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Did anyone else's parents smoke in the house

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Hernamewaslola22 · 11/09/2024 11:54

I sort of can't believe they did really. This wasn't years and years ago either, 90s and early 00s. How could they be so selfish?

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LibertyStars · 11/09/2024 12:00

Yes, it was pretty common then.

Would I do it? No.
Do I do anything that will be discovered to be dangerous to children on 30 years’ time? Who knows?

SauviGone · 11/09/2024 11:59

FIL still does. He lives alone though.

We don’t ever go to his house any more, I finally put my foot down after years of stinking and having to wash all of our clothes after visiting him.

Clumsy12345 · 11/09/2024 11:59

Yes when we were children my mum use to share a room with 3 of us and would smoke in the room (not even out the window) she also smoked in the car when I was pregnant with my daughter this was only 13 years ago so not ages ago.

jerkchicken · 11/09/2024 11:58

Mine did, up until the early 2000s, and they did many others things I wouldn’t do either. It’s not really something I think about to be honest.

Knickerbockergrolia · 11/09/2024 11:57

Yes - 70s, 80s and 90s (think they eventually stopped around the 00s due to serious health conditions). I HATED it but was bulldozed with 'it's our house we'll do what we want'. I wasn't given the space or freedom to consider that it was also MY home and I had not choice as I was a child. It's unthinkable now, but that's the way I was taught to expect things to be :(

lemonsaretheonlyfruit · 11/09/2024 11:57

Yes! It was completely normal in those days (obviously I don't think that now) . Smoking in all rooms, in the car, ashtrays by their bed.

Waltdisnerd · 11/09/2024 11:57

Still does

usernother · 11/09/2024 11:56

Yes. Plenty of parents still smoke in the house now.

Howdull · 11/09/2024 11:56

Mine did, 70's 80's and 90's. Don't think they knew about passive smoking then.