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NHS Sleaze

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Swingsandslides · 10/09/2024 18:47

I met a friend for lunch the other day and she was upset. She wants to be a GP, has finished her degree and is currently doing hospital rotations (apparently, I know not what these terms mean). She was upset as all of the consultants in the department she was working in were really sleazy. She said it’s really common to be patted on the bottom or given a slight hug by a consultant. That there are usually a few sleazy ones and a few nice once’s, but she was upset as this department they were all sleazy. She said there’s a real ‘God complex’ going on with consultants and you are supposed to fawn over them.

I am aghast as working in financial services, a senior member of staff giving a junior female member of staff a pat on the bottom would be instant dismissal. A cuddle would be a final warning etc. Was she telling the truth? This sounds truly horrific!

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Catza · 10/09/2024 18:52

I work for the NHS and it is absolutely not normal. I have never experienced it, witnessed it or heard about it in any of the settings I worked in. Yes, they can be patronising at times, self-centered , disrespectful even but I find it very hard to believe that your friend found that every team has a sex offender in their ranks. It's a complete bollox.
What dis she do about it then? Did she complain? Did she bring it up to anyone's attention? I am guessing no

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