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Tinned hotdogs at school

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Hotdogsarevile · 10/09/2024 21:18

I picked my girls up from after school club today. They were a total nightmare, hyper, wouldn’t listen. Even caught them putting thick paint marker pens onto the rug in the playroom. They’ve never ever done anything like this before. I drill into them that pens belong on paper. They’ve had their pens removed now for 3 days (they’re 6 year old - twins)

When I picked them up from school the after school club staff member said they they’d had hot dogs for snack. The girls started laughing saying that they were all pink and floppy 😳

I absolutely hate tinned hot dogs with a passion. I’m sure it’s one of the reasons they were so hyper.

Would I be unreasonable to ask for them to be given a vegetarian alternative (not asking for something to be made specially but surely they must cater for veggies)

The list of ingredients makes me feel physically sick. I had them when we were kids, along with the packet dried onions you added to the brine 🤢

I pay £10 for each child for after school club (I am aware that people pay much more than this) but part of the selling point is that they get given a healthy snack - last week it was yogurt & grapes - absolutely fine

so

YANBU - hot dogs are the food of the devil

YABU - they enjoyed them let them eat them it’s not like they eat them every day

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Thistooshallpass24 · 12/09/2024 15:47

The op has already said they were probably overtired

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Yeahnoforsure · 12/09/2024 15:26

If this is a new term's after school club, maybe your DDs were reacting to other children, but I wouldn't say the tinned hot dogs ( which, compared even to regular hot dogs) sound revolting . Sugared treats are usually blamed for hyperactivity. I suppose the tinned hot dogs are just one of many snacks the kids will be offered so they don't have the same thing each time? I wonder if the club provides an alternative to any kid who really doesn't like something? There are always allergies to be aware of too. Even if they kept bread and jam, maybe your DDs could have that on "tinned hot dog" day?

Thistooshallpass24 · 12/09/2024 15:16

@TheRestIsEntertainment I don't think mechanically retrieved chicken is an ingredient in KitKat

TheRestIsEntertainment · 12/09/2024 13:05

Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 11/09/2024 21:05

Why don't you care what your kids are being fed?

Eating "something" is a low bar to have.

We are an 'eat anything in moderation' household. No worse than the odd kit kat or packet of quavers or whatever. It's not every day or even regularly.

I find MNers in the whole to be very, very uptight when it comes to food. I don't know anyone like that in real life except a few people with a very unhealthy relationship with eating.

Cel77 · 11/09/2024 21:26

I find them revolting too.

Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 11/09/2024 21:05

TheRestIsEntertainment · 11/09/2024 14:45

Wow so much hate for hot dogs on here! If they got fed them at after school club it wouldn't even register on my radar tbh. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Why don't you care what your kids are being fed?

Eating "something" is a low bar to have.

TheRestIsEntertainment · 11/09/2024 14:45

Wow so much hate for hot dogs on here! If they got fed them at after school club it wouldn't even register on my radar tbh. 🤷🏻‍♀️

SpiderGwen · 11/09/2024 14:32

Two unrelated incidents, hyper children and hot dogs. Have a cuppa and shake it off.

whatwindow · 11/09/2024 14:29

I 100% would not want my children eating tinned hotdogs - gross. As you say, you only have to look at the ingredients. I’d let them know that this is not a healthy snack in the slightest.

I don’t think it has anything to do with your children being naughty though.

Brendabigbaps · 11/09/2024 14:28

I know quite a few people who won’t feed them to their dogs as treats because they make them more hyper

Hotdogsarevile · 11/09/2024 14:24

RedToothBrush · 11/09/2024 14:06

Your children were misbehaving because they aren't the darlings you think they are.

It's got fuck all to do with hotdogs.

You blaming hotdogs is the best 'but my darling child would never do THAT with it being someone else's fault' I've seen in a while.

I absolutely never said they were darlings, I said that they’ve never done anything quite as bad as that when I’ve drilled it into them that pens belong on paper and nothing else

look I think we can agree that 2 things are true here

hotdogs are fucking vile and have no place on a school menu

and yes the eating of the hotdog probably had absolutely nothing to do with them being little shits after a long day at school.

