

F0urt33n · 14/09/2024 09:35

Csdrassticcallychanginngnnammes · 14/09/2024 09:24

You are wrong about poodles. They are lovely dogs. We visited the breeder twice. They had the mother and grandmother as family pets. Both dogs were quiet and well behaved.

If you intend getting a puppy, then a proper breeder is the way to go. Any decent breeder welcomes visits and questions. Meet the mother of the puppies and decide for yourself what sort of temperament the breed has. This is what you should do, even if you are going for a poodle cross.

Honestly if you believe poodles are awful, then don’t go near anything crossed with one. Having a hybrid, as you call it, doesn’t mean you won’t get the “awful” poodle character.

Sadly poodle crosses have become so popular, that unscrupulous people are selling them. Personally I don’t have a problem with a cross. I do have a problem with puppy farms and the unscrupulous types.

Yep exactly what we did. Met owner and mother/ father several times. Saw and have the well documented profile, history and health of both parents - which is way more than many of my pedigree owning friends did/ have.

CellophaneFlower · 14/09/2024 09:29

Csdrassticcallychanginngnnammes · 14/09/2024 09:24

You are wrong about poodles. They are lovely dogs. We visited the breeder twice. They had the mother and grandmother as family pets. Both dogs were quiet and well behaved.

If you intend getting a puppy, then a proper breeder is the way to go. Any decent breeder welcomes visits and questions. Meet the mother of the puppies and decide for yourself what sort of temperament the breed has. This is what you should do, even if you are going for a poodle cross.

Honestly if you believe poodles are awful, then don’t go near anything crossed with one. Having a hybrid, as you call it, doesn’t mean you won’t get the “awful” poodle character.

Sadly poodle crosses have become so popular, that unscrupulous people are selling them. Personally I don’t have a problem with a cross. I do have a problem with puppy farms and the unscrupulous types.

Quite. I'm not sure why anybody would go for a poodle cross if they disliked poodles so much.

I think poodles are beautiful. I'm not keen on their cuts and shaved snouts, but fully coated, people would struggle to distinguish them from a typical doodle.

Csdrassticcallychanginngnnammes · 14/09/2024 09:24

YoYoYoYo12345 · 14/09/2024 08:41

Not poodles. They are awful, you couldn't pay me to have one.

Hybrids much better.

You are wrong about poodles. They are lovely dogs. We visited the breeder twice. They had the mother and grandmother as family pets. Both dogs were quiet and well behaved.

If you intend getting a puppy, then a proper breeder is the way to go. Any decent breeder welcomes visits and questions. Meet the mother of the puppies and decide for yourself what sort of temperament the breed has. This is what you should do, even if you are going for a poodle cross.

Honestly if you believe poodles are awful, then don’t go near anything crossed with one. Having a hybrid, as you call it, doesn’t mean you won’t get the “awful” poodle character.

Sadly poodle crosses have become so popular, that unscrupulous people are selling them. Personally I don’t have a problem with a cross. I do have a problem with puppy farms and the unscrupulous types.

CellophaneFlower · 14/09/2024 09:22

lemonmeringueno3 · 14/09/2024 09:05

Why are people so indignant that doodles are 'too expensive.' There's no such thing as too expensive. The price is what the market is willing to bear. Just because you wouldn't pay it, doesn't mean others aren't willing to. You could say this about anything that you don't value - 'people are idiots for paying a lot of money for that thing I myself don't like.'

Not all are expensive anyway, certainly not since lockdown, when the price of all puppies went through the roof.. I just wouldn't expect the cheaper ones to have health checked/hip scored parents.

CellophaneFlower · 14/09/2024 09:18

Freysimo · 14/09/2024 09:08

My neighbour has one and I've never heard her dog bark! Delightful dog.

It's the luck of the draw at the end of the day but you can push the odds in your favour by going for a breed that's not known for its vocalness!

F0urt33n · 14/09/2024 09:17

Freysimo · 14/09/2024 09:06

A reputable breeder wouldn't be breeding cockerpoos.

Says who?

Csdrassticcallychanginngnnammes · 14/09/2024 09:13

olivehater · 14/09/2024 07:32

I would get a doodle breed if I was going to get a dog as I have allergies. They are nice looking dogs without any horrid breathing problems such as pugs or lack jaw such as staffies. The ones I am have come accross always seem to have nice temperaments.
I don’t understand the obsession where I am of getting a “proper working dog” Everyone around here seems to have a hyperactive cocker spaniel. They are a pet. They don’t work!

I can thoroughly recommend an actual poodle, rather than a doodle.

KimberleyClark · 14/09/2024 09:10

Freysimo · 14/09/2024 09:08

My neighbour has one and I've never heard her dog bark! Delightful dog.

My DB has a lab and he barks more when he's asleep and dreaming than when he's awake.

Csdrassticcallychanginngnnammes · 14/09/2024 09:10

lemonmeringueno3 · 13/09/2024 19:39

"But everything people are looking for in a poodle cross, is all there with an actual poodle. Everyone thinks our poodle is a well behaved cockapoo. 😂"

Presumably with a cockapoo you are hoping for the best traits of a poodle and the best traits of a cocker spaniel.

