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To be so upset about the stories in Julie In Gender land?

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TorghunKhan · 11/09/2024 11:45

I'm just staggered at the stories, staggered. I knew it was bad, but social workers treating good, caring parents like criminals, forcing the transition of gay kids, the damage to parents and their mental health, let alone the huge damage to children

Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/5XK1wTA4PTgvwLvDZcKwP9
Julie's substack link with all episodes https://substack.com/@juliebindel

it's hard to move on from this sort of thing, I am a parent, I can't believe most parents know how bad it is out there in our schools

JULIE IN GENDERLAND

Podcast · [object Object] · Julie Bindel investigates how children are being lied to and parents silenced by the cult of trans ideology. juliebindel.substack.com

https://open.spotify.com/show/5XK1wTA4PTgvwLvDZcKwP9

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EasternStandard · 12/09/2024 12:29

Dumbledoreslemonsherbets · 12/09/2024 12:27

I think there needs to be a post office style docu-drama about all this. I hope the likes of Vaishnavi Sundar,* *Hannah Barnes and Julie B can be involved. The BBC won't do it though cos they're all about the Savile style men.

The bits most people would think 'oh this must be fictional embellishment, it's so grim and harmful to children' will be the true bits.

A fair amount of the media are complicit if not culpable

Adults there will have been pushing gender ideology

So many institutions will pull together if this is threatened

Dumbledoreslemonsherbets · 12/09/2024 12:27

TorghunKhan · 12/09/2024 08:20

I just don’t know how much more publicity this could get

Either people don’t believe it or they don’t care?

I think there needs to be a post office style docu-drama about all this. I hope the likes of Vaishnavi Sundar,* *Hannah Barnes and Julie B can be involved. The BBC won't do it though cos they're all about the Savile style men.

The bits most people would think 'oh this must be fictional embellishment, it's so grim and harmful to children' will be the true bits.

Dumbledoreslemonsherbets · 12/09/2024 12:22

KTheGrey · 12/09/2024 05:13

Well it happened under a Tory government, but Kemi Badenoch is red hot on this topic.

Both the main contenders for head of equalities committee are true believers from the twaw belief system, though Wes Streeting is plainly not.

The women handmaidens and men who are all TWAW are less likely to be affected personally by the gay conversion therapy that is Trans ideology and they're rich so they and their families won't suffer the worst problems with it.

For WS I'd imagine he can appreciate what is happening to gay children with this regressive sexist ideology. Also, he apparently has a brain.

It's frustrating because anyone who watches the Transwidows film, listens to Julie in Genderland, reads the Cass review and the WPATH files and look at the outcomes of the many, many employment tribunals about this would of course realise the depths of the failures of safeguarding and insanity which has been allowed to capture our institutions. And even the most hard hearted person would probably think that reinstating proper safeguarding for children is a good idea. But apparently those in government don't have to do due diligence and consider evidence these days.

TorghunKhan · 12/09/2024 11:16

lifeturnsonadime · 11/09/2024 12:04

It’s all insidious, people have been talking about this for years.

No child, or adult for that matter, is born in the wrong body.

If everyone who is in authority, from teachers to parents to social workers says that "yes they can"

The kids believe us, and we end up in this mess. how do we get out

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INeedAPensieve · 12/09/2024 10:52

I don't think I can bring myself to watch/listen to these quite yet. It's too heartbreaking and it's terrifying me. Especially as I'm in Scotland. It's insidious.

poppyzbrite4 · 12/09/2024 10:49

The children are the victims in all this. No one was safeguarding them.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/09/2024 10:47

Haha great analogy. I hope that's how it goes.

Beowulfa · 12/09/2024 10:46

It feels like all the adults have taken mind-bending drugs and have spent the last few years slumped on a beanbag vaguely repeating the few phrases their brains can still remember.

Perhaps it'll be like the Peep Show episode where Olivia Colman's character takes drugs with her cool mates, and Mark comes in, turns the music down, opens the curtains and informs them he's turning on Radio 4 and everything's going back to normal.

poppyzbrite4 · 12/09/2024 10:18

Roystonv · 12/09/2024 09:03

Two things - I hate to think of the money used in so many places to comply with/support the trans agenda/brain washing. Money we now could desperately do with to support everyday basic needs in our communities. Then the amount of precious time wasted on using 'being in the wrong body' to cure children of their problems. Again what opportunities were missed. It gave every working in that field an opt out (not one all agreed with) instead of verified intervention.

The millions the NHS and other organisations spent on this shit is sickening.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 12/09/2024 09:18

TorghunKhan · 12/09/2024 08:20

I just don’t know how much more publicity this could get

Either people don’t believe it or they don’t care?

Maybe you're right. All this stuff has been in the public domain for years yet no journalists have pulled it all together.

Roystonv · 12/09/2024 09:03

Two things - I hate to think of the money used in so many places to comply with/support the trans agenda/brain washing. Money we now could desperately do with to support everyday basic needs in our communities. Then the amount of precious time wasted on using 'being in the wrong body' to cure children of their problems. Again what opportunities were missed. It gave every working in that field an opt out (not one all agreed with) instead of verified intervention.

EasternStandard · 12/09/2024 08:21

TorghunKhan · 12/09/2024 08:20

I just don’t know how much more publicity this could get

Either people don’t believe it or they don’t care?