I am far from a perfect parent and my kids are also far from being perfect

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RedToothBrush · 11/09/2024 14:06

Your children were misbehaving because they aren't the darlings you think they are.

It's got fuck all to do with hotdogs.

You blaming hotdogs is the best 'but my darling child would never do THAT with it being someone else's fault' I've seen in a while.

Blondeshavemorefun · 11/09/2024 14:02

Ears eyes and arseholes

I was told that was what they were made out of and stuck with me 🙀😂🤮

Love a proper meaty sausage / def not a hot dog

Slimey and rank

But

You can't blame your kids behaviour on them

MrsSkylerWhite · 11/09/2024 14:01

whatwhatwhot · Today 13:49

You want little dinos franks. They are super

Nitrites are far from ideal

Pocketfullofdogtreats · 11/09/2024 13:59

Hotdogsarevile · 10/09/2024 21:50

Totally agree, sometimes the kitchen has left over pizza so that’s what they have, other times it’s Beans on toast, wraps or sandwiches. I’m so happy with all of those - it bloody hotdogs grrrrrrr

Colouring in food used to send DS hyper. YANBU. I don't know but likely some of those e-numbers are colourings. Having said that, veggie sausages aren't necessarily better. The only decent ones I've found (without additives) are based on mushrooms. So it's a difficult one, asking for alternatives. We feed our kids such crap in this country.
You literally are what you eat.

whatwhatwhot · 11/09/2024 13:49

You want little dinos franks. They are super

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MrsSkylerWhite · 11/09/2024 13:48

I’d be very surprised if a hot dog sausage resulted in your children drawing on a rug!

That said, I wouldn’t be happy with our grandson eating one at school. They provide a menu each week to choose from and it’s all made fresh in-house. Surprised schools are still serving such processed stuff.

I put vegan hotdogs back when I read the ingredients. Didn’t know what half of them were.

yellowroses78 · 11/09/2024 13:45

Bohomovies · 10/09/2024 23:52

What exactly do you mean by “organs”? 🤔**

I mean that almost every part of a pig is edible - so it doesn't matter if a pork product contains ears, snout, trotters, tail etc. That's actually a good thing because it avoids waste and these parts are perfectly nutritious. The only issue really is the other non-pork ingredients.

isthereaway · 11/09/2024 11:02

Hot dogs are not even really 'food' in that they provide no nutrition. Nor are they a 'treat'. I'd send a polite note requesting they are not given hotdogs again. I imagine the behaviour was simple naughtiness but that long list of artificial rubbish won't help behaviour.

zingally · 11/09/2024 10:45

I don't think you can blame a single hotdog for what sounds like fairly normal (albeit naughty and obnoxious) behaviour for a "beginning of term, still adjusting to the routine" 6 year old. Especially with a sibling to egg them on.

TickingAlongNicely · 11/09/2024 09:46

I would send them with a snack box instead.
They will provide whatever is chep and easy due to lack of staff and funding.

But it wouldn't have contributed to their hyperactivity!

Cobblersorchard · 11/09/2024 09:44

DD had hotdogs and a donut as her school dinner this week. She loves a hotdog! So much for healthy food 😂

I can’t get overexcited about what they are made of. I don’t mind them but prefer the better quality german ones.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 11/09/2024 09:38

EVHead · 10/09/2024 21:29

DD used to think they were cow’s udders and now I can’t look at one without heaving. 🤢

I was once served udder - sliced cold meat udder - by my student landlady. It looked a bit like tongue (which I never liked anyway) so I asked what it was. And she told me. 😱
And asked whether I liked it.
But having been brung up to be very polite, I said yes, and ate it anyway.

This was a long time ago - the landlady had told me her family had been very poor when she was a child, and offal was often eaten, because it was cheap. (And of course very nutritious.)
She would still eat e.g. fried chitterlings (intestines) with evident relish but never tried giving me any!

DiscoBeat · 11/09/2024 09:31

I wouldn't be happy with with that. No reason why they couldn't give them a sandwich or beans on toast or something.

Thistooshallpass24 · 11/09/2024 09:25

@susiedaisy1912 and so did the @Hotdogsarevile !