A poodle would not be able to offer that.

With a cross, it’s pot luck what you get. You might get everything you didn’t want.

Freysimo · 14/09/2024 09:08

CellophaneFlower · 14/09/2024 07:12

Tibetan terriers are really vocal from what I've experienced.

My neighbour has one and I've never heard her dog bark! Delightful dog.

Freysimo · 14/09/2024 09:06

poppyzbrite4 · 11/09/2024 21:42

My sister has a cockerpoo and chose the puppy from a reputable breeder. It doesn't have any of those problems and is well behaved with no health issues.

A reputable breeder wouldn't be breeding cockerpoos.

lemonmeringueno3 · 14/09/2024 09:05

Why are people so indignant that doodles are 'too expensive.' There's no such thing as too expensive. The price is what the market is willing to bear. Just because you wouldn't pay it, doesn't mean others aren't willing to. You could say this about anything that you don't value - 'people are idiots for paying a lot of money for that thing I myself don't like.'

F0urt33n · 14/09/2024 08:47

WalkingonWheels · 14/09/2024 08:43

Clearly not 😂

I think you’re just making yourself look a bit silly now.

WalkingonWheels · 14/09/2024 08:43

F0urt33n · 14/09/2024 07:57

Quite! No genius here but my husband and I have 3 degrees between us and have jobs that require a fair bit of intelligence. I think we were bright enough to research and decide on the best dog for our family.

Clearly not 😂

YoYoYoYo12345 · 14/09/2024 08:41

Ylvamoon · 13/09/2024 21:57

And yet there is a breed that has it all & more!
Affectionate, relatively easy to train, human oriented, not phased by much (bomb proof), loyal, almost hypoallergenic, cute, friendly, small to medium sized, ....
Ok, can also be stubborn, suffer from separation anxiety, need a lot of grooming and can be a bit bossy at times.
Do benefit from an experienced dog owner or very good & knowledgeable trainer to bring out the best in them!
Anyone recognise the breed?

Not poodles. They are awful, you couldn't pay me to have one.

Hybrids much better.

F0urt33n · 14/09/2024 07:57

Twodogsonthecouch · 14/09/2024 07:52

I can let a lot of this go because I am intelligent and so don’t engage in arguing with strangers on line but really….

I’m not going to pretend to be a genius but I am a qualified experienced doctor who lectures and does clinical teaching for medical students and am on the board of national organisations.

and I own a doodle. (Who is, as I have already said, a trained assistance dog)

Quite! No genius here but my husband and I have 3 degrees between us and have jobs that require a fair bit of intelligence. I think we were bright enough to research and decide on the best dog for our family.

Twodogsonthecouch · 14/09/2024 07:52

WalkingonWheels · 13/09/2024 21:39

Doesn't surprise me in the slightest. Doodle owners (excluding rescue dogs) aren't the brightest.

I can let a lot of this go because I am intelligent and so don’t engage in arguing with strangers on line but really….

I’m not going to pretend to be a genius but I am a qualified experienced doctor who lectures and does clinical teaching for medical students and am on the board of national organisations.

and I own a doodle. (Who is, as I have already said, a trained assistance dog)

CellophaneFlower · 14/09/2024 07:44

Each breed/ type has some attributes that are not wanted or undesirable.

And this is exactly why I chose my poodle cross. The breeds in her both included things I wanted and things I didn't. I was fully aware however, it was a lottery and was happy to accept all traits of the breeds she's made up - none of them were a deal breaker.

I didn't want a full poodle as I've read they can be highly strung/highly intelligent and sometimes prone to separation anxiety. I also wanted a dog who was a bit more 'robust'. I love everything about golden retrievers bar the shedding.

I've ended up with a dog that's basically a GR with a very low shedding coat. She could be left for long periods if necessary (I've only left her for max 4 hours and very infrequently). She's extremely laid back and not high maintenance at all (apart from her coat, but that's my own doing as I keep her long and groom her myself). She's actually a little too robust - if you walk into her she doesn't move and it's like hitting a brick wall, but it's what I wanted I guess 😂

Ylvamoon · 14/09/2024 07:44

CellophaneFlower · 14/09/2024 07:12

Tibetan terriers are really vocal from what I've experienced.

I have 2 Tibetans & a cookerpoo.

Honestly my TT's don't bark more than the cookerpoo.

I think the issue is, that Tibetans voice is deeper than one would expect.
Overall, they are wonderful dogs, they are able to adapt to your lifestyle in terms of exercise needs.

My cookerpoo gets stir crazy if she's not had her regular walk & play for whatever reason. My Tibetans don't.

@F0urt33n As for the coat, again, the Tibetans are miles better. You keep them short (puppy cut), brush once or twice a week... an adult in full coat 3-4x week, depending very much on the coat itself and grooming products you use.
My cookerpoo has the tight Poodle curls in patches they also need brushing out 2-3x week, unless it's cut super short.