It's awful but I agree somewhat

Publicity won't change it. Imo it would take a big political shift that will probably come off the back of something else

TorghunKhan · 12/09/2024 08:20

I just don’t know how much more publicity this could get

Either people don’t believe it or they don’t care?

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MrsOvertonsWindow · 12/09/2024 07:53

EasternStandard · 12/09/2024 07:12

Yes you're right it is Orwell meets McCarthy

And indoctrination of next generation won't help

All underpinned by bad legislation

What will change it?

One thing that would change this is publicity. If the Press made schools, local authorities the OU, the Girl Guides etc account for why they've given born males with extreme porn, flashing, nappy & kink fetishes access to children things would change,
There's a very grim story to be told about the nature of some of the individuals who're involved in this repeated erosion of safeguarding and children's boundaries. Maybe Julie could make that the focus of her next podcast?

EasternStandard · 12/09/2024 07:12

TorghunKhan · 11/09/2024 13:10

The 1984, ignore the evidence of your own eyes parallels are too easy to make but they ARE TRUE

children are suffering and dying because those in power look the other way out of fear of being branded a bigot.

yes. Public image is more important than children’s lives.

the man is a prick but the only politician who called out this madness front and centre was Farage. He can’t be the poster boy for this. Where are the rest?

Yes you're right it is Orwell meets McCarthy

And indoctrination of next generation won't help

All underpinned by bad legislation

What will change it?

NotRomanticBreak · 12/09/2024 06:54

TorghunKhan · 11/09/2024 13:42

My son is autistic. He has been affirmed as trans by the local pressure groups and the other parent. I feel like I am living in an upside down world.

Same, only a daughter.

TorghunKhan · 12/09/2024 06:29

KTheGrey · 12/09/2024 05:13

Well it happened under a Tory government, but Kemi Badenoch is red hot on this topic.

Both the main contenders for head of equalities committee are true believers from the twaw belief system, though Wes Streeting is plainly not.

I’m not a tory. I am hoping Kemi wins and highlights this obvious failure in the labour policy.

how the hell can a woman think a man is a woman?

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KTheGrey · 12/09/2024 05:13

TorghunKhan · 11/09/2024 13:10

The 1984, ignore the evidence of your own eyes parallels are too easy to make but they ARE TRUE

children are suffering and dying because those in power look the other way out of fear of being branded a bigot.

yes. Public image is more important than children’s lives.

the man is a prick but the only politician who called out this madness front and centre was Farage. He can’t be the poster boy for this. Where are the rest?

Well it happened under a Tory government, but Kemi Badenoch is red hot on this topic.

Both the main contenders for head of equalities committee are true believers from the twaw belief system, though Wes Streeting is plainly not.

SinnerBoy · 12/09/2024 03:26

From reading the Twitter feed, he operates in my area. Yeuch.

TheKeatingFive · 11/09/2024 23:04

TorghunKhan · 11/09/2024 22:57

I just don’t know what to do with that guy. Why isn’t that just red flags all over?

I am as baffled as you are. Why would anyone think that's okay?

TorghunKhan · 11/09/2024 22:57

I just don’t know what to do with that guy. Why isn’t that just red flags all over?

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TheKeatingFive · 11/09/2024 22:18

And then things like this, which I have read several times now and cannot quite compute that this is happening in plain sight. Read the whole thread for all the disturbing detail.

https://x.com/gaynotqueer1/status/1833380251520360810?s=46&t=OKyRO4eweTteo5FEt_J1MQ

Trust me, if anyone comes back and tells me this is misinformation or I have the wrong end of the stick, I will be immensely relieved.

x.com

https://x.com/gaynotqueer1/status/1833380251520360810?s=46&t=OKyRO4eweTteo5FEt_J1MQ

MrsOvertonsWindow · 11/09/2024 21:57

TheKeatingFive · 11/09/2024 21:43

Attitudes to whistle blowers are very interesting (and concerning).

We are tribal animals - these days more than ever. There is clearly immense discomfort when people go against the tribe.

A slightly different point, but see for instance, the treatment of Glinner by his peers/former friends.

Yes - and the once respected NSPCC who when told that they had a member of staff wearing rubber fetish gear in the work place toilets and positing grim photos online, called those reporting him homophobic bigots! That's when I realised how deeply so many porn soaked men had been able to influence society's care for children. (see also Girl Guides, Mermaids, Educate & Celebrate and countless other organisations "working with" schools and children)

TheKeatingFive · 11/09/2024 21:43

lifeturnsonadime · 11/09/2024 21:22

It’s amazing that the whistleblowing legislation didn’t protect these brave people who stood up for children , that’s precisely what it’s designed for. It just demonstrates how entrenched this ideology is.

Attitudes to whistle blowers are very interesting (and concerning).

We are tribal animals - these days more than ever. There is clearly immense discomfort when people go against the tribe.

A slightly different point, but see for instance, the treatment of Glinner by his peers/former friends.

lifeturnsonadime · 11/09/2024 21:22

It’s amazing that the whistleblowing legislation didn’t protect these brave people who stood up for children , that’s precisely what it’s designed for. It just demonstrates how entrenched this ideology is.